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the cheers as soon as not like us starts playing 😭😭 that tweet that said "whenever you're having a bad day remember drake is having it worse" will never age

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may god guide the glorious philadelphia eagles in their holy war against the infernal kansas city chiefs

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gay people finding subtextual gay relationships in media: wow! this is fun! if they're "just friends" why are they looking at each other like that am I right

someone, every single time: so you're saying that platonic relationships aren't important? you're saying that friendships can't be deep and meaningful? fuck you fuck you f

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Cannot FUCKING stand when my loose leaf tea says to add tea in tablespoons instead of teaspoons. I'm sorry, bitch. Am I making tea or am I making a table. Let me double fucking check.

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Do you see your little red house?

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remember when teachers would tell you to fold paper hamburger or hotdog style. kind of sounds like some fake shit but just another example of burger centric american thinking

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hey boy don't kill yourself. green's dictionary of slang is available online and allows you to explore 500 years of english vulgarity. you can search by part of speech, source, time period, etymology, and usage. there's a whole category for gay slang. they even have specific citations listed so you can see the exact context for yourself. boy did you know that in 1927 "to kneel at the altar" was slang for "to sodomize"

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First experiment with my new paint pens went well 😊

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if you're aware of the Vulture article on Neil Gaiman, there's not much i can add; if you aren't and you go looking, my only advice is that if you hit a point where you're wondering if you should bail, do so, because the details of his behavior only get more vile as it goes along.

however, one thing i WILL say is to be on the lookout for smear campaigns against the sources and/or the journalist, Lila Shapiro, in the coming weeks and months. i cannot stress enough how brave this article is. if there's one thing more hazardous to your reputation than blowing up a rich and influential serial predator in the entertainment industry, it's making the church of scientology look bad, and she's managed to do both in one stroke. remember Lila Shapiro's name, and be extremely skeptical if it suddenly turns up later this year as the target of some slimy allegation.

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are you frequently overstimulated?

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I’m going to [remembers I should stop saying ‘kill myself’] rewatch Supernatural

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on repeat

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’cold showers are actually much better for you’ I don’t care if they gave me the power to manipulate time. you can pry scorching hot showers out of my dead hands. and even if I got time manipulation powers I would just use them to take more hot showers. btw

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do you think that a certain genre of queer person is so obsessively weird about pride flag discourse becuase their flags fill the gaping hole in their personality where a hogwarts house used to be

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How would you explain in simple terms that androphobia isn't real and that painting it and wrapping in trans colours doesn't make it any less non existent? Right now all I have is anger. Because how do you tell some tguy or transmasc that what he's experiencing isn't "hatred for men", but rather regular misogyny and transphobia? I'm so tired of this nonsense. And I'm transmasc so it makes it worse. I really feel isolated because it feels like most guys out here have wildly internalised misogyny and can't fathom that they're being oppressed because society views them as lost women lol

You aren't being hated because of your masculinity in and of itself; you are being hated because you are transgender. You violate the gender binary, and so you are attacked and oppressed. This transphobia can manifest in hatred for your masculinity, but it cannot be understood as related to "androphobia". I don't think that saying society views trans people as "lost women" or "failed men" is particularly helpful; rather, we're all violations of the artificial gender and sex binary. Don't misgender us in an attempt to define social dynamics.

Were you a cisgender white man, the qualities you have that society considers "manly" would give you structural advantages. Were I a cisgender woman, the qualities I have that society considers feminine would continue to target me for oppression. Structurally uplifting cis women helps me in turn; there is no way to structurally uplift cis men, because they are already the top of the gender hierarchy. Structurally uplifting trans people, of course, helps us both.

You're angry, and not for no reason; there very much are issues that transmasculine people suffer. Cis MRA groups were angry about the draft, about disabled men, about the criminal justice system- and disability rights and an abolishment of the military and carceral systems are real, valid causes! But MRA thought directs that anger towards feminism. MRA subreddits had posts about men expressing very real isolation and ableism, side by side with blaming women like Anita Sarkeesian and the early metoo movement for their problems. Here on tumblr, we see TMRAs condemning any terminology that allows transfems to describe their oppressors an participating in harassment campaigns against outspoken trans women.

Spend some time asking yourself; who are you angry at? Who's telling you to be mad at transfeminists?

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i love winter sso much but trying to think of things to do with friendss during winter is the worst. do you want to come freeze to death outside with me

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Tell me your reasoning!

Imo Dean going to hell for four months would've been enough for the degree of trauma he shows later on, and it translating to 40 years for him cheapens it to me. For Sam, it made a little more sense w/ the wall