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Mommy's 25 Diaper Rules

1) Baby is now 2 years old from here on.

2) Diapers are to be worn anytime a baby would normally have a diaper on until mommy decides otherwise. Diapers will be used for everything restroom related at home and in public.

2a) If baby consistantly holds the need to wet or mess while in public until returning home it might become a requirement that baby either takes laxatives each morning or an enema before going out to promote becoming comfortable using his diapers as needed and to become accustomed to the wet and/or messy feeling while out and about.

3) You are not allowed to remove or adjust your diaper for any reason.

4) Only mommy or an approved babysitter can change your diaper. Regular checks will be performed anytime and anywhere. Mommy will try to be discrete if possible, but checks will be performed regularly and you must allow for your diaper to be inspected immediately when requested to do so. Diaper checks and changes are performed at mommy's convenience and they cannot be prevented by baby for any reason.

5) When baby messes his diaper at home it is required that a squatting position be maintained as to serve an a visable non-verbal warning to mommy or babysitter that a diaper change will be needed soon.

6) You absolutely cannot enter a restroom without mommy being with you.

7) Using a potty is now forbidden until otherwise stated.

8) Baby is forbidden from touching any private parts underneath or through a diaper.

9) You are now mommy's little baby and any sexual contact with mommy is not alloud while wearing your diapers.

10) Baby may only wear a shirt and diaper while at home in order to allow for mommy to easily see when a change is needed. Anything covering your diaper is forbidden unless permission is given by mommy.

Note: No covering the diaper at home is one of the most important rules in making diapers a longterm or even permanent addition to your littles life. Over time they will become accustomed to seeing themselves in a diaper and not thinking about it. Your little will start to become fine with dressing for comfort and not to hide anything. After several weeks they will start to be fine with dressing more comfortable in public and may eventually not even try to hide their diaper anymore since it's not even a second thought to them.

10a) In public jeans or sweatpants will usually be alloud. Pants will adequately cover the baby's diaper. However, jeans and sweatpants worn out will not be so big that the diaper buldge, swelling from usage and diaper outlines are not visable preventing easy checks.

10b) Gym and work out clothing will generally be a little tighter fitting than jeans and sweatpants.

10c) When having to attend class or work a onesie will be permitted wear as to assist in holding any wet or messy diaper sags in place until baby can return home and can be appropriately changed by an approved adult.

10d) If mommy or an approved babysitter places your pacifier/binky in your mouth at anytime it must remain in place until removed by the caregiver. You may not talk or babble during pacifier time.

11) While at home any drinks will be given in a bottle or sippy cup with a lid. Absolutely no glass cups or anything without a lid can be used by baby.

12) 3 days a week will consist of only baby food being offered. Usually this will be Monday, Wednesday and Saturday.

13) Baby will not use adult language or big words for any reason. Only a babyish babble, baby appropriate sign language, non-verbal signals, crying or pointing with the occasional small/age appropriate word can be used when trying to communicate all wants and needs with mommy or a supervising adult.

14) Mommy will pick out your outfits anytime it is necessary to go out in public and will assist you in getting dressed. Selected outfits must be worn without complaints.

15) All hair must be removed from the diapered area and must be maintained smooth.

16) A diaper must be immediately put back on as soon as bathtime is finished. Mommy will supervise each bath time for baby's safety.

17) You will be respectful to all adults and do as you are told.

18) You cannot hide, lie or be ashamed of your diapers since they are necessary- be proud. If asked if you are wearing a diaper by any adult you must respond correctly.

19) Baby cannot be left at home alone. An adult such as a babysitter will always be present if mommy is not available.

20) When crossing any street baby must hold mommy's or babysitters hand.

21) Big boy underwear must be put in storage until further notice and diapers will be stored in their place. Mommy will select any color or style of diapers she wishes and will keep a home supply maintained.

22) Bedtime is 10:30pm sharp, unless stated otherwise.

23) Mommy's or a supervising adults rules will be followed at all times.

24) Failure to follow the required rules will result in a punishment ranging from extra time between diaper changes, an enema or up to an indefinite amount of time wearing diapers 24/7 being required.

25) Mommy or any supervising adult/babysitter reserves the right to add, change or remove any rule at anytime as they desire.

Photo source: ABdreams

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Rules:

Since you can't act like a big girl you will be treated like a little girl from now on. The following rules WILL be followed. Baby girl will have no choice in the matter since she has proven she no longer deserves adult privileges.

1) Diapered 24/7. NO exceptions. Baby will not complain about the status of her diaper and will never ask for a change.

2) Only dresses, pretty girl clothes or exposed diapers are worn around the house at ALL times. Baby will wear what she is told to wear. If baby is allowed to pick her own outfit out, it's expected that she will dress in something very pretty. When out, adult clothes may be worn BUT something needs to be with baby at all times such as a pacifier to remind her of her baby status.

3) Baby must cum in her full diaper at least once a day

4) Every wet/messy baby makes must tell an appropriate adult.

5) Changes must be approved unless there is an extenuating circumstance and it must be justified to an adult. Baby will NEVER ask for a change. Diapers are expensive and we don't have many. So don't expect to get changed very often. One, or if baby is really good, two changes will be allowed per day.

6) All food and drink will be baby food or regular food (pureed or cut up) into baby size portions. All food will be consumed from the appropriate infant cup/bottle/plate/spoon. Any leftovers will find it's way into baby's diaper one way or another. No wasting.

7) Baby talk at all times and will refer to adults by an appropriate title (daddy, master, sir etc.). In addition baby will be told no talking. This will mean baby will not be allowed to talk until an adult says baby can talk again. NO foul language, back talk or arguing allowed.

8) Pet time! At any time, baby can be told it's time to act as a pet of an adults choosing.

9) When you are told to put your paci or gag on, it MUST stay in until told you may remove it. No asking if it can come out. (don't expect a short amount of time)

10) Baby will not watch any movies or TV above PG rating without getting permission first

11) After bed time a pacifier must be kept in baby's mouth. If this fails to happen a gag will be put in it's place. Nap time may also consist of baby being bound to make sure baby gets enough rest.

12) When baby wakes up she might get a change depending on the status of her diaper but won't get a change again until after lunch. If for some reason baby doesn't need changed after lunch, it will be assumed she is trying to hold it and will be forced to use her diaper. The next diaper change will be determined before bedtime.

13) Asking questions can result in punishment examples include, "can baby take remove her paci", "can baby change", "does baby have to" etc. Baby will do what she's told and that's final.

14) Any rule can be changed and new rules can be added at any time.

15) You will NOT resist or argue with any task or punishment. Be happy with whatever punishment you're given because it can (and will) get MUCH worse.

Failing to obey any of the listed rules will result in hasty punishment. You are now going to be regressed to an infant baby girl for the foreseeable future. The less you resist and faster you'll learn that there isn't an escape from your new life, the happier you'll be. Now, let's get started little girl. We have a lot to do!

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Diaper Training Program

Intro:

During this program your little will go from being gently exposed to diapers to wearing them 24/7 and becoming dependent on always being in a diaper. By the end of the program your little will prefer being diapered over using regular adult undies as they will realize they will require a diaper to prevent embarrassing situations and enjoy the benefits that will come with being diapered all the time.

This program will work if using a caregiver or if self care is going to be used. You should also decide if your little will eventually use their diaper for both #1 and #2's or just #1's. If you are opting for #1's only your little will continue to use the toilet as needed for #2's.

Make sure both the caregiver and little have the same desired outcomes and know what to expect from the training program. Once diaper dependence is established it is almost impossible to regain 100% control of ones body functions again, diapers are going to become a necessary daily item for your little as the progam appraches completion.

I followed the program for 4 weeks solo and found myself bearly able to hold my pee after almost a month. I would find myself accidently start to dribble for several weeks after stopping and several times ended up with a spot on my pants. I wore a thin diaper for several weeks as I basically worked and strengthening my bladder again. One day I may return to the program and try for completion. For now I perfer bursts of wearing as desired.

Within a short time of completing the diaper training program and sticking with the new lifestyle for a while your little is likely to find that they may never be able to ever go without wearing a diapers again. Embarrassing accidents could happen at anytime when you train yourself to completely become dependent on diapers. A supply of quality diapers may have to be kept on hand at all times. If your caregiver goals and your little's goals aline after considering the potential permanent outcomes of the training program then it is safe to continue and begin the training program and continue to your desired level of dependence desired or go all the way to full dependence if you desire.

Each phase of the program has a recommended length of time recommended before moving to the next phase. If by the recommended phase periods your little has not quite met their goals it will be necessary to double the time period in each phase. Doing so will only increase the chance of continued success in the desired outcomes.

Once your little moves to the next phase they are not alloud to return to a previous phase. You little should be guided to embracing their new selves.

Sometimes it is nice to include a reward for your little such as a self masterbation session after the first diaper use and then at the successful completion of each training phase. Since they will be using a diaper daily by the end of this program your little should have something to look forward to and encourage them to stick with the program.

Phase 1: Exposure: 1 Week

This is the first step in exposing your little to the diaper training program. This is the first and most gentle step.

During this time your goal is to introduce your little to the feeling of a diaper, but not so much as to make them miserable and turn them away from the training.

During this phase it is recommended that you require you little to put on their new diaper at bedtime and wear it only until they wake up. A good time period to use is 10pm until your little wakes up. This will usually give a full 8-10 hours of wearing a diaper. Your little can still be alloud to use the potty as desired as long as they put the diaper right back on after doing so.

At this point in the program if you little does not use their diaper it is perfectly fine. The only purpose of this phase is to exposure you little to the new feeling of having something between their legs at night.

At first your little may have trouble falling asleep while wearing their diaper, but if consistantly repeated night by the last few days of the week your little should be able to sleep through the night. Your littles body will get used to the new feeling as they sleep. If by the end of the week your little is still not able to sleep through the night the duration of phase one can be extended another full week.

Once your little is sleeping through the night it is time to move onto phase 2. Remember though; once your little moves to the next phase under no circumstance can you go back a step in the program. Doing so will only slow down if not prevent the desired outcome you are hoping for.

Phase 2: Extra Time: 1 week

Your little is now ready to move to the next phase at this point in the program. Phase 2 is about extending the time spent in their new diapers and getting used to the feeling, look and sound of their new diapers.

During phase 2a it is recomended that your little consistantly wear their diaper from 6pm until the following morning. During this second week it is still ok if your little is not using their diaper, but that will soon change.

Also during this first week of phase 2a it is important that you not allow your little to wear anything at home to hide their diaper. Consistantly being able to see what they are now wearing will slowly normalize your little to the soon to be new them and help them build confidence with their new look.

Phase 2b: Starting to use: 1 Week

During this week you will continue with the steps above from phase 2a while adding one additional requirement. In order to be able to remove the diaper it must be used. This means that if your little goes the full night without using their diaper they are to remain diapered into the next morning until it has be used for at least a wetting.

Phase 2b's goal is to get your little semi comfortable with wetting in their diaper and becoming familiar with the feeling of wet diaper.

If the phase is completed correctly after the week of phase 2b your little will be ready to move to the next step. However, if necessary the duration can be extended an extra week. To help with encouraging use of their diaper you can always have your little drink a couple glasses of water before going to bed. By morning they will have no choice, but to use their diaper. This phase will also exposure your level to the protection level of their diaper. By the end of this phase your little will be able to trust their diaper for any wetting need and you will begin to remove the fear of leaks for your little.

Phase 3a: 1 week: All day wearing with exceptions.

Once you have made it to this part of the program your little should be becoming significantly more comfortable with the soon to be new them.

During this 1 week period it is required that your little wear a diaper from the moment they wake up in the morning until the next morning.

At this point your little will become used to using their diaper and be familiar with the wet feeling of a used diaper. During this phase of the program the care giver is required to start providing changes for their little. You should also order at least three types of diapers for your little to test what they like to wear.

The only time a diaper is not required at this time is when going to work, a doctors apointment or a family gathering. When running errands you little needs to be consistantly diapered.

In this phase you are showing your little that usually noone will notice anything about what your little is wearing. Even if someone knows they are wearing a diaper they will be a completely stranger making no impact on their personal lives.

Phase 3b: 1 week: Time for work

During this part of the program you are slowly pushing your little boundaries to continue showing them everything is fine. Your little is now required to continue everything from phase 3a, but now they are going to be wearing to work. To help in this phase your little may feel better wearing a onesie. This will help conceal their diaper while also holding it in place if used to help prevent leaks.

By the end of this week your little should be returning home wet and needing to be changed. If not coming home wet extend the period for an additional week until the desired results start to happen.

For doctors apointments and family events you may want to provide an alternative to their perferred diaper such as a pull up or thinner diaper as confidence continues to build.

Phase 4a: Becoming comfortable 1 week.

At this step your little has been wearing at least daily for over a month and at least wetting their diaper for a couple of weeks now. They should be more comfortable with their new look and comfortable with depending on their diaper to protect them from leaks. You will now destroy a remaining pair of underwear since they are almost no longer needed at all except for a doctors apointment.

During this time your little will be wearing a diaper for family events. The only time your little is not diapered will be at a doctors apointment. By the end of this week your little should be comfortable with their new self.

Phase 4b: 1 Week

At this time you will destory one of the two remaining pairs of underwear leaveing only one pair for a possible doctors apointment. By now you little should be consistantly using their diaper as need for wetting and may start to find themselves having difficulty holding back a wetting.

Everything from phase 4a will continue to apply to your little. If you and your little have decided to use their diaper for both #1 and #2's you will now start to require them to use their diaper for number 2's while quickly providing a change afterwords to promote trust and prevent skin irritations.

To facilitate this step you may want to start giving your little a laxative or two with breakfast. Quickly your little will continue to grow their trust in their diapers since they will be using them for any restroom need now. Start keeping a portable diaper bag when you travel or run errands for the inevitable accidents.

Phase 5a: Final stretch: Full Time

During this final phase your little has now arrived at the point that diaper are to be worn at all times; for everything. Now it is time to destroy the final pair of adult underwear as they will no longer be worn. By now your little may even not notice often if they are even wearing a diaper and may start to not realize they are wetting their diapers. As each following week progresses your little will become completely comfortable with being dependent on their diapers, trusting their caregiver for needed quick changes and oblivious to their diapered status unless needing to be changed.

During Phase 5a it is a good time to have your little help select their preferred diaper that they will continue to use. It is also a good time to have your little try on their clothes over their diaper and anything that will no longer fit correctly or thats makes your little uncomfortable by having to much risk of being discovered be removed from the wardrobe. New pants should cover the diaper well, but not be so tight that a swollen buldge or the diaper outlines not be visable when a change is needed. You little will not be worried about being discovered or even really care if they are.

Phase 5b: From Here On Out

This is the final phase of the diaper training program. Starting this week your little will be diapered full time and be comfortable wearing their diapers for everything. No adult underwear will remain in the home for them to use, only diapers now. From this point forward your little will be completely dependent on using their diapers for anything.

Each week from this point you will notice your little embracing their new self. You little will be consistantly using their diapers for everything and becoming comfortable wearing anywhere they go at all times. They should not notice their diapers by now unless it is significantly dirty and needing to be changed.

As the weeks continue on you should find your little no longer being worried about hidding their diapers as much and starting to dress for comfort. Your little should have lost the fear of being discovered by anyone and even if they are discovered realize that nothing bad is going to happen to them.

This phase of the program will last indefinitely since it will be almost impossible to regain 100% body control again. Your little will now be completely comfortable at anytime wearing a diaper and have no issues with using them as intended as the weeks continue.

Things for your little should continue to improve week after week as they continue to wear their diapers 24/7. You should always have a stock of diapers available now since your little may be approaching incontinence. Your little should notice the benefits of being diapered by now: not having to dash to a restroom, not using dirty public restrooms and enjoy the protection a diaper offers.

From here on your little will be comfortable with their new self most of the time and they will continue to improve confidence as time goes on. You should notice a big change in your littles life as they will have accepted their now dependence on diapers as a leak would be more embarrassing than being discovered diapered. When your little has completely embraced their new self you can make minor changes to dress requirements and institute new rules since you little will have no choice but to use their diapers now as needed and will even forget they are wearing a diaper, sometimes even if they need to be changed. The caregiver is now completely responsible for taking care of the littles needs.

By this point your little has been diapered daily for a few months and wearing 24/7 for several weeks. By this time your little will have completed the full diaper training program and be comfortable at all times with themselves and no longer be embarrassed to wear diaper anytime.

Since your little is now almost or completely incontinent your little will realize diapers are now always required at all times. If discovered by anyone: strangers, family or even a doctor they can legitimately say that their diapers are completely required.

You will know that your little has completely accepted their new life when you request a diaper check and regardless of where you are they lift up their shirt to be checked and not care if someone takes a quick glance. Frequest diaper checks will become common and will sometimes have to occure when out in public to prevent significant skin irritations.

Remeber to keep supporting your little and making them feel comfortable and loved constantly as that will only promote longterm if not permanent adherence to being diapered at all times.

[brandysissie]

Let me gush on why I think diapers are the ultimate tool for control.

It's a status symbol: this is the easiest to explain. You look at a little and know immediately they are not on the same level of you. This padded excuse for underwear shows that the person wearing it is not to be treated as an adult and is to be treated like they do not have the ability to work a toilet let alone handle any responsibilities.

It's a physical barrier: a diaper literally puts a barrier between the little's genitalia and anything that they might want, such as pleasure, the dignity to use the toilet, hell even the ability to clean themselves properly. Just some plastic and fluff keep can be so restrictive.

"functional" clothing: not only does a diaper look and feel like a tool for control but also act the part. It's a container for one of the most humbling liquids on the planet. It also has a hidden purpose of being able to be written on. Even the most basic of diapers can be a powerful tool when used to contain the piss of someone who claims to be an adult

Dependence: there is almost no other kink tool that can be used quite like a diaper to make your little depend on you. It literally has to be acknowledged every 4 to 12 hours. It also often has to be checked, talked about, and changed. If you truly want to make someone dependent on you, make it so they have to come to you to be changed. They will feel your presence with every step they take.

[brandysissie]

FOLLOWER BROADCAST #2

Have you ever wanted to have your "buzzy toys" activated by something other than your hands?

Have you wondered if there was an inventor in the AB/DL world who might be able to design super cool AB/DL toys?!

Well... Ummm.... *Shakes in excitement as GIF loads* YOU COULD MAKE YOURSELF DO A #3 BY SUCKING ON A PACI!.... LOOK!

@Smartpacifier on Twitter

How has someone not tried to make this sooner? SmartPacifier looks like they started working on this in 2022. If you want this thing to be a reality, go to their Twitter and consider joining their Patreon or, at the least, just let them know they are doing something that is kinda amazing and would be a huge success when it's developed.

Maybe a big company like ABU or LittleforBig will pick this up and mass produce it? What else do you think would be a fun toy concept for AB/DLs to enjoy? Let me know, let @Smartpacifier know, let Santa know too for good measure!

[brandysissie]

12 Rules for Daddy’s Little Slut

My #1 job is to make daddy cum. I must always be fixated on this. Nothing is more important or valuable to me than receiving daddy’s seed in my holes or on my body.

I do my best to be sexy for daddy in order to make him cum. This includes taking care of my skin, working out, staying smooth, and wearing whatever sexy things daddy instructs me to wear. I also try to seduce daddy by being sexy, using my body to tease him, and using my little girl voice with him in hopes that I get rewarded with his giant cock. I eagerly send daddy nudes and videos regularly, without him asking. I love knowing that my body is an object for daddy’s pleasure and I show him my body at least daily.

I worship daddy’s huge cock. I obsess over it. I daydream about it. I hunger for it. Daddy’s huge cock is the source of my happiness and fulfillment. Even seeing it is a privilege.

I must always obey daddy’s instructions. It is not my place to do anything except submit and gratefully be obedient. If I do not obey or perform satisfactorily, daddy will discipline me because he cares for me. Daddy will decide my discipline and I will enjoy it. Obedience brings reward, and disobedience brings discipline.

I will be grateful and express gratitude for everything daddy does. Instructions, discipline, fantasy, orgasms, sex play, lectures, gifts, dates, time together, snuggles…I will express gratitude constantly to daddy to remind myself that I don’t deserve anything and daddy is generous and kind.

I am holes for daddy to use. It is my privilege to be a sleeve for his huge cock. All of my holes belong to him and exist for his pleasure. When he uses me to masturbate it makes me a very happy girl. I have no purpose, meaning, or happiness except in serving daddy’s huge cock.

All of my orgasms belong to daddy. They are not mine. I am not in control of my sexuality. I exist only as a sexual object for daddy’s pleasure.

I never, EVER, cum without permission.

I am attentive to when daddy shifts into daddy voice, and respond as his little girl. This can be in private or in public, and it may only last for a moment. But it is my job to be alert and ready to step into my role whenever daddy pleases.

I always talk dirty with and to daddy. I thank daddy when he touches me, licks me, fucks me, punishes me, hurts me, rapes me, and compliments me. I will always ask permission to cum, tell daddy when I am cumming and I will talk dirty during my orgasms. This is to remind me that my orgasm is not for me, but only for daddy. I must stay focused on being sexy for him even when I’m cumming. I don’t give my orgasms to daddy, daddy takes them, because they belong to him.

I am allowed to speak to daddy about what I want, but I must be careful to never demand. I do not deserve anything from daddy. I can ask permission and beg for what I want, but I must always know my place and be obedient and submissive with my tone and voice.

I am prettiest when I am serving my purpose as holes for daddy. I am at my best, happiest, and most fulfilled when I’m being used by daddy.

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Why your partner likes diapers and wants them 24/7

As a non-ABDL person, trying to understand why my successful, grown-up male partner would want to wear and use diapers 24/7 wasn’t immediately obvious. He even struggled to describe his feelings & desires to me. To make it even harder his desires seemed to change from wanting and even trying 24/7 to not wearing diapers at all for a few days.

Overall this really made me confused and worried and is what drove me to go deeper into my research into ABDL and start talking to some other couples.

He’s helped me with some of this article but the goal of it is to help non-ABDL partners understand their ABDL partners desire better. I should also say that this is our viewpoint and although I know from conversations with other couples it’s a very common one, there are obviously lots of different reasons why someone might want to wear diapers which we won’t cover here.

So firstly, you’re not in any way stupid for wondering why your partner might want this, as subjectively wearing diapers has a lot of negatives from potential embarrassment, cost, smells, extra chores in daily life… the list goes on. BUT for your partner some of these negatives might actually be positives and overall the positives far outweigh any negatives for them.

So lets get down to some of the reasons they like diapers:

It gives them comfort

This is a hard one to describe but in the same way that cuddling up to your partner or being given a hug can make you feel at ease, safe and relaxed, diapers can do this for ABDL people. 

I’ve heard the saying that wearing a diaper is like being given a hug constantly. From the moment they’re taped into a diaper many ABDL’s will feel more at ease.

It takes them back to a simpler time

Childhood is something a lot of adults look back on with fond memories where they lived without the stresses and pressures of daily adult life. Wearing and using diapers can really help in reminding them of these good times and adding some of it back into their adult life.

This is especially powerful if you take control of their checks and changes, and incorporate other elements of babying.

If you partner likes to regress and act like a younger age (age play) then diapers are a core ingredient to get them into this headspace.

They like giving up some control

I have no hard evidence to back this up but I feel that ABDL’s over-index on stressful careers and generally being “successful” people. The problem is this often comes with tons of responsibility and control over lots of decisions, so giving up some of this control can be incredibly therapeutic and stress-releasing for them.

I’m confident that all adults can relate to the enjoyment of having some decisions taken away from them, but for most using the toilet wouldn’t be their go-to thought.

We’re big advocates for 24/7 and one of the main reasons for this is I’ve seen first hand how beneficial it was saying to my boyfriend, yes you’ve got a big and important job with lots of stress but from now onwards going to the toilet isn’t going to be something you have to think about.

This year we’ve been experimenting with him giving up more control, by increasing the babying, and honestly the more I take away the better I think it makes him, both professionally and personally.

They like the smells

Being in diapers 24/7 exposes them to a lot of different smells which they can find enjoyable or relaxing.

From being taped up in a fresh diaper with baby powder scent, to the subtle pee smell as they use their diaper, to more pungent odours coming from their filled diaper, to the clean fragrance while being wiped clean. They experience this wide range of smells daily and each brings different feelings from feeling cared for, loved, embarrassed and more.

I myself (like many women) like the smell of babies and over time I’ve found that the smell of baby powder on him and his wet diaper is something that makes me feel content and relaxed too.

The feeling of diapers is great

The soft padding encasing their bum and groin is comforting, and then as they use it it gets warmer and squishy. There is a constant reminder of its presence when sitting or walking, with the subtle sound which accompanies it. Even the feeling of messing their diaper is enjoyable for many ABDL’s due to the unique feeling of it pushing out and then spreading in different directions.

The naughtiness of being punished

Diaper discipline should be more than your partner wants as otherwise it won’t fulfil the feeling of being punished and controlled which they crave.

Like other more mainstream kinks their diapers sometime being uncomfortable, embarrassing and inconvenient is a positive for them and isn’t something you should try avoid.

Many times it’s convenient

Being able to pee and not have to stop playing a game, watching a film or working can be convenient. My boyfriend used to get up in the night to pee which disturbed his sleep and mine, now it goes straight into the diaper.

On long drives and flights it can be a lifesaver wearing a diaper, the seatbelt light going on doesn’t worry you even if you need to pee.

Being changed is amazing

Diaper changes make them feel incredibly loved and cared for. It’s very intimate with some embarrassment but having your loved one wipe you clean and tape you into a fresh diaper is one of the top experiences for your ABDL partner.

Even a diaper check shows them you’re caring for them while also playing into the feeling of giving up control.

Diapers combine great with other kinks

Diapers go hand in hand with a range of other kinks including bondage, chastity, spanking & submission. If they or you are kinky you should try these with diapers involved and all make for good punishments too.

They’re cute

With ABDL and diaper discipline more popular than ever, we’re blessed to have a huge range of amazing adult diapers available. These diapers look cute on your partner and when combined with ABDL clothing it really plays into the lovely feeling of regressing to a younger age.

Why 24/7

So hopefully you can now better understand why your partner loves wearing diapers. But there are a few reasons why the idea of wearing 24/7 and then the reality of it is so appealing:

Accepting this is part of them

Many if not all ABDL’s have experienced or are still experiencing shame about their diaper wearing desires. Switching to or being forced to wear 24/7 helps them accept that this actually is a big part of who they are and they don’t need to pretend otherwise or feel guilty about it.

The loss of control

Accepting they now have to use their diapers instead of the toilet on a long term basis excites and scares them in a good way. They’re losing one of the most grown up privileges.

You accepting them

Encouraging or forcing them to wear 24/7 shows your partner that you fully accept this part of them. One of their biggest fears will be their ABDL desires cause them to lose you, so by being truly supportive it will be a massive weight lifted off their shoulders.

We’re going to do another article on this shortly but because of this I feel there is a big benefit of you forcing them into 24/7 rather than waiting for it to happen naturally.

It stops them having to decide when to wear

Many ABDL’s yoyo on their diaper wearing frequency and struggle to decide when to wear or not. Having this choice taken away from them removes this stress and helps combat the lows when before they’d have felt guilty and stopped wearing for a period.

It becomes part of their daily life

Diaper wearing is often a hidden part of their lives but moving to 24/7 means it needs to become much more normalized. From making sure their wardrobe is now designed around their padded bum to having a large stock of diapers on hand and not hidden is extremely beneficial for your partner.

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I’m sure there are many reasons here we’ve missed so please add them into the comments. Also please watch out for our next long post about when is the right time to switch your partner to 24/7 and how to do it.

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How can I get more involved?

A theme of questions I’ve been getting from partners is how can they can get more involved. Specifically, being that taking on the role of the person forcing their partner to wear/use diapers doesn’t come naturally and so they never seem to do it.

I can’t stress enough how important it is for you to be in control of your partner’s diaper wearing and babying. Being accepting is a great first step but they’ll never really feel accepted if you’re not actively involved.

The good news is it’s not that hard and using some of the ideas I’ve already shared I’ve put together this article as a guide to situations which you can leverage to take control.

This can be learned and become natural over time, I know as I wasn’t wired with a natural ABDL mommy role.

Scenario examples where you can get more involved:

Partner not currently diapered:

They come back from work

- Meet them at the door with a diaper in hand and take them straight to get changed.

- Check their underwear upon arriving home. Comment that it smells like they had an accident (even if a lie) and say you think it’s best you get them diapered to avoid any in the house.

You’re away

- If your partner is at home or will come home and you’ll be away, leave a diaper and maybe some ABDL clothes out with a note telling them to get changed into this.

- Leaving for a few days? Hide their underwear and replace it with a note saying diapers are their underwear while you’re away.

- Ask for a diaper check over a message or video call, if not diapered, tell them to put one on.

- Require them to ask before changing and deny it until it looks near leaking.

They ask not to be diapered

Maybe they’re embarrassed, just not feeling it today or it will be inconvenient for some reason, you have a few choices:

- Tell them that’s not an option and they’re getting diapered anyway (this should be the default)

- Tell them you’ll allow it but as a consequence they’ll get some form of punishment. This should make them think twice so might be something like “you can wear adult underwear today but you’ll be getting a smacking and suppository tonight” or “ok but you’ll be diapered 24/7 for the rest of the week”

- Tell them to prove they deserve adult underwear. (This one needs a few hours spare so is best when they’re resisting wearing as they’re bored of it, feel ashamed, etc.) Your goal here is to prove they need diapers = they have an accident. Make them drink 3-4 large glasses of water and then say that they can use the toilet in 3 hours time to prove they don’t need diapers. Most won’t make it near that and will either beg to use it or have an accident. If you’re feeling nice when they ask to use the toilet, say no and diaper them or alternatively make them wet their pants before diapering them.

- A variant of the above also works if they don’t want to mess their diapers. Swap the water for 1 or 2 suppositories and set a time of an hour. The consequence of resisting and then being proven to need diapers should be long term, e.g: “ok now we know you’re not a big girl you’ll be using you diaper for everything for the next few months and then maybe you can try again”

It’s bedtime

- Have a diaper and some cute ABDL clothing laid out waiting for them.

- Ask them if they’re ready for bed and if they say yes, tell them that it doesn’t look like it and babies need to be diapered for bedtime.

On the way to the toilet

Stop them and tell them babies don’t use that and to go put on a diaper or better still, diaper them yourself.

You notice the toilet isn’t clean

If you go to the toilet after them and notice some stray pee on the seat, toilet surround or floor (all common with boys) or if they’ve left skids, then tell them off for being messy. Most importantly tell them that if they’re not grown up to use the toilet you’ll put them back in diapers permanently.

The first time this can just be a threat but on the second time you should enforce this and diaper them 24/7 for at least a few days but ideally a few weeks.

Underwear Inspections

Another great way to trigger some diaper wearing time is to inspect their underwear. After peeing many males leak a small amount so checking their underwear after they used the toilet can yield a small wet patch. Equally check at the end of the day but this time focus on the rear, and tell them that you can smell poop (even if you can’t).

Then use these findings to tell them they’re obviously too little for adult underwear and take them to be diapered. Again as before, this should last a few days. You can also step things up more slowly by going to pull ups first and then diapers.

During Sex

Experiment with mentioning diapers or them being a baby during sex. You’ll likely find this turns them on more. Little things like saying:

- “Do you feel like a big boy/girl not wearing your diaper tonight”

- “I think I should diaper you after this”

- “I prefer you in diapers for this, maybe we’ll make that permanent”

- “Will you cum so we can get you back in your diapy”

- Etc

Going; on a drive, to see a movie, a day trip?

These should all be used as reasons for your partner to be diapered. Tell them that you want them diapered as it would be easier and pick an appropriate diaper for the occasion.

For long drives or movies I’d recommend a thick diaper. For day trips a thinner diaper, which can be changed, may be better. Remember they likely will object to wearing out of fear or it being inconvenient but this is exactly why this is a perfect opportunity to diaper them.

They’re already diapered:

They say they’re going to the toilet

- Stop them and tell them to use their diaper. Likely this means they need to a poop but don’t relent and tell them their diapers are for everything. This is one of the most powerful things you can do to show them you accept their diaper wearing and be actively forcing them to mess their diaper.

They walk past you

- Try give them a “diaper pat” when you’re nearby or if they pass you. This shows you know they’re diapered and that you accept it!

- Stop them and do a diaper check. You can do this by squeezing the front and back of their diaper through clothing but ideally get them to expose their diaper to you. This shows you accept them and are expecting them to have used their diaper.

You’re sitting together

- If their diaper is exposed, make a small comment about it, like “These diapers look cute on you”

- If the diaper is hidden by clothing, do a small diaper pat or squeeze it to show you know it’s there

- Make a comment on their diaper’s state, like “you’re already a bit wet”, “I might need to change you soon”, “it doesn’t look like you’ve used your diaper yet”

You’re about to head out of the house

- Quickly check they’re wearing a diaper either subtly by lifting a shirt to see the waistband or even better is to get them to show you their full exposed diaper by dropping their pants or lifting their skirt.

- If longer than an hour ask if they’ve got their diaper bag with them.

They need a change

If you notice their diaper is nearing capacity you have a few options:

- Tell them they need a change and guide them to the changing area to do the change.

- Say that it looks like their diaper is getting full but you’ll change them in a bit. Delay it an hour and if they do leak tell them how you might need to switch to thicker diapers

- Don’t mention it but just bring diaper supplies to where they are and without comment start the changing process. Make it as if this is the most normal thing in the world.

They’re smelly / messy

You notice that they’ve messed their diaper, this might be expected or a surprise but it’s very important you don’t react negatively.

Some options:

- Mention it in a teasing but not disgusted way; “oh, do I smelly a messy diaper”, “I think my baby might need a change”, “Is someone a messy baby”, etc

- Check their diaper by pulling back the waistband or if it’s not exposed, grab and squeeze the back of their diaper through their clothing.

- Ask them to come over and sit on your knee. This is one of the most embarrassing things as it will cause their mess to spread and they’ll feel very babyish. Cuddle and bounce them for maximum blushing.

- Tell them you’ll change them in a bit. Making them wait even a short while shows you’re in control. For even greater effect, tell them that you don’t think that diaper is full yet so you’ll check them again in an hour. Or my favorite is to say I’ll change them but after lunch, dinner or some other activity that means it will be at least an hour and they’ll have to sit in it.

- Shower them with praise. As I mentioned they’ll likely be feeling some shame so tell them how good they are for using their diaper as they’re supposed to.

- Ideally when the time comes, change them yourself, but if not, be waiting with their new diaper after they’ve cleaned up.

You’re in public

- Lightly smack or squeeze their bum to remind them they’re wearing a diaper and you know it.

- Ask them if they’ll need a change soon

- Check their diaper subtly, this works best when you’re out of sight of others such as in an elevator or on a secluded section of a hike.

- Comment that their clothes hide their diaper well, or point out their waistband is showing.

- See a sign for a restroom? joke that they won’t be needing that.

At bedtime

- Prepare a bottle for them (milk, juice or water) and feed this to them in bed. This feels incredibly loving and should become part of your daily routine. It’s especially good if your partner struggles to sleep or is stressed.

- Insert an adult pacifier into their mouth before sleep, perfect straight after their bottle.

- Make a comment that you hope their diaper will hold all their accidents tonight

- Place mittens onto their hands (ideal for partners who like using their phone in bed)

- Give them a teddy to sleep with or read them a bedtime story.

During Sex

- If they’re diapered then it’s likely you’re using a vibrator or similar. Try also physically interact with their diaper at the same time to make it so you’re more intimately involved in it.

- Most importantly after the orgasm DO NOT allow them to change out of a diaper. This is a time they’re most likely to experience shame so actively tell them they’re good for being diapered and keep them diapered. If they do need to change it must be into another diaper. This is probably one of the most important pieces of advice I can give!

In the mornings:

- Check their diaper physically by touching, squeezing etc

- Make a comment that you’re glad they’re diapered otherwise they’d have wet the bed.

- Keep them in their night diaper and ABDL clothes until after breakfast or longer if possible (normally at weekends).

- Tell or encourage them to mess their diaper as then they can shower to clean up. Or force the matter by inserting a suppository or fleet enema.

- Re-insert the pacifier and/or give them another bottle.

Having a meal:

- Make them wear a bib. For maximum effect wait until a meal where they spill something on themselves and then introduce this rule.

- Feed them a meal. This can be fun!

- Make them sit in a highchair! These can be made using a director’s chair and an accessible feeding table and it’s worth the investment as it will make them feel very babyish sitting in an exposed diaper eating with with their hands or baby cutlery.

- Give drinks in a bottle or sippy cup.

Other situations:

It’s their birthday, Christmas or you just want to get them a gift

- Buy them a diaper / ABDL related gift and ideally from now on at least one but potentially even all of their gifts from you should be ABDL related. This unprompted involvement from you will show them how accepting you are of it. They will be delighted I guarantee!

- Gift Ideas:

- New ABDL diapers; buy a few packs of adult diapers. I’d recommend ABDL ones as they’re prettier and also you can buy a few different styles which they might not have.

- ABDL clothing; onesies are the easy option but to really wow them try something like shortalls, rompers, footed onesies.

- ABDL accessories; bottles, pacifiers, bibs, mittens or a new changing mat are great choices. These are especially good if the ABDL side has been something you’ve shy’d away from to date.

- Sexual; Some bondage gear like a straitjacket, bed restraints or locking clothing is a great gift. Or a Chastity cage will fill a boy with excitement and fear.

- Small filler gifts: baby powder, rash cream, etc

- As part of their gift, change their diaper wearing frequency or rules. “For Christmas I’ve decided that from now on you’re always going to be diapered at night”. “You’ll see I’ve got you some new diapers and from now on you’ll only be in these ABDL diapers, even in public”

Clothes shopping

- When clothes shopping ask them if this will fit over their diaper

- Make comments about certain items being good for hiding their diaper or “I think this might show your diaper a bit much”

- Comment on items being too adult for them or things looking childish as being perfect

- Make them wear a diaper out shopping so they can make sure things fit well

Grocery shopping or at a pharmacy

- Buy baby essentials regularly

- Comment on the baby diaper aisle that it’s a shame you can’t buy diapers their size here

- If you see adult diapers stop and look and ask them if you should buy some.

- Add a pack of goodnights to your cart if they fit them and comment that these might be useful for when you’re not in diapers.

- Buy suppositories, laxatives, etc

You have a vacation coming up

- Check they’ve packed enough diapers

- When they’re not around remove any underwear and replace with diapers (if you want them 24/7 for the trip)

- Discuss how them being diapered will impact the vacation. “I wonder if they’ll be somewhere I can change you on this day trip”, “Can you google if there’s accessible restrooms available at …”, “I wonder if I should ask the hotel for a medical trashcan in the room for your diapers”

- Buy a swim diaper if you don’t already have one.

Summary:

- Find reasons to diaper your partner even at times where it will be inconvenient

- Try increase the reasons and frequency of their diaper wearing over time. I’s start with 25% of the time they’re diapered and work up from there.

- Encourage and force them to use their diapers

- Interact with their diapers and acknowledge the fact they are diapered

- Introduce baby elements as much as possible

I’m assuming they’ve given consent to be diaper disciplined and because of this remember you’re TELLING them what to do, not asking.

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Every Girly Sissy needs to know how to hold themselves and how to move <3

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My diapers !

How I make my diapers so thick ?

1 medium rearz incontrol nighttime

1 XL rear incontrol nighttime

1 overnight booster pad

1 medium cloth diaper

1 cloth diaper liner

4 Bamboo cloth boosters

I will also most often add another layer like a Large disposable or put larger cloth diapers overtop my first layer for thick cloth diapers! But the pattern for layering boosters is usually what I do, if I want more leg spreading bulk I'll lay the boosters sideways and fold over a liner or cloth diaper being used as a stuffer.

Also I re-use the outer disposable diaper layers cause usually they don't ever get wet or messy but if they do I'll throw them away, thankfully I've only experienced a few blowouts

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Sissy fashion advice from sissy lips.

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Abby’s Basic Make-up Routine

Over time I’ve had numerous requests to give people a run down of my basic make-up routine. So finally I decided to would be best to write my routine out here on tumblr to share with anyone who might find it useful. 

This routine will only go over beard cover, foundation and some very basic bits on contouring (still learning this one). I may in future go over more on eye shadow, etc however, I just want to get basic starting routine in here.

I would like to point out that this routine is my own and is very much a work-in-progress. It is not necessarily the best routine or one that will work for you. However, after reading and watching countless tutorials and doing lots of my own experimenting it is where I currently am in my own development. There will certainly be future revisions and changes as I learn and find out more.

Hopefully though there maybe something in here you find useful and will help you get started on your own make-up routine.

1. Get to know your face and eye shape

Even before you get going with make-up it’s important to understand your own face and eye shapes. These are important as they will dictate which make-up techniques are going to work best for you. Unfortunately our faces and eyes are all different and mean not all routines are going to work for you. However, knowing these shapes will help you look up guides and tutorials that will best suit you and allow to  achieve the best possible results.

2. Shower and shaving

It may sound obvious but it is best to apply make-up to clean skin. When I shower before dressing I exfoliate to remove any dead skin and use a body moisturiser to re-hydrate my skin.

Showering also helps to soften your beard stubble which will help to achieve a cleaner shave. I will usually shave in the shower or straight after coming out. The razor you use will be of personal preference but I use a new razor blade when shaving before dressing.

Shaving and stubble is one of the biggest problem areas I have, I will shave first with the gain of the stubble, then across and finally against the grain. However, as yet I still am left with stubble breaking the surface of my skin and my make-up, so this is still an area I need to work on.

I have heard of others using an epilator (not something I would recommend) or plucking all the hairs out. Personally I don’t feel these are an option but it may be something you could do some research into.

Finally I apply a moisturiser to my face to cool off my skin and re-hydrate. As I have sensitive skin I will generally shower and shave half an hour to an hour before I dress. I will then wash my face again to clean any shaving nicks and re-moisturise my face.

3. The routine!

Okay this is part of the post we all came to see ;) I’ve included the products I’m currently using, these are nothing special and mostly just what I’ve picked up as cheap over the counter cosmetics at the super market.

Step 1 - Beard cover and under eye dark circles

Product: NYX - Orange Concealer 

To neutralise the blue in your stubble or if you suffer like me from dark circles under your eyes you’re going to need an orange or red concealer/lipstick. I simply apply the concealer with my finger over my beard shadow and under the eyes. I make sure I’ve rubbed the concealer well into the stubble, then fade out the concealer away from the area I want to cover.

Step 2 - (optional) Cover stick

Product: Kryolan - TV Paint Stick

I no longer do this this step, however, it is good if you feel you need extra cover or even possibly want to skip step 1.

Once I’ve applied the concealer I go over same area with the TV Paint Stick which is slightly lighter than my natural skin tone. I find the TV Paint Stick to be very thick so apply it with a make-up sponge. I dab the sponge over the area want to cover not too thickly allowing some of the orange concealer to show through. Essentially my beard and under eye area look light orange in colour. 

I also apply the TV Paint Stick to those areas I want to highlight for contouring. In my case, this is one of those areas that may be different for you, the middle of my forehead, bridge of nose, tops of cheeks under eyes and chin.

Step 3 - Foundation

Product: Rimmel - Liquid Foundation

I start by off by applying a layer of foundation over my beard shadow which is darker than my natural skin tone. I use a foundation brush to apply the foundation, I start in a dabbing and circular action to work the foundation in my stubble.

I then smooth out the foundation by brushing on a fraction more foundation over the top in short downward strokes, following the gain of my stubble.

I’ll then usually wait 10-15 min for this first layer of foundation to dry a little before applying a lighter tone over the top. If you want to hurry the drying you could use a setting powder such as NYX - HD Finishing Powder, which I would apply with a powder puff. 

This second layer of foundation is much closer to my natural skin tone and will cover not only my beard shadow but also the rest of my face and neck.

Again I apply the foundation in a dabbing and circular motion to work in the foundation before smoothing it out as I did with the darker foundation. The only exception to this is when I’m re-going over the first layer of darker foundation, here I will only smooth out the lighter foundation over the top.

Working it in will mix it too much with the darker foundation underneath and leave the beard area noticeably darker than the rest of my face. It can take a little practice but I find the double layering over my beard shadow helps to reduce the blue tones that show through.

Step 4 - Highlighting

Product:  L'Oreal Paris Touche Magique Concealer

I don’t claim to be an expert at contouring and highlighting but I’ve learnt a few tricks that help to sculpt the face.

First I start by highlighting my forehead, bridge of my nose, below my eye and along the top of my cheekbone. I just go straight ahead and brush on the concealer over those areas I want to highlight, then I use a make-up sponge in a dabbing motion to even out the concealer. 

I finish what you might call the liquid stage by dabbing the sponge over my whole face and neck blending, evening out and removing a little of the excess make-up.

Step 5 - Matte Powder

Product: Rimmel - Stay Matte Pressed

For this step I use two matte powders the first is a close to my skin tone and the other is light rose tinted. I apply the rose tinted powder over my beard area, as a final attempt to neutralise any of the remaining blue tones that might be coming from my stubble, using a powder puff. 

Next I apply the lighter powder first over the areas I’ve highlighted and then over the rest of my face and neck, including the area I applied the rose powder. Again I use a powder puff to apply the lighter powder.

I use a rather excessive amount of matte powder, as when I come to apply my eyeshadow, if any drops off on to my face it will fall on to the excess powder and can be brushed off.

Step 6 - Eyeshadow and eyeliner

Product:  Maybelline Master Precise Liquid Eyeliner

There are no real hard and fast rules to eyeshadow, it really is going to be down the look you want to create. However, my basic rules for eyeshadow are you want to work from a lighter shade/colour on the inner edge of the eye working to a medium to darker shade/colour on the outer edge. Work the dark shade/colour up and out from the outer corner of the eye to, but not reaching, the outer edge of your brow.

You then want to blend the eyeshadow together and soften the edges, generally you want to avoid hard edges.

I then apply an eyeliner along the top of my eye lid and if I am daring create a little flick for wings at the outer edge.

I really struggle with my eyes I don’t know if it age but when I look at tutorials everyone’s eyelids skin looks nice and tight. Mine is really loose and it makes applying eyeliner especially tough. The only trick I have found is to pull the outer edge of my eyelid out a little to tighten the skin.

To finish this step as mentioned already, I brush off the excess powder and any eyeshadow that has fallen on it.

Step 7 - Bronzer and Contouring

Product: Rimmel - Natural Bronzer

As I’ve mentioned I am no contouring expert so other a bit of concealer my only other nod to contouring is applying a bronzer.

Very simply I apply bronzer using a bronzer brush, before applying the bronzer I tap the brush to remove any excess. It’s very easy to add too much bronzer and making a mess of it, so add a little at time until you’re happy with the look. I usually find one or two layers of bronzer more than enough.

I apply the bronzer in a line from the top of my ear to two finger width from the corner of my mouth, brush again with grain of my stubble so as not rub off too much foundation. Pursing your lips will give you a crease as an easy line to follow. 

I also apply the bronzer on and under jaw line to soften it up a little, as well as around the edge of my face along the hair line to frame my face.

I sometimes will brush over my face the light matte powder again to blend everything together and dull off a little of the bronzer if I think I’ve layered it on a little thick.

Oh in addition check out this great video from Nikki on how to contour your nose, fantastic stuff.

Step 8 - Blush

Product: Rimmel - Mono Blush

Very simply I apply blusher to the top of my cheekbone, from under outside corner of eye back to the hair line, using a blusher brush.

Step 9 - Eyebrows

Product: Anastasia Beverly Hills Dipbrow Pomade

When it comes to plucking my eyebrows I try not to over do it, while I want a nice shape for when I dress I still want my brows to look good in boy-mode too. So I simply start by removing the random hairs that don’t make up the main body of my brow. I then neaten up the edges giving the brow a little shape. 

Finally I thin the outer half of the brow starting above my iris when looking straight forward, tapering the thinning as I move out along the brow. This helps to give a small arching effect to the brows without going over the top.

When it comes to colouring the brow, I use an angled brow brush to simply brush over the brow in the direction of the hair growth. When it comes to the tail of the brow I use the thin edge of the brush, to draw a line down from the top of the brow arch to the end of the tail.

Step 10 - Lips

Another area I really need to work on so my routine here is very basic once again. I simply will use a lipstick and leave it at that or apply a lip gloss in the same colour on top for a little more of a dramatic effect.

On occasion I might also use a lip liner which I’ll apply first around the edge of my lips, this is typically a darker tone of the lipstick I’m using.

Step 11 - Mascara

Product: Rimmel - Scandaleyes Rockin Curves Mascara

It’s a competition between lashes and my brows which as to which I feel are the best part of my look. I’ve even had women tell me they’d love to have my eyebrows and lashes ;)

Enough of my smugness, lashes are fairly simple I simply curl the lashes with a curler and brush the lashes with a lashes brush. This gives the lashes great shape and adds volume even before you add mascara. When I apply the mascara I put two coats on, complete one eye then the next before returning the first again and repeating. This gives the lashes a lot of volume and body, really helping your eyes to pop.

I usually leave the lower lashes until I have applied my setting spray, as sometimes the spray can wash some of the mascara off the lashed and under the eye. Not a good look!

Step 12 - Eyelashes

Product:  Ardell Lashes

Product: Duo Adhesives

I’ve struggled for a long time trying to find the nack for applying false eyelashes and I’m still not there. It’s more just hoping that a silent prayer will ensure they go on correctly.

However, I have had the most success after following this video from Hollie Wakeham.

Step 13 - Make-up Setting Spray

Product:  NYX Makeup Setting Spray

Very simple step this one, simply spray on a setting spray to fix your make-up and reduced some of the powdered caked on look.

Remember to apply mascara to your lower lashes if you haven’t already.

Step 14 - Step back and admire

We have gone through a lot of step to reach this point but hopefully it has been fun and time take is worth the results - be proud of yourself you’re beautiful :)

4. Additional tutorials

As of right now I have no plan to make a video tutorial of some of the basics to make-up, my face on video is a scary idea! However, when I first started I found these two videos very useful to help me get started #1 and #2. I also found this youtube channel had lots of helpful ideas.

Some other great general YouTube tutorial channels to follow are:

Wayne Goss

Joseph Harwood

Manny Mua

NikkieTutorials

5. Wishing you all best in your make-up endeavours!

I hope this routine has been useful to you and if you are new to make-up gives you some very steps to follow using products you can cheaply and easily pick up from your local supermarket or drug-store. If there is anything else ask away but just remember, even if you can’t quite get the look you want right now keep it and most of all have fun!

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Mommy @dominanovem gets to chillax while I prepare her Sunday breakfast in my sissy best! Hopefully it's up to par and I'll get a change I'm soaked!

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Some diaper fun!

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