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i kinda really need somebody to worship my feet and if they do a good enough job maybe I'll give them a footjob too

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Treating bdsm like a reward rather than a punishment really activates something in my brain. Edging you because you feel warm, fuzzy, and safe when you're drooling and needy. Roughing you up and throwing you around because the powerlessness makes you feel safe and secure. Cnc because it makes you feel loved and desired. Overstimulation because you deserve to cum extra hard, you've been so good. Humiliating you because it makes you feel adored and empowered. Breeding you because it makes you feel extra connected and appreciated. Keeping you denied because you love feeling feral and needy. Facefucking because being my perfect toy makes you feel so pretty. Stuffing you with toys because you feel so wonderful when you're full. Spanking you because the pretty bruises I leave on your body are a reminder that you're adored. Hurting you because I love you and you love to be hurt.

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Hi hello it's that time again;

Obedient submissive appreciation time!

You, obedient submissive, here are your orders

1. Stop comparing yourself to brats; your style of submission is different not lesser

2. Accept that a dominant who is right for you will treasure your obedience

3. Keep eagerly obeying and doing exactly as your told

I know know those are hard orders to follow but all I ask is that you try your best

Us dominants appreciate you and your style of submission <3

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remember when taking your puppygirl out for walks it's important to occasionally step on her leash and force her head down to kiss your boots. it keeps her properly trained to the social order in your household

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Right this moment you are telling yourself a story

It's a story about you, and in many ways the story is you

You probably see this story as reality, the facts of your past and the truths about yourself

Your story probably has villains; maybe your parents or your teachers or your exs

Your story hopefully has heros; those who have had a significant positive affect on your story

You might be telling a story where you have a lot of control over the events, but you might be telling one where you have little or no control. This likely has very little to do with how much control you've actually had over the events of your life

Some people believe their own story so strongly no amount of evidence could ever make them believe something that's not true in their story

This story is similar to breathing; it's a subroutine within you that will go on working without your direct input, but you can also switch to manual control and similar to taking deep breaths to calm yourself down you can change your story to help yourself survive

So if you want control over someone there a few ways you can exploit this

You could become a hero in their story; you should probably do this by actually helping them but really all you need to do is be appear hero shaped and let them do the rest

You could influence or directly take control of their story; you can do this by telling them a new story, but be careful because if you try to change their story too much too quickly or try to challenge one of their facts without enough authority they'll reject everything you've told them

Or, finally and most potently, you can replace their narrator with your own voice

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horny for mech pilots. horny for commanding officers. WHERE is the horny for r&d.

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spanking isn't a punishment, it's a reward, it's showing appreciation, it's making sure your sub feels seen and wanted, it's giving someone your time and attention, it's how you tell someone you love them

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i wonder what psychological effect it would have if i taped a stethoscope to my victim's chest and made them listen to their own heartbeat while they got tortured. i suspect it'd lend itself super well to fearplay even if that wasn't what i was going for

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I know that as a submissive, it can be hard to know exactly what it is we want and use our words to express it. Especially if you've ever had to deal with a fake Dom.

But honestly, it's so worth it to take the time to think or journal exactly what you want from a Dom. Once you know it's easier to express and once you express it's easier to find people who want to give you what you want.

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One thing I would likely do with a pet is enforce a nap time in a cage I have specifically set aside to keep My pets in. Every day, for at least half an hour, My pet should be guided inside to have some time away from the pressures of doing this and that.

Comforts for the cage are an optional extra. If it wants a blanket to cover the hard floor of the cage, it better make sure I am happy. If it wants pillows or stuffies, I best be pleased with its behaviour. If it wants My attention while it's in the cage, it best make sure that I feel appreciated as its dominant.

My attention can range from gentle cooing, to anchoring its hands and feet to the bars and poking it with a stick through the gaps. Perhaps I shall put its hands in mitts and attach a shock collar to it, and zap it from time to time.

But it better remember that cage time is nap time. The more I torment it, the longer it will be in there. Though I imagine some pets would like that, wouldn't they?

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One thing I would likely do with a pet is enforce a nap time in a cage I have specifically set aside to keep My pets in. Every day, for at least half an hour, My pet should be guided inside to have some time away from the pressures of doing this and that.

Comforts for the cage are an optional extra. If it wants a blanket to cover the hard floor of the cage, it better make sure I am happy. If it wants pillows or stuffies, I best be pleased with its behaviour. If it wants My attention while it's in the cage, it best make sure that I feel appreciated as its dominant.

My attention can range from gentle cooing, to anchoring its hands and feet to the bars and poking it with a stick through the gaps. Perhaps I shall put its hands in mitts and attach a shock collar to it, and zap it from time to time.

But it better remember that cage time is nap time. The more I torment it, the longer it will be in there. Though I imagine some pets would like that, wouldn't they?

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Finding someone who naturally looks like My younger self seems a lot harder than just taking a girl who has My approximate face shape and build, and dyeing her hair the same colour as mine and dressing her up in My clothes and teaching her how I used to behave. I will show her what a real domme looks like.

save me dominant hypercomposed women who look like an older version of myself...

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This is My perspective too.

I would rather have two or three submissives that are as devoted to Me as I would be to them, than a hundred that throw themselves at My feet but that I could not identify by name. I have seen dominant personalities burn out from casting their nets too wide, and ruining not only their own enjoyment of kink, but hurting their followers in the process.

What will that submissive do when their cult leader refuses to be dominant because they're burned out? They will break. They will feel betrayed when their dominant wants to step back, they will feel abandoned when their dominant wants to focus on less intense kink, they will feel unwanted when their dominant doesn't want to be dominant with them.

It is unsustainable, and I won't do it.

Tgirl domme on tumblr 'don't start a cult' challenge level extreme

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I love to inflict a violence

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save me dominant hypercomposed women who look like an older version of myself...

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best response to "oh, i have no limits LOL just do whatever you want to me! <3" is wordlessly getting out a large heavy iron stake and mallet with a dead-serious expression and then turning to them and scanning over their skin slowly and deliberately like you're looking for the best most painful place to do whatever you want. gets em to establish boundaries REAL quick.

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being too cute is a valid reason to punish a sub imo