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being on the aro spectrum would be a lot easier if being single wasn't made to feel like a literal death sentence
#this is literally what i keep trying to explain to my therapist#i don't even have any kind of label because years ago i realized i can't pick something to properly define me#but sometimes i think i might fit somewhere in the aroace spectrum#and this post says everything i've thought for basically my entire life#it is SO hard to make people understand all of this and how it feels#because even if you do have friends the sad and inevitable reality is that you'll ALWAYS come second#“it doesn't mean that they don't love you” true but also you will /never/ be the person they'll prioritize#you're always going to be the one they'll make a little bit of space for when their partner is not available or when it's been a while and#- it's okay to “steal” time away from their partner#and there's nothing you can do about it you just have to accept that you'll never come first for anyone#all the people i know are in a relationship or want to be in one so... no matter how much i try to make peace with it#it will always feel alienating and lonely. even if you have friends#also i'd like to highlight the part of the post saying that being single is treated like a problem that needs to be fixed because TRUE#it's exhausting#friendship is always treated like the second to last step in a relationship with someone#i am so fucking tired. i don't think many people understand how much friendship is important to me#it's not something i settle for when there's no romantic spark. it's the whole purpose to me#it feels very lonely when it's clearly not like this for the people around you#you have no idea how much i'd love to live with one of my friends in a total platonic way but it will never happen#because they all will obviously end up living with their partners#and yeah like i'm happy for them and all but i'm also allowed to be sad about it#anyway. great post that everyone should read#txt
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Trees and Snow (Pine Forest and Snow), 1933. Ansel Adams (1902-1984). Silver print.
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HOW THE GRINCH STOLE CHRISTMAS dir. Ron Howard, 2000
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RENFIELD (2023) dir. Chris McKay
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Krampus (2015) dir. Michael Dougherty
Saint Nicholas is not coming this year. Instead, a much darker, ancient spirit. His name is Krampus. He and his helpers did not come to give, but to take.
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EVIL | 3x10 "The Demon of The End"
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FRIENDS • S3E10 • “The One Where Rachel Quits”
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PARKS AND RECREATION 5.05 Halloween Surprise
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You can be too old for a lot of things, but you're never too old to be afraid.
HOME ALONE (1990) DIR. CHRIS COLUMBUS
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john locke is such an absolute nutjob and im obsessed with him. imagine having the world's most horrendous daddy issues and chosing to cope with this by forcibly adopting everyone you meet. even if they already have a father. john saw micheal's dysfunctional relationship with walt and went "okay, my son now." charlie's struggling with addiction? adoption time. oh claire's mad at him? i am her dad now and also im raising aaron. boone? my son. this random hitchhiker? my son. dude is collecting surrogate children like pokemon, and he's not even a good father figure. he frequently causes problems for the people in question. BUT BY GOD HE DOES NOT LET THAT STOP HIM
that cop eddie knew all he needed to do was get in john's car and trauma dump about his shitty father and john would immediately go "okay yeah you're my son now."
ben probably could've manipulated him twice as effectively if he used this strategy, but instead he was too busy projecting his own daddy issues by trying to make john kill his abusive dad like he did. meanwhile john is reliving the cycle getting conned by ben over and over again just like he trusted his father. they're competing in the daddy issues olympics and no one is winning
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if there's not a “deactivated” next to the blog title but when you click there's nothing does that mean you're blocked? 🤔
#if that's the case it means that for the first time a mutual has blocked me lol#a bit sad cause i actually liked her. oh well#if that's true i wonder what was the last straw#i used to have a mutual who deactivated and it showed because it was written next to the title + the date she deactivated#but this is different so... idk#jess.txt
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snowy textures in lincolnshire, england
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hi darlings! ✨️ happy holidays! ❄️ interacting with you guys has been so much fun this year. i feel closer to a lot of you (especially those i've been mutuals with for 8+ years; you guys are amazing for that). i'm also so grateful for the new mutuals i've made this year (more than usual, yay!). thank you all so much for interacting with my edits, sending me messages, playing tag games with me, and making my dash beautiful. you guys remind me i'm not alone, and there's someone (more than one) who understands me. thank you! 💖 if i've tagged you here, please know i love you, you are wonderful, and you've made at least one person happy (me lol). forgive me if i forgot to tag some of you, i get so confused with url changes 🙈 but you know ily! i'm wishing you the best this holiday. you did an amazing job this year; be proud :)
i hope 2025 will be a better year for us all. you guys deserve the very best 💕mutuals tagged below the cut! ❤️💚❤️💚
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@abernathaes ♡ @andialmostdo ♡ @aino-minakos ♡ @angelamcss ♡ @aredhels ♡ @bellameblake ♡ @biilpotts ♡ @bruceewayne ♡ @buchananjames ♡ @buckybarsn ♡ @burke-juliet ♡ @buyingorangejuice ♡ @carpenter-sabrina ♡ @carveredlunds ♡ @carriefisher ♡ @coffee-in-europe ♡ @coldasyou ♡ @cavarage ♡ @crowleyaj ♡ @cyborg-cinderella ♡
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@danystargaryens ♡ @davinaclaires ♡ @diegoshargreevs ♡ @eightiesharrington ♡ @elenas ♡ @favroitecrime ♡ @felicitykings ♡ @finnickodaiir ♡ @firstfallofsnow ♡ @golden-loves ♡ @halfmoonshines ♡ @halfstayed ♡ @haillily ♡ @harmoon ♡ @heartwasglass ♡ @hellshee ♡ @henrywinteris ♡ @hibiskooks ♡ @ianmitchells ♡ @imaginearyparties ♡ @jakeperalta ♡ @jjameslily ♡ @jeaanmoreau ♡ @jeanmoreaux ♡ @joequinns ♡ @juliet-ohara ♡
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@kahans ♡ @laurabenanti ♡ @leaiorganas ♡ @lookforanewangle ♡ @lucybaird ♡ @luucydacus ♡ @magbane ♡ @masiepeters ♡ @misswift ♡ @munsonseds ♡ @mybrightstar ♡ @my-lover ♡ @natromanovs ♡ @neverfindmegone ♡ @nightlock ♡ @nonsensechristmass ♡ @nordstars ♡
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@obsessedx ♡ @ohmoriartea ♡ @padme-amidala ♡ @penelope-garcia ♡ @queens-clarke ♡ @riccis ♡ @samwinchcster ♡ @scorpiussmalfoyy ♡ @sherlockig ♡ @shipmvn ♡ @slyhtherins ♡ @spiteslucanis ♡ @stevebcks ♡ @strikingjann ♡ @sunflowervol6 ♡ @swkywalker ♡ @tayloralison ♡ @teamred ♡ @thepinkscale ♡ @tommensbaratheons ♡ @tonytoponi ♡ @tornadocowboy ♡ @userhalsey ♡ @userlorelai ♡ @visenyatargaryen ♡ @waddinghamhannah ♡ @waxladrian ♡ @22s ♡
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