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i love ppl who talk in the tags bc it satisfies my deep desire to know ppl’s opinions on everything without needing to have a conversation with them and ask. even better when it’s a side tangent that barely has anything to do with the post, or a personal anecdote, or a joke. tag talker mutuals you’re my favorite. tag talkers rise up
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Hobbies shouldn't cost money only time and energy
#admittedly ive been spoiled by having my main hobby for like over a decade be digital art#which has like one or two upfront costs and then is free for years#so i forget that a lot of hobbies cost money
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the most fun a girl can have is finding parallels, noticing patterns, making connections, contemplating
#the golden era of the end of season 3 of the magnus archives and the beginning of season 5#where there were a lot of frantic red string discussions between me and a few friends#glorious times
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people are so mean about horror movie victims like. sorry but if i had gone to a cabin in the woods with my friends as a teenager you couldn't have stopped us from reading aloud from the evil tome. how were they supposed to know the ancient curse was real they're like 17
#realizing why this mindset annoys me more and more#as i deal with more people who desperately cling to the idea that if you're sick then it's your fault somehow#because the other option is that they could randomly get sick/disabled#and they need to believe that they can just do everything right and avoid that fate#i mean yeah i think most people get exasperated or annoyed when a character does something stupid#but i hope most people also recognize that it's a pretty human thing to do#also i am fond of stories where someone does everything right#but they still lose somehow#ALSO ALSO thinking of that one ttrpg podcast that didn't tell the players they were playing a slasher horror one shot#but instead were playing some slice of life modern thing#we forget too easily that characters do not know the genre they are in#good shit
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This is how KH1 went right
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#growing up with kh is kind of wild#because first play through of kh1 was like ''oh sora and riku both like kairi and are competing for her''#and then it was ''they're all poly and in love and dating''#and now it's ''kh1 is fascinating if viewed through the lens of the idea that riku is dealing with comphet and thinks he should like kairi#and it's affecting how he sees himself and his relationships creating insecurity and doubt and hurt that leaves him easily manipulated#but also they are still poly except that riku and kairi are both dating sora but not each other but they DO love each other deeply#and are probably queerplatonic''#anyway#riku gay#kh
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Funniest fandoms are where the fans are like, "I'm obsessed with this. I don't recommend it even slightly."
#rvb#i love it#i love it so much#i might recommend it to specific people with warnings but mostly no#because yikes#also i have recommended the untamed to people and they'll go#''oh it's based off of a book maybe I'll read it!''#and it's like WELL#maybe not 😬 at least not without warnings lmao
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Wish I had the capabilities to draw a scene from my dream because what in the eldritch horror biological mecha was that about
#dream: main character is in a mall getting food and shopping and goes into a game store :)#brain: this is boring as SHIT *crashes a biological mech of unknown origins into the mall which is now a skyscraper#killing many people in gruesome ways and choosing the main character to pilot the mech#for unknown reasons because i woke up*#anyway the mech crashing into the building was cinematic as fuck#and extremely vivid#most of my dreams act like im watching a movie
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A newborn baby girl will have to go through life with the wrong sex on her birth certificate after a registrar’s error, which her parents have been told they cannot change. Grace Bingham and her partner, Ewan Murray, were excited to register their first child at the Sutton-in-Ashfield Registration Office in Nottinghamshire last week. But, after nights of broken sleep, they failed to notice the registrar had written the wrong sex on the birth certificate until after it had been submitted. “We were horrified but assumed that, as we saw the mistake just a few seconds after it had happened, correcting it would be an easy matter,” said Murray. “But although the registrar apologised for her mistake – and the area manager also apologised – it turns out that birth certificates can’t be changed.”
this article is interesting because it demonstrates that cis people can very easily apply structural thinking to sex assignment - this couple immediately identifies that their daughter, having mistakenly been assigned male at birth by the registrar, will have administrative problems in employment, education, travel, and so on. they pretty adeptly identify the foundational role that sex assignment plays in the administrative and civil functions of a state, and how incorrect sex markers effectively produce a ‘rational’ reason for discrimination within these administrative and civil arenas:
The General Register Office (GRO), which is responsible for administering all civil registration in England and Wales, and the Home Office have both confirmed that Lilah’s birth certificate cannot be reissued, although an amendment can be made in the margin of the original document. But Bingham said this is not enough. “People reading a birth certificate might easily miss a tiny note in the margin – which means that Lilah could be regarded as male when she applies for school, her passport, for jobs – for everything that she needs a full birth certificate for.”
And given that this was published in The Guardian, this article makes zero mention as to why it’s impossible for this couple to receive an updated birth certificate with correct information (something the author notes was possible to do a year ago), but the reason is obviously transphobia.
Now one might ask why there’s no exception for cis people whose birth certificates were recorded incorrectly at birth, but this reveals the instability of cissexualism. How would you determine who is a cis person with a mistaken birth certificate, versus a trans person who wants to change their mistaken sex assignment record? Sure, you could say well, this is an infant, of course she’s “really” “biologically” female (something the parents argue in the article as grounds for having their child’s birth certificate re-issued), but 1) that certainly can’t be argued for in all cases, 2) 'biological sex' is understood by medical doctors as alterable through hormones and surgery, which trans people are often required to undergo in order to change their records, and 3) binary sex assignment is already imprecise and discretionary, particularly if infants have sex characteristics that don’t conform to binary F/M assignment standards (which is part of how the category of intersex emerges, framing this failure to conform to state census categories as a biological defect - and in fact, many intersex people do not discover they are intersex until the onset of puberty or later, at which point they are even less in luck if they want to change their sex assignment - and if they don’t, if they are cis but have sex characteristics that do not conform to cis standards, they will be discriminated against anyway).
Even setting aside the issue of transgender and intersex people for a moment, states fuck up all the time in administration! you've probably either experienced this directly or know someone who's had some kind of record fucked up by the government at some point in their life. If you get married they could fuck up changing your last name, fuck up your disability status, record your social insurance number wrong, print the wrong address on your driver’s license, fail to acknowledge you as a dependent when filing taxes, incorrectly mark you as having graduated when you’re still a student, fuck up your immigration paperwork, record your name wrong during immigration, etc etc into infinity, and this is not even getting into errors that occur when different levels of government pass information between one another. This level of administrative rigidity is purely to punish people who fail to perform cissexualism correctly, and in the case of this couple's child, the administrative error of the state is imputed to them as a personal failure that she and her parents will now have to deal with for the rest of their lives.
I think the ultimate analysis is not that transphobia will become less precise and hit more "wrong" targets as it expands its reach, but that this is the exact same operational logic as all other liberal state measures - if you encounter a systemic issue, it’s your fault for not avoiding it, fuck you, go away. You’re poor because you’re lazy, you’re unhoused because you’re lazy, you’re disabled because you’re lazy, and your daughter is now administratively transsexual because you’re lazy. In this case, we don’t even need to assume the intentions of the state - they outright say it:
The family complained to the GRO but was told the mistake was their responsibility and could not be fully rectified. “The duty to ensure that information recorded in any particular entry is true is the responsibility of the person providing the information and not of the registrar general or the registrar recording the birth,” the GRO said.
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the problem with crocheting is that i think i already made the the best thing i'll ever crochet
like i don't really love how most crochet things look. i just really enjoy the process. but i made this lap blanket out of fingering weight yarn, and it's currently draped around my shoulders, and it's so pretty and intricate, and i just look at the blanket i'm currently working on and it's just :|
#a weird curse#after i'm done with this blanket and another thing i have the yarn for#maybe i'll exclusively work with lacy fingering weight stuff#even if it's slow as hell#it's the only crochet i like the look of
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im really in a bad place i hope the sun doesnt start setting crazy early at like 4pm. i said i hope the sun doesnt set early at like 4pm that would be bad for me
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me to my cat: you seem bored. try switching things up! sleep in different places! play with different toys! run around the house more!
also me when my cat does anything even slightly out of character: are you dying??
#behavior changes make me paranoid 😭#also she gets bored really quickly when i try to play with her#please beam your preferred method of playing directly into my brain#and it cannot be ''let me outside the front door by myself''
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Having ADHD is so fun because sometimes youre looking for something that you use regularly and definitely put away in a smart and reasonable place and you have absolutely 0 hope of remembering where and finding it. And then other times ur like "hmm I need a some kind of small pointed object. I feel like i remember seeing a paperclip under the left couch cushion a month ago, i wonder if its still there" and it is
#i will constantly lose my tablet pen while actively using it#but i once didn't use my tablet for like 7 months and finally used it again#and Knew exactly where the pen was#(it was not in a logical spot)#so yeah very true
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speedrunners be like "if you do these precise movement in this order, the atoms making up your body will line up perfectly with the atoms of the wall and you'll clip through"
#speedrunning#watching the newest windwaker speedrun route and it's like what the fuck#i genuinely do not believe we live in a simulation based SOLELY on the fact that speedrunners would have broken it by now#i fear them
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what the fuck is this monstrosity
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People eventually get diagnosed BECAUSE they are already disabled and struggling. The symptoms don't appear AFTER the diagnosis. So don't expect everyone without a professional diagnosis to be basically fine. That makes no sense.
#''why are you upset that the labs/tests came out normal? that's good!''#the symptoms are STILL THERE#there's still a problem!
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Being neurodivergent and chronically ill is crazy because you already have issues with executive functions and then your body hinders you even more. AND your sensory issues are heightened by the pain you feel.
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