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Being it girl/ that girl is not about bodyshaming yourself and others. It's not about misogynistic view on other women. It's not about hateful comments towards other's lifestyles. Being it girl is not about eating disorder and self-hate. It's not about creating ourselves for beauty standards and male gaze.

It's about self-care and healthcare. It's about respecting our own selves, it's about respecting our personalities and bodies. It's about healthy meals, it's about treating yourself with kindness, it's about complimenting ourselves, it's about love, self love especially.

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The Art of Showing Up for Yourself Every Day

In a world where we’re constantly pulled in all directions, showing up for ourselves is a skill worth mastering. It’s the subtle yet powerful act of prioritizing your well-being, setting boundaries, and building daily rituals that honor who you are. Here’s how to make it happen, one intentional step at a time.

1. Create a Morning Ritual That Sets the Tone

Begin with a simple, calming routine that focuses on grounding yourself. Think of five minutes of mindfulness, stretching, or even sipping your morning coffee without scrolling on your phone. This moment is about aligning your mind with your day—your time to check in with yourself.

2. Set Intentions, Not Expectations

Rather than piling on lofty goals, start each day by setting intentions—small, achievable steps that honor your energy and goals for the day. Intentions like “I will protect my energy,” or “I will be kind to myself” keep you connected to what truly matters.

3. Listen to Your Needs Without Judgment

Some days, showing up means tackling a to-do list; other days, it means giving yourself a break. Listen closely to what you need—whether it’s extra rest, time alone, or time to socialize—and honor it without judgment.

4. Invest in Small Acts of Self-Care

Showing up doesn’t require grand gestures. Simple acts like drinking enough water, making time for skincare, or organizing your space send the message that you value yourself. The key is consistency—building small moments that reinforce self-worth daily.

5. Embrace Gratitude and Reflection at Night

Each night, end your day with a few moments of gratitude and reflection. Acknowledge your efforts and appreciate the small victories, however minor they may seem. This habit builds resilience and makes it easier to show up for yourself again tomorrow.

Showing up for yourself daily is about building a life that feels both empowering and graceful. It’s an art form, crafted by listening to yourself, honoring your needs, and taking small steps toward the best version of you. So here’s to you, showing up with intention and elegance, every day.

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if you voted for trump, get the fuck off my blog.

i refuse to tolerate anyone who’s willing to sabotage the wellbeing of their country because having a woman of color in power is simply too much to handle.

i have so many people i love & cherish in the united states and i will not stand to see them perish at your hand.

oh also, to my american followers, i love you all deeply. you’re so important to me, i’m here if you need absolutely anything.

Sic Gorgiamus Allos Subjectatos Nunc.

We Gladly Feast on Those Who Would Subdue Us.

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just remembered my mother and how she could have been, please don’t call

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oh well

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The devil couldn’t reach me so he gave me parents

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❣︎𝐃𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐛𝐥𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝𝐧’𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐥 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐥𝐲𝐬❣︎

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Do you hate your name because it connects you to the people you once loved? The people you're convinced loved you too? Your parents religion, beliefs, and everything they wanted you to be, which you are not?

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I beg

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only want to be sweet once you made me cry.

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wish my mother didn't have a victim complex

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Breaking news:

Parents discover that communication without yelling is actually a thing?????

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why do u hate me mom