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Ayo Edebiri for Citizen Magazine Photographed by Justin French

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some of my fav space wizards 💗💗💗

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2 mins later:

Kenyatta: “Hope you don’t get murdered.”

Me: “Whaaat??? Are you going to kill me? Is there a murderer in town??”

What a wild thing to say.

Reth: “…there’s nothing wrong with easy. Lots of good things are easy—walks on the beach, cheese sandwiches, me.”

Me: 👀 “¿qué qué?”

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Reth: “…there’s nothing wrong with easy. Lots of good things are easy—walks on the beach, cheese sandwiches, me.”

Me: 👀 “¿qué qué?”

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the point was thoroughly lost the second the debate over calling trans people terms like bro and queen and dude became "is it gender neutral" and not "dont call people things they dont want to be called". like, frankly I dont give a shit if theyre gender neutral, what matters is that one of the core tennents of respecting trans people is simply not calling people things they dont want to be called. its not that hard.

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Three experiences i had at my southern california university LGBT center:

-Faculty berating me, yelling into the queer space from outside it, about “what about the LGBT women who would immeidately see someone as big and tall and you and get scared and have flashbacks about men? Just because you wanna be a girl? What do you expect to be done about them??” And everyone in the queer space turning away and not helping me, and i had to end up saying “i don’t know.” Which helped bring the UNIVERSITY FACULTY MEMBER to her senses and she stopped. But no one said shit about it, no one came up to me after, nobody helped or did anything.

-i was facing housing insecurity, and went to the wall of resources (bunch of different panphlets of paper describing different queer organizations and events and listings) and found information for housing. “Afab only.” In fact, basically about half of all the resources were listed as “afab only.”

-I commented idly about how there were not as many trans women in the queer space, and like zero older trans fems when there were plenty of trans mascs. And everyone gave somber, rejected looks and said shit like “no one knows why trans women end up leaving us,” implying trans women are routinely selfishly wanting to distance themselves from the queer community to pass better. And i was devastated thinking trans women just routinely leave fully welcoming queer spaces for no good reason.

Can you guess why some trans women and other TMA people are absolutely terrified of going into queer spaces after experiencing all this in ONE queer space?

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Hassian is so fucking funny. He’s trying so hard to maintain the illusion of this tough exterior with lines like, “Apologies if my home is a bit Spartan for your taste; my mother and I both know a house is nothing more than shelter,” and “Is it cold outside? I hadn't noticed; I’ve trained myself so I no longer feel the cold,” and “Excuse me if I appear surly; I didn't get much sleep last night as I slept indoors.” 😂🙄

But as you get to know him, his dialogue shifts to talking about the stars and he hits you with lines like, “You know I never wanted much out of life—just a purpose, a hearth to call my own, and… someone to share those things with” or “If I were a less disciplined man, I'd be happy to stay up all night stargazing with you.” And then you find out his hobby is writing poetry; he waxes poetic about people’s eyes in his free time, he keeps letters from his late momma under his pillow, he’s very passionate about invasive species, and he loves the peace of the valley and all its animals. And—because gifting is a mechanic of the game—you find out he likes some of the finer things, like Akwinduu Chaapa (a fancy food for fancy Palians), silk, metal bars like gold and pallium, emeralds (his star stone), and pearls.

Plus, he plays cards every day with a local kiddo, wanting to be a brotherly-like role model for him.

I’m like… yeah, yeah, yeah… so tough 🙄

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Astor Residence @spanarchitecture in #Maine Photo by @robkarosisphoto

Get Inspired, visit www.myhouseidea.com

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Agot Chol by Alberto Aguar for Schon Magazine September 2024

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everyone shut up and look at this

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I swear to God my campaign has been documented for a year, and I am living through famine like everyone else. Until when will there be injustice in sharing and support here?😢💔💔🙏

*I am pregnant 💔

*Hunger is extremely harsh during pregnancy

*Homeless, living in a tent

* 10 people living in a single tent — with nothing to eat

*My family is suffering from hunger

*My grandmother’s body is frail from lack of food

*The markets are expensive

Life is very hard — no matter how many details I write, I cannot explain the suffering.

What can I do to receive support like everyone else?

🔗 [https://gofund.me/69d9ed7c]

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✅Vetted! #6 on @/gaza-evacuation-funds list here, #451 on vetted list by el-shab-hussien, MohAyesh and Nabulsi,

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White people do reblog without going "I'm white but—" "As a white person—". If you have a story about another Black or brown person's experience, then share it without drawing attention to your whiteness, or share what made you laugh in the tags and move on.

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"i do not dream of labour" is one of the worst pseudo-marxist taglines that western leftists have co-opted because when you ask them what they do dream of, they say traveling, studying, and creating art. broski, who's flying the plane to take you to prague? who's the security at the library with the texts you're studying? who are the clerks in the museum showcasing your art? like bro, you do dream of labour. you just dream of someone else doing it so you don't have to! you merely want to outsource the labour and make it invisible.