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My Acotar hot take is Feyre needs to go no contact with her sisters, SJM’s romanticism of Feyre’s abuse is just an abuser’s dream and anyone who actually suffered what Feyre went through from her family would tell you that the second they can they are NEVER seeing their family again.

Feyre was financially, emotionally and verbally abused for years and now her sisters are still living off her and these stans think that that’s normal … No, and frankly it’s fucking annoying how many times I see Nesta stans say “they need to get Nesta, Feyre and Elain away from the NC” NO we need to get Feyre away from her abusive sisters, just because u wanna fantasise about all verbal abuse victims being as docile as Feyre doesn’t mean they will.

In reality if you treat ur siblings the way Nesta treated hers I can promise u they will hate u forever, they will love you because ur family but they will never forgive you because u ruined them and u can’t take it back.

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Nesta stans logic baffles me wtf do u mean Rhys not telling Feyre about her dangerous pregnancy so she won’t go into early labour while he finds a solution to save her is WORSE then Tamlin beating Feyre nearly to death and Arobynn beating Aelin nearly to death …..

WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK 😳😳 y’all need Jesus

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finished the mask falling and this is about where i’m at emotionally

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See I hate Nesta but I agree, her and Cassian shouldn’t be together, but I just wanna point out that neither should Eris : “I’d rather have her than that”

Eris only sees Nesta as a possession to have not as a person, he also sees the power she possesses not just physically which is a lot but emotionally, he knows the lengths feyre has gone to save her sisters in the past so obviously he would’ve used Nesta as a tool to further his gain.

Again I loathe Nesta but I still believe she should’ve just ended up alone with her books and friends like a cat lady or something.

Nessian vs. Neris

Cassian: "Nesta forged a new Trove...She could create anything. She could fill our arsenals with weapons that would win us any war."

Eris: "I mean that whatever you want, I'll give it to you in exchange for her. As my bride." He jerked his chin to the box with the dagger at Rhys's feet. "I'd rather have her than that."

That moment when you think Nesta's endgame is going to be the male who would give everything for her. The male who would rather have her than the dagger she Made.

And then SJM'S like, "Lol. No. Nesta's endgame is the male who wants to use her to Make more weapons so the Night Court can win any war. The male who wants to use her to make Feysand High King and Queen. The male who can only find a reason to admire her when she sacrifices her powers to save Feysand's lives."

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Anytime a Nesta Stan says that the IC was in the wrong for putting Nesta in the HOW I immediately know they lack common sense. Like Nesta was an addict who hurt herself by sleeping around cause she felt she deserved it … and u think that’s better for her ? Listen just cause ur stuck in ur shit self loathing bubble doesn’t mean we all have to … get therapy u clearly need it.

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I will never understand the fandoms obsession with making Nesta the High Lady of the Dusk Court, whilst simultaneously claiming Feyre shouldn't be/isn't a real High Lady of the Night Court. How is Nesta any more qualified, or have any more potential to be a good HL compared to Feyre who has *actually* put in the work to learn the history, customs, and done so much for the NC/Prythian already

It’s all self insertion darling, these Nesta stans only see themselves as Nesta that’s why they attack u so much when u insult Nesta, because they’re so mentally ill they can’t differentiate Nesta from themselves. Therefore when they ram the idea of Nesta being the “true high lady” it’s because they want that validation that they are special… 🤨 my god

Nesta is no where near qualified to take care of a country, at least Feyre trained, like when she was learning how to master all her powers she was learning the ways, customs and traditions of all courts, she also got thought the education Rhys was put through so yes she’s qualified.

And u are so right we see in FS that Feyre is still learning and trying to put the work in, in fact she’s working so much her subjects have to force her to go home.

Like …. It’s 100% self insertion on their part and it’s embarrassing

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people might “it’s not that deep” this but i think it’s concerning the amount of hate feyre has been getting in the last few years.

it used to be really popular to criticize tamlin, now new readers wont allow folks to say fuck tamlin without ten of his annoying fans being like “but rhys did this” “but feyre was mean :(“ “he deserves a redemption arc”

the rise of misogyny and victim blaming in this fandom normalizes this behavior irl. would you see an abused woman who talks back to her abuser, he shows physical violence towards her, and tell her “well you knew he would react that way. why would you provoke him?? YOU’RE THE MANIPULATIVE ONE.”

especially with the rise of alt-right talking points on tiktok, conservatism, and misogyny. you can’t convince me there isn’t a problem with the way people hate on feyre to prop up her abuser.

acotar and acomaf chronicle feyre’s journey through being a lonely girl who falls in love with a man that promises her safety when she’s never known that, and then becomes controlling and wants to hide her from the world and disempower her. it’s not up for debate. it’s not subtle, it’s very on the nose for an abusive relationship. tamlin didn’t just change over night, you were viewing him through feyre’s rose colored glasses.

when i re-read acotar, i was struck by the fact that feyre and tamlin had maybe two serious conversations where they got to know each other before they were in love. feyre has more serious conversations with rhys in acotar and is able to be herself way more with him, and she notes that herself.

it’s scary to see how misogynistic female dominated spaces in book fandoms can really get, especially with misogyny on the rise in young men. does thinking that eris or tamlin are interesting mean you hate women? no, but when you hate on their victims and treat them noticeably more charitable than you do for female characters it does!

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What in the FUCKERY is this …..

Gwynriel/ Nesta stans are so desperate

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If you make a video saying

“If this man becomes the biggest villain in Prythian ..Don’t care, Like if he becomes another Hybern and fucks everybody over and try’s to kill everybody .. like valid”

And then get mad at me for pointing out that Hybern wanted slavery and caused a genocide, and u saying u wouldn’t care if lucian caused slavery is actually weird AF …. Who’s actually in the wrong ?

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Is... Is that actually what they're saying? That's disgusting omg

Like Rhys version of the r word? 🤮🤮

Nesta stans are some of the most disgraced vile people there is.

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Ok so you can criticise Rhys and call him a rapist and murder, calling me a rat, rapist and the newest name for Rhys fans is rhyt*rds….

But I can’t criticise Nesta because you relate to her … ignoring the fact that I like Rhys because I relate to him. Do u know how stupid u look !!!!!

Good I hate Nesta stans 🙄

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I need their story on screen like yesterday

Rhaenys, Aegon and Visenya (commission piece)

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Can someone please let me know if she said something… they can’t keep doing this to me

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White Acotar fans think the solution to Illyrians rebelling is for Rhys to kill all of them and basically commit mass murder and torture against his own people (who are already oppressed). It says a lot about how they view people of color that they think Rhys not murdering them when they act out of turn is some character flaw on his part.

With the Court of Nightmares it’s “They can’t all be bad, they just exist under a broken system and need to be shown the right way”. But with the Illyrians it’s “Rhys just needs to show his aggression and kill the ones who disagree with him or else they won’t ever respect him as a ruler”.

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Y'all saying you want Rhys to just kill everyone that doesn't agree with him ... Do you not realise how psychotic u look?? .. darling u want Rhys who u already HATE to ethnically cleanse a race because they won't conform to what u want ... that's colonisation darling, and in case u weren't aware ... that's wrong

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You're dropping some hard and long overdue truths about Nesta. It's hard not to call her the worst person in the series. At least as horrible as Amarantha was or the king of Hybern, they know they're cruel and evil. Nesta is delusional and doesn't have a single good or redeeming quality. She is worthless even after the so-called redemption arc! Cassian is a nice guy and I feel sorry for him. He didn't deserve to be shackled to an abuser.

I don’t believe Nesta is a villain but I also don’t believe she’s as morally good or kind as people try to paint her to be. I don’t believe she’s this person who is hard on the outside but really soft on the inside. She’s blatantly admitted to not caring about domestic abuse, to moving a disabled man’s can out of his reach, to slut shaming, to using death during childbirth (something extremely traumatic) to hurt a pregnant woman, to blaming daughters for the deaths of their parents, to using someone’s upbringing to hurt them, and so much more.

At what point can we look at all the vile things Nesta has said or done and accept that she’s not that good of a person? At what point do we stop using this trauma excuse? At what point do we admit that doing bad things for the sake of doing bad things is a deciding factor in whether someone is a bad person?

This excuse that “she’s not a bad person just a traumatized person” is a very problematic line of thinking for me because trauma does not change actions. It explains actions for sure but it can’t change them or their effect.

And truthfully if I was mated to Nesta I would feel shackled too. She’s someone who constantly fights with his family and spent years taking pleasure in hurting someone he now sees as a sister. Of course he would feel some type of way about being with someone who seems to strive off of conflict and being difficult just for the sake of it. It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love her, he’s just not blind to her many flaws.

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Tamlin stans romanticizing him and thinking he’s so great when literally everyone at the HL meeting wanted to throw him out for his verbal abuse and mockery of Feyre and sided with Rhysand who was still seen as the bad guy is so funny

Tamlin isn’t deep. You’re being a pick me bc you think you can change him or think that he’d be nice to YOU instead of how he abused Feyre.

Your problematic fave wouldn’t ever choose you and you would never be what changes them in any world they’d actually exist.

Hating the main characters of a story and loving the abusive side characters with no real redeeming qualities doesn’t make you special, it makes you cringe.