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everyone wants a catgirl feedee until she wakes you up at midnight to demand breakfast. and then she wakes you up at 1am to demand breakfast. and then she wakes you up at 1:47 to demand belly rubs. and then she wakes you up at 2:33 to demand breakfast. and then she wakes you up at 3:07 to demand breakfast. and then she wakes you up at 3:59 to demand breakfast. and then she

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new Cooks' Illustrated todayyy <3

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"i mean i kind of feel like i need to read the classics just to have read the classics, you know?" but i'm talking about Kushiel's Dart

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so fun to me when i see notifs like

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i was doing it before it was cool and i'm going keep doing it long after it's cringe

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I'm not usually into bimbofication but today I'm thinking about someone forcing me to read YA

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The weird intersection between fatphobia, sexual puritanism and fake progressiveness that breeds the idea that a skinny person attracted to fat people is a "chubby chaser" or a "fat fetishist" and not just like. Someone who has the hots for fat people. The idea that only another fat person could be attracted to fat people, otherwise it's sinister. Secretly you think any skinny person who'd want to fuck a fat person is debasing and devaluing ourselves, but you've pivoted into pretending you worry about a fat person's dignity.

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thinking about this pizza again... it was also genuinely so delicious

last week i made a phone call to order some pizza and the guy was like, what size do you want? and i was like uhhh idk what do you recommend for 4 people

and he goes "i'll see to it that you're more than taken care of, see you at 6:30" and hangs up the phone before i can ask any follow-up questions on that

and boy i gotta tell you, i'm glad i already knew certain things about myself when i made that call, cuz if i didn't, i would have been VERY confused by the way that made me feel

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Resource List - feedism and fat liberation

From a sex-positive, social work perspective, the fat liberation movement asking the feedist community to reject an integral part of their sexual identity for the sake of acceptance seems antithetical to the values of liberation as a whole. It only serves to further perpetuate heteronormative social constructs and stigma in an attempt to silence that identity.

Fat liberation must be wholly sex positive to truly be considered liberation at all.

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here are the resources I used for my paper connecting feedism and fat liberation under a sex positive framework. please feel free to add on if there are additional sources you’d like included! This is NOT an exhaustive list by any means.

trigger warning: not all of these sources are nice about feedists or fat people. most of them are at baseline neutral to positive, but please read at your own risk.

Feederism: an exploratory study into the stigma of erotic weight gain by Alyshia Bestard (2008)

Feederism: eating, weight gain, and sexual pleasure by K. Charles and M. Palkowski (2015)

What’s fat activism? by Charlotte Cooper (2008) ((this was another thesis for a sociology department so hopefully y’all can find it))

Sex Positive Social Work by Sarah Jane Dodd (2020)

Help me get fat! Feederism as a communal deviance on the internet by A. Prohaska (2013)

Fat liberation: how social workers can incorporate fat activism to promote care and justice by B.L. Sorensen and A. Krings (2023)

Feederism in context: mainstream depictions, psychology, and sociology by K. Charles and M. Palkowski (2015)

Fat and forgotten: the exclusion of fat women in sexual liberation and the implications for sexual public health by S. Barreto (2023)

Fearing the Black Body: the racial origins of fatphobia by Sabrina Strings (2019)

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they call me a strap monster the way that i. God this joke isn't going to be funny to anyone but people who are really into watches. Okay, so, in the watch collecting community (guess who fell down a rabbit hole recently) (it's me) (no this is not what I would have chosen to do with my time either) there's a term "strap monster" which people use to mean a watch that goes well with a wide variety of wrist straps, enabling you to build a lot of different looks with it. Most strap monsters have standard lug widths (that's the part where the wrist straps attach) and neutral aesthetics that can easily incorporate into various different stylings. So. Uh. Hang on.

they call me a strap monster the way that uh. i'm versatile, easy to get along with, and make all your outfits better

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The only true problematic kink is the society wide force thin fetish

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I wasn’t made queer just to be quiet about what I enjoy and what gets me off and what brings me pleasure and fulfillment

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"never trust people who are vague about the weird kinks they're trying to defend" you can't be fucking serious right. the vast majority of people are afraid to share and talk about their kinks. do you fucking know how much time and work it took me to feel okay about feedism? do you think maybe i spent a large amount of time being meticulously vague about my kinks for fear of social rejection? can we extend the same compassion to people with incest and cnc and ageplay kinks that people currently give me?

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Nikki the Bartender from “Pinched” (2010) by David Vandervoort

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Thanks for all the amazing art you make. I was wondering if you would be able to draw an extra fuzzy bbw? I mean, a head of wild curls, plus unshaved legs/belly/arms etc

Hairy fat women I love you…

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The simple eroticism of the tummy will win out over everything else every time

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Comm made for @chaoticillusionwitch ❤️ I couldn't decide which lighting to choose so here are all the versions