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ㅤ૮꒰ ⑅ ˊ ། ິ ` ꒱ა　˚̣̣̣｡　𝐈 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐟𝐢𝐭 𝐭𝐰𝐨 𝚙𝚎𝚘𝚙𝚕𝚎 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐦𝐲 𝓈𝓀𝒾𝓃.

Hello hello！ I am Sonam or 娜瑶 (Nā Yáo)。 I am new f/o tumblr，however I have been a yumejoshi for quite some time。 I do not mind if we share yumes， but I can be very attached to my lovers。 If you purposely try to compete with me， please know I will not feed into it & I will happily block。

I go by shi /hir， qi / qin， and vamp / vamps pronouns。 I am an intersex transgender girl， and a hyper-romantic acespec lesbian。 Not everything I perceive for my f/os is inherently canon。

I am here to post f/o positivity， and possibly about my f/os specifically。 I also write fanfiction， which I will share here — when I actually get the motivation to write⋯ I will post freely， and likely with no form of a schedule。

Some things about me： I have BPD， DPD， ASD， and more。 I am nonhuman。 I have been a yumejoshi for ~4 years。 I adore goth culture and gothic decor， as well as text and rentry decor。 My heart swoons for anything cute， delicate， feminine， and haunting。 I am a system。

My interests include： My Hero Academia， Genshin Impact， Honkai：Star Rail， Jujutsu Kaisen， Demon Slayer， Haikyuu！！， The Walking Dead， Studio Ghibli， Hunter x Hunter， Avatar：The Last Airbender， Bungo Stray Dogs， Tiān Guān Cì Fú， and more。

Those in bold are my sp/ins, those in color are my hyperfixations。

I would love to find mutuals， so please add a note if you would like to be my mutual。

You can find my list of f/os here！Thank you for venturing along my post， dear reader， and I hope you enjoy your travels here。

DNI：Proship， shipcest， anti-yume， endos/endo neu

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Sonam’s F/O list ໒꒰੭୧ ཀ ̟ <｡꒱ྀི১

Readers guide； Romantic yume， Queerplatonic yume， Marital yume， Dating yume。

「Genshin Impact」 Zhongli (钟离)， Neuvillette， Raiden Ei， Yae Miko， Alhaitham， Candace， Xianyun (闲云)。

「Honkai：Star Rail」 Boothill， Dan Heng (丹恒)， Jiaoqiu (椒丘)。

「My Hero Academia」 Katsuki Bakugou， Izuku Midoriya， Keigo Takami， Toshinori Yagi， Himiko Toga， Ochako Uraraka， Tenya Iida。

「Jujutsu Kaisen」 Suguru Geto， Satoru Gojo， Yuji Itadori。

「Hunter x Hunter」 Illumi Zoldyck， Machi Komacine。

「Demon Slayer」 Shinobu Koucho， Kyoujuro Rengoku， Tengen Uzui。

「Hakyuu」 Tsukishima Kei， Atsumu Miya。

「Bungo Stray Dogs」 Sigma， Chuuya Nakahara， Kunikida Doppo， Koyo Ozaki， Edgar Allen Poe， Nathaniel Hawthorne， Tetcho Suehiro。

「Tiān Guān Cì Fú」 Hua Cheng (花城)

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if you have a hard time falling asleep or staying asleep , know that your f/o is always there to help soothe you to a peaceful sleep , and will be as patient as you need them to be because they understand your struggle and never want to see you suffer ..

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Selfshippers who are more "submissive" in their selfships are extremely valid. But, there isn't much love for selfshippers who are "dominant"!

Selfshippers who make all the meals for their F/O when they're sick.

Selfshippers who sit beside their F/O and comfort them when they're upset, when they're breaking down.

Selfshippers who do all the work for their exhausted, mentally or otherwise, F/O.

Selfshippers who make all the money, if it's needed.

Selfshippers who like to be the one complimenting and peppering in kisses, not the other way around.

Selfshippers who prefer to be the one laid on at night, their F/O safe and sound in their arms.

While selfship spaces can be more catered to those who are 'submissive', you 'dominant' selfshippers are just as important! Just as amazing! Just as worthy of being here!

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stimming by holding his face in my hands and tracing his eyebrows and his cheekbones and his jawline

stimming by pressing my face against his, or against his hair or his hands

stimming by following the paths of bones and veins in his arms with my fingers and eyes

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You guys should make interfandom poly self ships. You know. You should imagine all your f/os and you as roommates or housemates. You should imagine yourself being loved and adored and fought over like a Shoujo anime protagonist. You need to do it for your own good. You desetve to feel twice, thrice, million times lovable n desirable, ok?

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okay but super affectionate s/i x not used to it f/o

pulling them on to your lap to give them kisses, watching them blush and look away because they're unsure of how to react.

putting your arm around them and them stiffening up, as if they don't know exactly what to do.

constantly giving them hugs and their hesitation to hug back.

eventually they get used to it and really really love the affection (but chose to not say anything, instead let you come to them).

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realized i forgot to post this from my twitter… but i made a crush chart for character crush dynamic related needs

feel free to use, don’t remove my credits 🫶

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When you’re upset , your f/o is always ready to drop everything and make sure you’re comfortable . They’ll make your favorite foods , watch your favorite shows with you , pamper you and love you and let you know that no matter what, they’ll always take care of you and love you infinitely .

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to all self shippers with personality disorders, i hope you know that your f/o does not think you are hard to love or difficult to deal with, even if you think you are. they love you regardless.

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if they didnt want me to fall hopelessly in love with fictional characters why did they make them so easy to fall in love with huh?????????? why did they make them so kissable and easy to care about and imagine a life with hmmmmmmmmm??????????

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Selfship Template Masterlist!

i make templates now because theyre super fun,,, so here's a masterlist !!!

please please no com/pro/darkship!!!!!!!!!!!!!

selfship template

meet my s/i template

meet my f/o template

selfship this or that template

favorite things about my f/o template

selfship q&a template

f/ovember template

this will be updated as i make more! feel tree to suggest some :)

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f/ovember template!!!

hello!! here is a template that i made for you guys to use during f/ovember!! your f/o can answer these questions about your s/i :)

heres an example;

link template/tag me to use! no pro/com/dark ship. thisll be linked on the masterlist!

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selfship q&a template!!!

do yall like the absurd amount of templates I make. yes no? anyways rules, blah blah, no proship, yall know this, tag me/link template to use, yall know the drill. here's an example

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favorite things about my f/o template!

another template for you guys to use!!!!! yadda yadda, @ me or link the template here to use yadda yadda, here's an example

okay have fun bye

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selfship this or that template!

WHAM BAM KERBLAM all i do is make templates. if any of yall have suggestions lmk but this is the new selfship community hyperfix. RARARRAARRA

here is an Example

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meet my s/i template !!!

cooked this up for you guys to use :) @ me or link the template here for credit !!! here's how I used it, but you can do whatever you want!