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every overthinker should have someone to fuck them stupid

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honestly some of y’all want a significant other so badly and can’t understand why you can’t find one, but have no sense of boundaries or healthy expectations of what a relationship is like. in a committed long-term partnership you get left on read, you wait for texts back, and you can forget about each other when you’re busy. sometimes you fall asleep without saying goodnight and sometimes you’re too caught up to text each other before 6pm. that’s how it is. thinking that you can’t be deeply, beautifully in love and still wait more than “1.75 hours” for a text back is such an unhealthy and unreasonable expectation of what love is, and you shouldn’t be in a relationship if you can’t allow the other person to exist on their own apart from you. if you’re projecting your anxieties and insecurities onto a partner who doesn’t even exist yet, then you aren’t ready for one.

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I had a better experience with homeschooling than anyone I know, very academically focused and I started doing university classes when I was 16. Yet even for all of that, growing up in such a heavily christian environment wrecked havoc on the queer parts of myself, particularly towards how relationships worked.

The traumatised kid in me instinctually lashes at "abolish it entirely!" while the better read leftist part of me recognises that "home"schooling as a part of a hypothetically more collectivist society would actually be great. This gets into a lot of queered ideas about what family means in the wider community sense, but in a community where parenting is shared more widely, "homeschooling" becomes the norm and doesn't have the same social deficiencies.

Tl;Dr: homeschooling bad when the community is all bigoted evangelicals, homeschooling good when in collectivist society.

homeschooling in the US needs to be regulated but this is one of those conversations that immediately gets crushed by extremist conservatives and even well-meaning liberals will pipe up to be like "well some homeschooling is good!" when that's absolutely not relevant. regulation will not change anything for the homeschooling families who are serious about their children's education. the people who need to be regulated are the fringe extremists

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homeschooling in the US needs to be regulated but this is one of those conversations that immediately gets crushed by extremist conservatives and even well-meaning liberals will pipe up to be like "well some homeschooling is good!" when that's absolutely not relevant. regulation will not change anything for the homeschooling families who are serious about their children's education. the people who need to be regulated are the fringe extremists

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has anyone else noticed how having romantic feelings for someone is not the most dignified experience ever

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my constant stream of thank yous and sorrys will save me from the ass beating i have coming for the crime of having needs

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me when i realize the reason i dont feel like i can claim the term butch is cause i dont feel attractive enough

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yeah it started out as a fight club but then the eggs started cracking one after another and now it’s a transbian polycule.

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within my transfem utopia the dom will get to have a plushie collection too.

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girl who gets visibly disappointed when you tell her that putting estrogen in the local water supply isn’t a valid form of protest.

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Lately, I've felt the need to have a girl by my side whom I can just baby. To feel the comfort of her weight on me, to run my fingers through her hair while she sleeps, to feel her steady breathing tickle against my skin, to feel the warmth of her body covering me like a blanket... Holding myself back from squeezing her tightly because I can't get enough of that closeness, but I don’t want to wake her up. No, I wouldn’t want to interrupt her beautiful, peaceful dream.

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