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the new executive order (Jan 28, 2025) is very clear evidence of the ties between transphobia and white nationalist anxieties about birth rates

they want the population assigned female at birth to be prevented from any life outside of pregnancy and breastfeeding. they are going to punish anyone who refuses this assignment.

they want any white child capable of pregnancy to be forced to reproduce "the white race" and for all other trans people to die.

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yes mom im definitely a funny baby and not a scary tiger 🙄

ID: Orange and white tabby laying on a green cushion in a grey chair

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this northern cardinal has the bright red hues the males of the species are known for, but lacks the signature black ‘mask’. it’s likely that this bird’s unique appearance is due to leucism (a partial lack of melanin) or a similar genetic mutation. leucism is not inherently harmful to birds, but can impact their lives in many ways; melanin strengthens feathers, so some birds with leucism may have more brittle feathers. additionally, some birds may have trouble finding a mate or suffer from increased attention from predators (particularly all-white birds); however, as this cardinal’s differences are fairly minor, he likely goes about life as any other cardinal would.

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he is so handsome

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oh yeh we're drawing on fabric again lol

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Before you post your hot take about X gender markers, please stop to remember that actual human people are involved, and consider whether you’re implying that we deserve to be targeted!

Also, passport gender markers cannot be changed in the US right now, so any advice you may have about that is not helpful. Be honest, are you just trying to reassure yourself at our expense? Because that’s 100% how it comes off.

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Right now, the world of trans and nonbinary folks feels small—too small to push back against a system designed to isolate and conquer. The far-right’s divide-and-conquer strategy has long splintered marginalized groups, pulling friends and allies apart to weaken us. But this moment demands a reframing of the fight: this battle is not men versus women, or even male versus female. That war is last century’s story. The real gender binary today draws different battle lines—and opens the door to powerful resistance. The real gender binary pits “real manly men”—cisgender, heterosexual, white, Christian nationalist men—against everyone else. These men hoard power, demand deference, and gatekeep leadership while ensuring those outside their ranks fight over scraps. They dictate who gets to succeed, who gets to speak, and who gets to exist safely. Their patriarchy isn’t just about controlling women; it’s a more generalized sexism. It’s about controlling anyone who doesn’t conform to, or bow down to their idealized masculinity. They build walls, expel interlopers, and mock challengers from a pedestal of entitlement and fear. If this is the real gender binary—real manly men versus everyone else—then suddenly, trans and nonbinary people aren’t so small. We’re part of a massive coalition of “everyone else.” And within that realization lies the seed of resistance.

— The Real Gender Binary And the Path to Resistance by Kate Bornstein on substack

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100% atk and 0% dmg baby goat

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just saw the perforated baton rope making demonstration video for the first time and i 😲

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they should put testosterone in dr pepper

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Little girl in pink regalia does a Blackfoot & Plains Cree dance celebrating the Prairie Chicken, Source unknown.

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wife saw me taking this pic in the CVS and sighed so loudly

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just remember, one day you're going to open tumblr and the crabs will be raving like they never have before

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reblog to tell the person you reblogged this from that they are deserving of love and affection

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Give that trans guy the strap that makes cis guys preggers. It’s the only way we can balance out fanfic.

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*does this to you*