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i do not want to work. i want to kiss

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INDONESIA. Bali.   Rice field terraces in the central mountain area of Bali. © HARRY GRUYAERT/MAGNUM PHOTOS

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lucid dreaming...

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actually, growing up is feeling like i turned sixteen two days ago. i’ve been eighteen for years. fifteen year olds seem so young. wasn’t i fifteen just a few weeks ago? all my friends and i are still twelve. i’m closer to thirty than to being a baby. i never got to be a kid. i never grew past eight. i can’t talk to my mom. i want to sit in her lap forever. i want to decide everything for myself. i need someone to tell me exactly what to do. the week is going by so slow. an entire year has passed.

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Did u grow up without a positive male influence

didnt everyone

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Lexi, 20

“Pretty much everything I’m wearing I got second hand. My coat is by Formula X, the skirt is old Forever21, the hat is from Depop, leg warmers from eBay, and the shoes are Unif. I am really inspired by 90s/early 2000s alternative fashion and indie movies from that era.”

Jan 9, 2021 ∙ Greenpoint

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“They sprinkle in these crumbs of love so that it never feels bad “enough” to dump them. And if they sense you’re catching on to their bullshit, and realizing your own worth? Queue the love-bombing. Your favourite flowers, a gift you’ve wanted for a long time, trips away, specific words of praise that they know you like to hear, sex, or if they know you’re a fixer... promises that they will “get better” with zero change in behaviour. All of these things will be used against you to “erase” their toxic behaviour. Please know that you deserve all of these things in abundance, but not at the expense of abuse. Abuse is anything from controlling your appearance, preventing you from seeing people, to physically harming you.” (Florence Given)

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It‘s so selfish and arrogant to say „if you’re insecure no one will love you“. You aren‘t helping anyone with this advice. All you do is making someone even more insecure about themselves because they will think they could never be enough for someone which leads to depressing thoughts. Instead help them to love themselves. Tell them all the good and beautiful things you see in them and try to teach them to love and accept their flaws.

(-deepthoughtsvibes)

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Disability Pride Month 07-31-20: finale

July has finished but we have not. Here’s some advice to take with you into the future!

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That unstoppable girl that you’re envisioning, you’re her. She’s you. Go be her!