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As a lesbian you prefer women sexually, emotionally, all sorts of ways. Does denying and dominating inferior males also bring sexual pleasure for you, or if not is it more of a psychological or emotional preference?

It brings no sexual pleasure, just an overall amusement and satisfaction.

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Domme Aftercare

Lay on her chest and tell her how much you enjoyed your play

Tell her you still trust her and you still care about her

Get her a drink or snack (or both) 

Give her a massage or footrub

Tell her she’s a fierce, beautiful, strong person and you respect her

There’s so many different things you can do from the sub’s end, just don’t forget us!

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7 ways you can signal your submission to your partner

If you’re not yet in a female led relationship and aren’t sure how to bring it up, here are some useful rules to follow that will shift the power dynamic towards your partner gradually.

1. Drop everything to give her your undivided attention When she starts talking to you, put down your phone, pause your game or the show you are watching. Look at her and focus on taking in what she is saying. If she texts, respond right away. Never ignore a call. You’re training yourself to be a more responsive partner and remember everything she has said, but also sending a message that when she wants your attention she has it. 

2. Ask for her opinion on your behaviour and respect it when she gives it This flows from the above. You might have started to pick up cues in her tone or expressions. Maybe she makes a joke about how you’re always/never doing something, or is acting a little passive aggressive. Politely invite her to open up about it. Say you want her to be comfortable enough to call you out if something you do bugs her, and that you can’t change what you don’t know. Make sure you’re being honest, open, and non-threatening. Create safety, and if she gets more direct, say you want to make an effort to be better and tell her you appreciate her bringing it up. 

3. During arguments - back down and defuse If your partner is not at all passive in expressing frustration, anger or disappointment with you, you want to avoid defensiveness. Again, appreciate her directness with you. If you have an alternate viewpoint, begin by accepting her viewpoint as correct, and express yours as an explanation of why you haven’t been acting as she expected you to. Let her drive the confrontation - don’t ask questions. Focus on answering hers to the best of your ability. It can be hard to avoid trying to offer quick solutions, but unless she has asked what you’re going to do to fix things, don’t immediately try to. 

4. After arguments, apologise and make peace

You may have already apologised in the moment, but most of what’s said during arguments is emotionally charged. Within the same day, you should aim to have some more composed thoughts that you can craft into a message to her, written, emailed, texted, or spoken. Try to get to the core of why she was upset and centre the apology on that understanding. If you believe you can make a change to address the situation, commit to that in writing and let her know she can hold you to your word. Include a gift, or the promise of one. 

5. Praise her when she asserts herself Be on the lookout for moments when she has just pulled a power move on you. Some examples are: 

She sent you a link to something as a hint to buy it for her

She called for you to come to her from another room, and when you arrived her request was really trivial

She made plans for the both of you and shared them as though it was already agreed 

This is a sign she is getting comfortable calling the shots. She knows she isn’t going to get in trouble with you for pushing boundaries. What you need to do is let her know you love this side of her. Give her exactly what she wants in these moments, smile and tell her you love the way she treats you. If she asks what you mean, describe how the way she was direct with you made you feel. You   

6. Start encouraging her wants to become expectations There are probably a lot of things she won’t ask you to do for her and doesn’t expect you to do for her. But you can make habits of these yourself. Ask if she’s hungry and offer to get her drinks. If she is tired or sore, offer to give her a massage,shoulder rub or foot rub. Clean up for her. Make sure she’s aware that she can choose what you’re watching or doing to relax together. When you start opening her eyes to the fact that you are happy to do these things for her, she will feel much more comfortable asking, and eventually expecting you to do them.

7. Let her friends see she’s got you trained well If she wants a girls night out - offer to be the designated driver or pick her up if she needs it. If she wants a girls night in - ask what everyone wants for snacks, get the house clean, close yourself off in a separate room and let her know she can holler if you need anything. Her friends will absolutely make comment if you’re consistently going out of your way for her, and even for them if she asks you to. If you get asked you can say she inspires you, or you feel motivated to treat her this good because of how she makes you feel. This credits her for your behaviour and avoids making her feel self conscious about calling on you in front of her friends.

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You know what I’d really like to be doing this weekend? Teaching a boy to cum without touching his dick.

First off, it’s two weeks of daily masturbation with orgasm denial. He’d be instructed to get himself as close as possible without cumming - three times daily. There’s a point to this, I promise. The idea is to increase sensitivity & build up a good head of tension. Just regular ol’ chastity can work, but it’s far more effective with daily edging. Regular chastity might take a month or more to reach peak sensitivity. I’m too impatient for that, lol.

The daily edging is always accompanied by gentle stretching. A plug or a dildo that’s just slightly larger than what he’s used to. Once he stops feeling the stretch, move up to something bigger. And yes, I do mean that in the middle of a session. The constant slight burn helps to keep a boy from cumming by accident. (Honestly, the stretching isn’t strictly necessary to get a hands-free orgasm. I just like the idea of a boy getting fucked up the ass by something bigger than him & cumming everywhere because of it.)

So fast forward two weeks. I’d prefer to do the Main Event on a Saturday so that we can just go ahead & make an afternoon of it. I’d start by stripping him down & kissing him - paying special attention to the neck & underside of the jaw. A naughty boy might have to have his hands tied behind his back, but a good boy could keep his hands on my breasts instead. I’d probably leave a couple of little love bites on the dear boy’s neck - I’m terrible about that. Anway, I’d eventually move on, leaving a trail of kisses down to his definitely-hard-by-now nipples. The really excellent thing about the two weeks of edging & denial is that Everything becomes more sensitive. Even boys who don’t usually get a lot out of having their nipples sucked can hardly stand it. So I’d do that for a while, & use the opportunity to get the boy laid out on his back. (A bit uncomfortable if his hands are tied behind him, but that’s his fault, isn’t it?)

Once he’s on his back, a good boy just needs to bring his knees up, maybe wrap his legs around my waist. A naughty boy would have to be further restrained, of course. A good, sturdy spreader bar fastened just above the knees should do the trick. I don’t particularly like strapons for the first time around. I prefer a hand-held vibrator with a realistic shape. Having it in hand gives me better control, I find. The vibration isn’t always necessary, but quite useful for stubborn cases. The first thing I do with the vibe is slowly thrust it as deep as it will go. If my boy’s been stretching himself like he was told, the toy should go all the way. If it doesn’t, or if he tenses up too much, then a good spanking may be required to get things back on track. Once the vibe’s in good & deep, I like to leave it still for a few minutes. Give the boy some time to relax, build some more tension. If he’s very good, I might let him suck on my nipples in the interim. Then, once he’s just about gotten used to having something in his ass, I start moving. Slow strokes, at first. It’s all about finding the angle which best hits his prostate. Sometimes this can take a while, but it’s worth taking the time to figure out properly. If you just start banging away, sure, you’re going to hit the mark sometimes…But anything worth doing is worth doing correctly, & an anal orgasm comes from prostate stimulation. Once I’ve found the right spot, I’ll concentrate on that, & slowly build up some speed. The real key here is to use the edge of the head to sortof gently scrape across the prostate with each thrust. I like to thrust in hard & pull out more slowly. By now, his cock is probably hard, bouncing uselessly on his belly. I love the sight of it.

Eventually, I may have to turn the vibrating motor on. If that’s the case, I’ll press it hard against the prostate, & then thrust more shallowly. With all this lead up, there’s basically no way that can fail to elicit an orgasm. It doesn’t always result in proper ejaculation, though. Sometimes you’ll get a dry orgasm instead. That’s always surprising for the boy, but I’m not deterred. I’ll just keep at it until I get what I’m after. Depending on my mood, I might not even stop then. Overstimulation is such a cute look, & a vibe up the ass is a great way to achieve it.

By the time I’m finished, even a naughty boy will certainly have done well enough to deserve a treat & cuddles. (◠‿◠✿)

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That last point is a clincher…

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I wanna eat out a sweet boy right now. I want him on all fours for me. Wanna mark his cute bottom. Mark what's mine. And then tease his hole with my mouth before sliding a finger inside him. Wanna make him make pretty sounds for me.

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FLR Contract

I ______________, the Wife and I _____________ the husband willing and without duress agree to the create a loving Female Led Relationship (FLR). Our goals for creating the FLR are:

1. Reduce conflict and increase harmony in our marriage through clearly defined roles and responsibilities.

2. Increase awareness and acceptance of Female Supremacy by being a positive role model.

3. Support Female Causes, so that Women everywhere can shape the world in Their image.

We will achieve these goals as follows:

The Wife

1. The wife is the head of the household.

2. As the head of the household, Her leadership will be acknowledged by the husband by referring to Her as “Queen,” “Goddess,” “Love” or whatever title She chooses.

3. She will create a yearly plan and budget.

4. She is responsible for ensuring the plan stays on track.

5. She is responsible for decision making and may seek the input of other family members but does not need their consent. As the decision maker, once She makes Her decision, the decision is final and not to be questioned by the other family members.

6. In order to stay on plan and to communicate Her decisions, the Wife will lead bi-weekly family meetings.

7. Her leadership is unlimited and extends to all areas of life including but not limited to children, careers, where the family lives, use of free time, sex, money, politics, education, religious beliefs, etc.

8. Most decisions have financial impacts, therefore it is imperative that the Wife have complete control of the family finances. Children and husband can be given an allowance or debit cards which the Wife will fund at Her discretion.

9. The Wife’s career should always take precedence. This will help the Wife with both financial and title promotions. As the Wife moves up the ladder, She will be able to better provide for Her family and help other Women by hiring/promoting more Women where She works.

10. The Wife will be responsible for rewarding and punishing family members as She deems necessary.

The husband

1. The husband agrees to obey, serve and worship his Wife.

2. The husband agrees to wear a male chastity device and give his Wife the only keys. Other than a medical emergency, the Wife will decide when Her husband can access his penis.

3. Since the Wife has the burden of planning and making all decisions, the husband must do all household chores. This includes but is not limited to cooking, cleaning, running errands and child rearing.

4. The husband will transfer all of his assets to his Wife’s ownership. The husband can pay bills from a joint account funded by Wife but only the Wife can make financial decisions.

5. The husband is responsible for planning daily chores and meals but should check with the Wife to see if She requires any changes.

6. The husband must never raise his voice to his Wife or disagree with Her decisions.

7. The husband should always seek his Wife’s approval for his appearance.

8. The husband should start every morning by reciting his FLR Affirmations and end every night by kneeling before his Wife kissing Her feet and thanking Her for Her guidance.

9. The husband should complete his housework before his Wife returns from work so that he can focus on Her needs when She is home. If the husband works then the husband will do the housework at night and on weekends.

10. If the husband fails to obey, serve and worship his Wife then he will accept whatever punishment the Wife decides is appropriate. Punishment includes but is not limited to spankings, loss of allowance, extended chastity periods and/or loss of free time.

In order to support Female Supremacy, the Wife and husband will vote for Female candidates in all elections and provide financial support to Female candidates.

The family will only go to Female doctors and dentist unless the insurance choices are limited to males in a particular specialty.

The family will shop at Female owned stores, companies with Female CEO’s or companies highly rated by Working Mother’s Magazine.

The family will donate to Female specific charities and will volunteer 50 hours per year at a Woman’s Shelter.

FLR Affirmations (husband)

1. Women are divine beings and superior to males.

2. My Wife is a Woman. She is a divine being and my Superior.

3. My Goddess is always right.

4. I will obey my Goddess without hesitation.

5. I will serve my Goddess until I exceed Her expectations.

6. I will worship Her divine body any time and in any way She desires.

7. As a male, I am grateful to be my Goddess’ servant and to make Her time on earth as pleasurable as possible.

8. When not in the service of my Goddess, I will strive to make the life of other Women better.

9. I support Women Causes that will help Women take Their rightful place as rulers of Their lives and of the world.

10. I willingly accept any corrective action my Goddess deems warranted by my shortcomings.

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Underrated Skills for Beta Males to Practice

Drawing and preparing hot baths, exactly to Her Royalty’s preference

Taking painstaking care in dressing Her, right down to rolling Her stockings up Her calves

Writing down shopping lists and running Her errands

Laundry, including pressing shirts and gently steaming nylons

Walking with grace and proper posture, learning to to bow and curtsy for Her

Polishing: Silverware, jewellery, shoes, and Her nails

Food and beverage pairings/recipes, especially noting if She has food intolerances or allergies

Properly cleaning and tidying, not just a lick and a promise

Making a bed, preparing Her bedchamber for Her ultimate rest and comfort

Art of conversation and general etiquette

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things boys do that are super cute & hot

the shaky breathing they’re trying so hard to control but you can hear it so well

the unintentional hip thrusts and dick twitches through their jeans

the gentle exhale or the sharp gasp when you tease them just right

in a whisper, “fuck…”

the held back moans that keep slipping out

the quiet but intense dirty talk that you least expect and its fucking perfect

the moment you can hear their pace pick up as they work themselves up

the struggled louder breathing as they near climax

how beautiful their varying sounds are as they cum

when they least expect you to do something and can only respond with “oh, my god–”

their labored breathing and hard swallows as they come down from orgasm, their bodies relaxing and you can hear as they relax against their sheets and start to feel the rush of dopamine spread

their sleepy bashfulness amd neediness after they get the calm rush of an orgasm

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