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Take your time. You don’t have to fix or solve everything in one fell swoop- Just wanting to solve things in the first place is a sign that things are on the right track. Things don’t have to be solved right away, and that’s ok.

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Only you have the ability to control every aspect of you, nobody else can make you do anything. It's okay- just take a breath and think about it.

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One day at a time, ok? We'll split up things that look too big until we can manage it! Section by section. Little by little. We've got this.

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hey mx blyndeff, can i get some real quick they/them pronoun positivity? saying people using them are valid?

Of course!! People who use they/them pronouns are valid and cool! You can use any pronouns you want, and anyone who says otherwise is a jerk!

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Can I get some positivity abt finding ways to stay occupied?

Oh! Um, my friends keep telling me I have to learn how to take care of myself, so I think balancing that with the tasks is super important! Make sure to prioritize things too, with top priority being things coming soon or that are just important to get done!

If you're just looking for ways to stay occupied though, then preparing for stuff is generally safe to do. It never hurts to be over-prepared, right? Organize things, setting stuff up-

I have a hard time getting things here organized though.. Oh, what if you keep your things extra organized for me? That way I know that I was able to help organize something!

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I know it's really hard to be motivated sometimes, and that's okay! Move at your own pace, let's take things one thing at a time.

We'll get through this.

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Have you eaten anything today? Drink some water instead of things like energy drinks! I know energy drinks look more tempting but water is a lot better in the long run. It's an investment!

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Take a moment and breathe! Close your eyes, take a deep breath in as far as you can, pause, and sloowly breathe out. Relaxing your breathing can be a big help, and it's important to remember that you're safe.

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I'd like to um. Ask for some feedback. I care about you and how you're feeling, so I would like to know if there's any message I can provide that can brighten up your day!! My inbox is open, and I'm trying to be active again, so drop by sometime!

..please?

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Don’t stretch yourself too thin. I’m trying to work on this myself, and just recently had to tell my friend that I couldn’t do her homework, and she understood! Uh- point is, it’s OK to say if you have too much on your plate and need to adjust, or if you feel overwhelmed and need to lighten the load enough to take a breather.

It’s okay. You’ll be okay.

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I would rather spend time here with all of you than do my tax returns! 

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You're a treat!! And there's no trick about it! 💕Hehe.

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Take a moment and breathe! It’s important to take stock of where you are and how you are doing; what might’ve changed from before, and what you might be able to change immediately to make a difference! It’s ok if you don’t notice right away, I’m sure you’ll do great.

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I’m so proud of you and everything you’ve accomplished, please stop selling yourself short. Selling things for less than they’re worth is a huge problem. You’re underpricing yourself and you know it, please don’t do that to yourself.

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I’m glad that you’re still here.

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If you needed some motivation to get things started today, here you go!

You’ve got this! The sooner you start, the sooner you can get it over with. Who knows- maybe you’ll finish early, and then you’ll have some time to change it to be even better! You can even spend that time to play instead with anything you might want to play with!

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Hey molly what's your favorite type of bear?

Oh, jeez. Um, there are so many different types of bears that it’s hard to decide! I mean, there are brown bears and grizzly bears (They’re different! Brown bears are bigger and live on a coast while grizzlies have bigger lump things on their back and live inland!) and sloth bears and sun bears and black bears and!! Um. Sorry, I’m rambling.

My favorite bear... I want to say brown bears because they’re the most widespread and a lot nicer than grizzly bears- my hoodie also looks like a brown bear, and it’s really important to me. When it comes to how they act though, I think the asian black bears? They’re a lot shyer and not as aggressive and the only danger you’ll be in if you were around one is if it felt like you were threatening it.

Uh- not to say that bears aren’t dangerous, though! They very much are and regardless of the species, you shouldn’t engage with them- please? Please don’t walk up to a bear. I don’t want to be responsible for that or what happens.