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This blog is no longer in use.

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There. All done. The new blog has been made.

I'm not going to delete this blog, though, because I would lose a lot of good things. It'd be like erasing part of my history.

P.S. I can't believe they took the Redux theme off of the Theme list :c Well, at least I managed to copy and paste the coding so I have it saved.

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I've decided. I'll make a new side blog for my current RP blog. This one will soon go inactive.

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Homemade Oreos

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Okay, I realize this hilariously late for Asexuality Awareness Week (which was last week), but due to unforeseen stressors, it didn’t really get done in time.

Anyway! I’ve wanted to do something like this for a while, and I’m proud of myself of actually getting a six page comic done within a week. (Not that it’s really anything super fancy, but it’s better than nothing lol) I do apologize for the massive ugly text wall that is page four but I had a hard time figuring out how to convey it visually while being kind of pressed for time. oh and the occasional copy/paste, I’m sorry for that too

Enjoy! Click on the separate pictures if the text is hard to read.

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Korra, this fight is not over.

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What are the signs of emotional abuse?

Abusive Expectations - Makes impossible demands, requires constant attention, and constantly criticizes.

Aggressing - Name calling, accusing, blames, threatens or gives orders, and often disguised as a judgmental “I know best” or “helping” attitude.

Constant Chaos - Deliberately starts arguments with you or others. May treat you well in front of others, but changes when you’re alone.

Rejecting - Refusing to acknowledge a person’s value, worth or presence. Communicating that he or she is useless or inferior or devaluing his or her thoughts and feelings.

Denying - Denies personal needs (especially when need is greatest) with the intent of causing hurt or as punishment. Uses silent treatment as punishment. Denies certain events happened or things that were said. Denies your perceptions, memory and sanity by disallowing any viewpoints other than their own which causes self-doubt, confusion, and loss of self-esteem.

Degrading - Any behavior that diminishes the identity, worth or dignity of the person such as: name-calling, mocking, teasing, insulting, ridiculing,

Emotional Blackmail - Uses guilt, compassion, or fear to get what he or she wants.

Terrorizing - Inducing intense fear or terror in a person, by threats or coercion.

Invalidation - Attempts to distort your perception of the world by refusing to acknowledge your personal reality. Says that your emotions and perceptions aren’t real and shouldn’t be trusted.

Isolating - Reducing or restricting freedom and normal contact with others.

Corrupting - Convincing a person to accept and engage in illegal activities.

Exploiting - Using a person for advantage or profit.

Minimizing - A less extreme form of denial that trivializes something you’ve expressed as unimportant or inconsequential.

Unpredictable Responses - Gets angry and upset in a situation that would normally not warrant a response. You walk around on eggshells to avoid any unnecessary drama over innocent comments you make. Drastic mood swings and outbursts.

Gaslighting -A form of psychological abuse involving the manipulation of situations or events that cause a person to be confused or to doubt his perceptions and memories. Gaslighting causes victims to constantly second-guess themselves and wonder if they’re losing their minds.

Love, Salem

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korra caps per episode | ♥ | 2x02

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...and on a completely different note, perhaps I should make a new ooc side blog for my oddandaelita blog because this one is still too associated with my oddthepurplecat blog (mainly because this still has followers from that blog on here) and I really should just stop updating this one. I've been thinking about it for quite a while now, ever since I switched RP blogs.

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I really am tempted to post that rant on my RP blog but I just know that I'd likely get hate for it and I just don't feel like dealing with it.

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Oh and also, I know that it wouldn't be fair to judge them just because they're a pony blog and that they could like Code Lyoko also so they follow my Code Lyoko RP blog, but then again, it's my blog and I do what I want with it. Also, I do not trust the MLP community, especially after several bad experiences with it in the past.

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I really do wish I could just permanently pony-proof my oddandaelita blog because I just don't want MLP blogs following it. I mean, does anyone read the freakin' rules on my RP blog?! I even try to make the statement "PLEASE READ ALL PAGES BEFORE RPING WITH ME" as noticeable as possible in the description box, which includes reading the rules. But obviously nobody even bothers reading the rules on my blog. And I hate that. THE RULES ARE THERE FOR A FUCKING REASON SO READ THEM!

Good god.

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ahaha my college is great

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