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Why don't younger queer people sympathise with elder queers who might not be as comfortable with words that were once slurs. Like I understand them, and they should feel comfortable in queer spaces too

why dont younger queers respect that what is a slur to us is just an identity label to people older ?

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tbh, as a narcissistic i actually think it's really funny those "narc abuse" posts, like:

• tools and tactics to destroy a narcissistic's ego!

• what you need to know about narcissists!

• how to survive a narcissistic abuse!

it sounds like im a kind of nonhuman superior creature, like wym you think im sooo scary that you need to learn tools of how to destroy me? *twirls my hair and giggles and blushes and kick my feet*

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“Fatherless behavior” stop giving my DAD credit for all the work my MOM put into making me a terrible person!! Stop erasing women in history!!

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“sorry i can’t come out, i have plans”

the plans:

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this callout couldve been a block button

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people who have wronged me should Explode every time they try to even think my name

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to be disabled is to constantly be blamed for things that are out of your control

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'you wouldn't pirate a-' i would steal anything from any company. anything in the world. i dont even want it i just hate you

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if we're being honest fatphobia and fascism have a lot more interdependence than people give it credit for. for all the jokes we make about people changing personalities when they're hungry, we never seem to make the connection about why every single bigot you know is fatphobic. you can't be empathetic when you're lacking the most basic, basic thing we need to survive. your brain, when you're hungry, is thinking it's going to die. that makes people act worse in general. its why cults thrive on scarcity. its why religions love to advocate for food restriction rules and encourage starvation as a way to get closer to your deity. you cannot be logical when hungry. you cannot think beyond anything other than how shitty life is in that moment and how you're going to get enough food to survive. we really need to address fatphobia if we have any chance of dismantling oppressive systems.

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hello for the love of god hi. if you have a chronically ill/disabled loved one who is constantly flaking on plans, unable to attend events due to illness, please please please keep inviting them to things anyway. being excluded from events due to illness or the assumption that we won't be able to attend is the worst feeling, even if the assumption is true. a cursory 'hey we are planning to do xyz, i know this thing isn't always easy for you but we'd love to see you there if at all possible' truly means the world. better yet, make plans with your chronically/ill disabled friend in mind and help them navigate the accessibility of it all or choose what you do together. failing that, if you haven't explicitly been told to stop inviting them to things, continue to include them in your plans because being deliberately excluded hurts like hell

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✨soft asks✨

What song makes you feel better?

What is your go to comfort show?

Reading or writing? Why?

Whats your favorite feeling?

How do you like to take care of yourself?

What’s your favorite candle scent?

Who do you feel most like yourself around?

Whats a fabric/texture that’s nostalgic for you?

Best childhood moment?

When was the last time you laughed so hard you cried? (or just felt really good afterwards)

Do you have a comfort item? Tell us about it!

What calms you down?

Bath or shower to relax?

Whats something upcoming that you’re excited for?

Comfort food?

What’s something you want to create soon?

How do you feel best loved?

What age in life do you think you’ll feel most yourself at?

Have you ever written or received a love letter?

Tell us about a memory you hold close to your heart.

Tea, Coffee, or hot cocoa?

Name of your favorite playlist?

Have you ever received flowers?

Who is your bestfriend?

If your soul was a color, what would it be?

If you could live anywhere with anyone you want, where would it be and who would you bring?

Do you like to garden? Have you ever grown something?

What are you proudest of?

Are you a kind person?

What do your hobbies look like?

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fuuuuuck i have needs and wants and desires :( sadly they needto put me at the bottom of a deep as fuck hole and pour cement over me because of this

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i love cis people cause when i say “when i used to be a girl…” they go “mhmm…. but also….. you’ve ALWAYS been a man” okay ur very sweet but actually i was a weird girl in middle school and you need to know that to understand my personality today

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World's most divorced man becomes first human to be alienated from both biological and digital children.

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you guys made luigi mangione trend for days and I need to see the same energy for brianna boston. she is a 43 year old mother of three who ended a phone call with blue cross blue shield (after being denied a claim) “delay deny depose, you people are next” and is now being held under a 100,000$ bond and could face FIFTEEN years of prison if charged. she has no weapons, her record is clean, and yet she is being held behind bars. they are afraid of the public and are trying to subdue. do not let them!!!! be outraged that our freedom of speech is being threatened!!!!! deny defend depose! free brianna boston!

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