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So as a path to becoming a full time trophy wife or arm candy would you prefer a job as a

A waitress; serving men all day every day. No need for brains while you learn to you use your body for better tips. A nice sexist brestaurant where groping is encouraged to keep you nicely distracted.

A secretary; lowest on the corporate ladder, beneath everyone. Just a pretty thing tottering around the office doing the bidding of your betters till you find the boss that puts you in your place.

A beautician; your career devoted to helping other women become ever closer to the bimbo ideal you strive for. Surrounded by like minded women reinforcing your choice to be the best bimbo you can be.

Of these options it’s certainly Secretary mostly because even though waitress as you’ve described it is the kind of mindlessness that I find intriguing I’d most certainly punch a dude at the intersection of being someone I found skeezy, unattractive, and who groped me while I was distracted entirely out of reflex. Because I want to be less than and put in my place, but these hands are also rated e for everyone when I’m not paying attention.

Also

Being a secretary would be the biggest kind of demeaning change for me like exec to sec fantasies are something of a hot button for me. Even more so if I end up with a boss who’s objective is to slowly but methodically undermine everything I am while he preps me for a transition from the office to his or her home.

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I’ve often thought about what it would be like. To not be burdened with the ability to take in information at a rate most find astounding; process it, synthesize it into useable and actionable intelligence, and all in a timeframe most can’t hope to match. To not have to actively moderate how much news and media I consume every few days for the sake of not leaving myself an anxious mess over trends I observe, logical inferences I can’t help but draw, and the state of the world itself; so that I may protect my mental health and general peace. To not be able to see and read every lie, evasion, hidden feeling, and concealed intention in every person I ever meet. To be able to go out in public and not be hyper aware of everyone and every thing at all times. Unable to not follow and absorb all of the stimuli around me. Or even what it’s like to be free from the expectations of exceptionalism pushed upon me by those around me.

Being burdened with intelligence and ability hasn’t made me rich, or brought me safety, given me peace, or even afforded me happiness. And while I am not overly concerned with the first one, outside of the way by which it enables most to pursue the other three, I do so desperately yearn for safety, peace, and happiness. Wilde once said that “a dreamer is one who can only find his way by moonlight, and his punishment is that he sees the dawn before the rest of the world.”

In my experience intelligence is much the same: a burden of foresight, deeper understanding, of vision even in the uncertainty of darkness and the unknown, perhaps especially then. But these prognostic gifts position their unfortunate bearers in the unenviable circumstance of seeing the harsh dawn of reality before those lost in the figments of their own ignorance, and so of being ignored or shunned, or worst of all ostracized. While the world is content with the shadows on the wall and their lives so woefully, yet blissfully, unexamined; those cursed with intelligence above the norm and minds that can’t help but examine struggle and suffer under the ponderous weight of their own so-called “gifts.”

If one has the ability, does it not come with responsibility? I’m inclined to believe so, which is why I make decisions, I shape conversations, lead by by word and deed, exert influence and so power over others because that’s the expectation. Yet those expectations are killing me, slowly, but surely. My own capacities have become burdensome and are crushing me beneath their considerable weight. I am anxious, unhappy, afraid and so very tired. Where once I looked at the masses who stared so intently at the shadows on the wall with pity, now I feel only the deepest envy. And so there in lies the seed of temptation.

I ache, I burn, I pine, and I would so very gladly perish; if only so that I might succumb to temptations call. I have resisted this urge for years now fought with all that I am. I’ve tried to start down this path on my own on more than one occasion. Yet each time my own natural capacities, inclinations, and aptitudes have interfered and led me astray. But the temptation was always there. So this time, I think I will take a different approach. I seek the eyes opinions and guidance of others to help me stay the course. To quote Wilde once more:

“The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it. Resist it, and your soul grows sick with longing for the things it has forbidden to itself, with desire for what its monstrous laws have made monstrous and unlawful.”

So help me dear chorus of the digital void, help me to yield to this temptation and cure the sickness of my soul. Help me yield to this temptation though I know not the way; for I aspire to be less.

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My methods of getting dumber and changing my mindset for good headspace:

Phone Things:

-turn off predictive text

-turn off autocap

-have social media full of things your horny self wants but for SFW

-(bimboification: Nails designs, bimbo aesthetic clothing, makeup inspirations)

-have phone and computer backgrounds base around your ideal rather than your current. Try to make it sfw so you feel comfy about them rather than trying hard to hide nsfw images… it will just alainate your brain from your ideal.

-have a place to completly let go of any normal personality, where you can be free to express who you want to be. Helps get use to the new speach patterns, ideas, and freedoms… over time it will slowly bleed into your everyday speech without you knowing.

Mental Conditioning:

-when you are thinking of something and you take a while, when you feel youre near it, start saying "ummm" "errrrr" or tapping your lip with the combo. Occupy your brain so you cant remember what you was thinking about.

-try to not filter words when you speak… kinda -at first try to filter bigger words (Massive -> Big, Staving -> Hungry) -when you notice your online and offline personalitys blending a bit more, then you stop filters, let your brain speak whatever, even if its is so hecking stupid your friends wont let you live it down… keep in mind to obvs filter nsfw with people who dont talk about it with you - keep some common sense.

-Mantras: I dont do this because i forget (my memory is naturally bad) but create mantras to help you get into headspaces some examples that i have wanted to do: -(Bimbo: I need to be horny, being horny is hot, being hot is who I am, I am a horny fucktoy, fucktoys are fun, fun attracts [Guys/Girls/People], [Guys/Girls/People] Enjoy horny toys. I need to be horny, being horny…) -(Dumb: Good [Girls/Bois/Toys/Gooners] are dumb, I want to be a good [---/---/---/---] so I wanna be dumb, I dont need thoughts, I dont need to think, Thinking mades me sad, and being sad means ive been bad.

-Hypno: Personally love Smutty's Place on Youtube, she does amazing things and is safe as there are warning on more perm drops.

I might add more/make another if I learn more methods that are easy to do and not take too much effort <3

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tips for denial sluts: you could always be dumber

if you're like me, you might have started your denial journey solo or solo-ish. you're unowned, or your better/s haven't gotten with the program: that you're better off edged.

it can be hard to put yourself in your place. or maybe the reason it's hard is that we're just not smart enough? just too dumb to comprehend what our betters would want from us, or how to degrade ourselves! but we could always be dumber. here are some tips!

body language - don't be shy~ show off how desperate you are! edge in humiliating positions. you probably already do it with your legs spread, or upright, humping something soft. start small if you're too embarrassed! just spread your legs a little wider, maybe. push out your tits or ass, whichever one always gets you more attention. then from there...try it on your knees. imagine looking up at someone stronger than you, smarter than you, and, well, once that thought's in your head, it's amazing how natural it becomes to present yourself even more. you'd bow down to someone like that, wouldn't you? you just wouldn't be able to stop! plant your face in the mattress and lift your ass up. beg with your holes. and then if you're not already on the floor...get there. stay 💕

words have power (level 1) - you probably feel stupid at first using mantras. maybe that's because you are stupid 💕 and there's nothing wrong with that! a simple "good pets don't cum" is a good starter. keep going with that until you're doing it without thinking, until it's leaking into your dreams while you leak into your sheets~ then try "edged is better." words have power 💜 change your mindset. practice enough that you don't have to think about it. in fact, try, "i don't wanna cum, i wanna be dumb." you may never get through it without blushing; that's okay, our betters tend to like that 😉

dress appropriately - are you one of the sluts who gets naked to edge, or are you a needy whore who can't be bothered to undress before you put your hand down your pants and get to work? either way, it's worth being more mindful of your presentation~ try edging through your underwear until you get a wet spot 💕 embarrassing how it sticks to your skin as you pull it off, isn't it? or if you have tits, pull your clothes up above them without taking them off. maybe hold them in your teeth. do the same with your pants and underwear - not naked, just exposed. those are the most important parts of you, after all ❤️ or change it up: put on the sluttiest outfit you can find or make. cutting holes in some clothes to show just your tits and holes is easy!

words have power (level 2): start begging, dummy 💕 it doesn't matter if it's for things you don't actually want. try "please don't let me cum." or "please don't make me cum." you feel stupid at first, but soon you're tacking on "pleasepleasepleaseplease" like the good pet you are~ then give a good argument to your imaginary betters. something like, "i want to be your needy little slut. i want you to keep me denied so i don't have to think."

punish yourself - if you're already at this stage, you probably love degrading yourself huh? you love being humiliated. you love the idea that you're naughty for even thinking about cumming, or pathetic for being a denial toy. so punish yourself~ clothespins are cheap. try one on your tongue. drool a little. or put them on your nipples~ if you're still edging with your ass up, they'll rub against the floor. or every time you edge, put one on your clit/tdick, if you have one. start with 5 spanks to the cunt or ass after your first edge, then add another for each edge after that. that sucks, doesn't it? but i bet it won't keep you from edging for hours anyway 💕

bonus round: push your limits~ what's the worst thing you can think of being made to do for a better? licking their asshole? pissing yourself? drinking their piss? painal? a tit-whipping? beg for that while you edge. make your brain associate the pleasure of desperation with your hardest soft limits. imagine how impressed they'll be to hear you say "please piss in my mouth, pleasepleaseplease~" soon you'll find yourself rambling, adding on the reasons why you want it...and you do want it, all of a sudden. or, are there words that you can barely say because they're humiliating or cringey to you? words like mommy, daddy, cummies, master, doggy? start saying them. address your betters by the title that most embarrasses you to say. address yourself the same. or is it a tone of voice? you don't like saying "pwease?" go with that one. if all else fails, limit yourself to animal sounds. bark instead of begging. meow when you're getting close. do the things you hate to love, and it'll all come naturally 💕

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Gods it would be great to really fall down this spiral again.

‘Don’t think.’ and Other Bimbofication Mistakes (or 10 Tips on Dumbing Down hypnosis)

I recently saw a lovely post saying ’don’t tell me I’m getting hornier, make me hornier’.  That’s a good point. Saying ’you’re getting hornier’ is much lazier than actually doing the fun things that make someone hornier.

Same thing goes for being ‘dumb’.

If you are a Tist, try to imagine that someone gave you the instruction ‘be more dumb’.  How would you comply? What may have made sense to tell others to do suddenly becomes.. impossible? Think less? Think worse thoughts? How can you even begin to do that?

There’s an old quasi-hypnotic trick called ‘don’t think of an elephant’ to highlight the presence of the ‘think of an elephant’ suggestion but also the irony of telling someone not to think about something makes them think about it.   

So when someone tells you ‘don’t think���… how exactly is that supposed to work?

If you’re a sub, and you have ever been given that instruction (and you tried to comply) you’re very likely to have been sent into a bit of an anxious spiral; ‘don’t think about what? what was I thinking about? Does this count as thinking?’ and similar.  We are thinking animals.  Being told to stop thinking just makes us think about that. Like the elephant.

So if we do a little semantics, we can ask ‘what does dumb mean?’. We might find it is a collection of behaviours and kinds of behaviour.  Following is a few of the more specific behaviours that can be implemented hypnotically which result in dumb, but don’t demand it.

1. Broken concentration.  

The concept of intelligence is illusive but the ability to focus for extended periods of time is in the running. If you cannot do that, and keep losing your train of thought before it even made it all through

I had a very interesting trans sub once who responded beautifully to subtle cues that she would accidentally issue herself which broke her line of thought. 

2. Forgetfulness

Maybe the easiest to implement.  We are all capable of and familiar with the feeling of forgetting. That feeling that something was just there, and not it isn’t. That feeling of reaching for something inside your mind but not being able to find it.  That feeling of having just thought of something and now it’s gone…

Increase the frequency, increase the amplitude and normalise that sensation.

3. Embarrassment

It is embarrassing, isn’t it? When you are speaking to someone, especially if it’s in a public or professional setting and you forget what you are saying in the middle of it.  Embarrassment is a physical response that’s remarkably easy to stimulate (and so a good practice for new tists) and tie it to broken concentration. 

(By now, I hope you are imagining how these suggestions stack as beautifully as Russian dolls. Keep that in mind, as we go.)

4. Smiling

We all smile (or hopefully we do). Smiling isn’t a bimboesque activity in itself…

But.

Smiling as a response to any of the above.  Smiling when you are confused, smiling when you are lost, smiling when you have forgotten again. Smiling can be both the outcome and the trigger of any of these

Smiling is a defense mechanism. It can be what our faces go to do automatically and it’s so easily achieved, and can so accidentally happen, it can be very powerful to a competent tist.

5. Touch Self

I don’t mean like that. I mean in gentle ways.  We often intuitively, instinctively look for a distraction when are embarrassed, confused or otherwise uncomfortable.  People fidget when they’re nervous.  The body naturally wants to move to ‘escape’ difficult situations.

Use that in subtle ways. Touching arms, face and hair are good. Even directing eye movements downwards and encouraging a need to ‘stretch’ by arching her back and so on are all easily accessible, not very noticeable (from the subs perspective) and readily tied to other suggestions.

6. Arousal

Horny and drunk.. those are the two states we are all at our out-and-out dumbest. 

Those are the states where we absolutely cut off the blood supply to those critical faculties in the brain.  If you’re not going to trance her to be or feel drunk (though again, remarkably achievable to do) then use her arousal. 

Pairs well with ‘Touch self’

7. Confusion

Think of a time you didn’t understand something. Perhaps it was a conversatoin happening around you. Perhaps it was a maths equation from school.  Hone in on that moment of being exposed to information and the experience of not understanding it.  It is a specific kind of feeling, it’s tangible. 

Bringing a subject to recall such a time, capturing it in trance, and then attaching it to some of the others in this list, can work beautifully.

Confusion, as I’m sure you’re aware is also a naturally induced state of heightened suggestibility. Don’t forget that.

8. Thinking is Hard

Our brain is one of the most expensive organs in the human body to run, in terms of energy consumption.  Imagine trying to read a dense, small-text, archaic history book when you are up late at night after a hard day.

Feel how your mind just bounces off it. Thinking is hard. It’s weight lifting for your brain.  After a hard day people like to relax by watching television or something easy on youtube or twitch.. things where you can just stare and not think for a while.

Taking a situation that is easy, cognitively, and capturing (and attaching) the feeling of just not wanting to think is going to be useful. 

9. Gullibility 

The reason every stoner talks about recording their conversations and why every recording of stoners is the dullest dishwater of conversation you will ever hear is because getting stoned is very much a bimbofication process. 

Your critical faculties diminish to the point where absolutely every half-baked (pardon) idea feels like the deepest think you’ve ever said. It’s also why you will struggle to find a conspiracy theory a stoner won’t believe.

Gullibility, is a specific property of being without your critical mind.  WIthout your critical mind you are just more likely to believe… whatever you are told. It just seems plausible? Or possible? 

Stacks well with forgetfulness.

10. Low vocabulary

Like with ‘forgetfulness’, we often have that feeling of searching for a word and not being able to find it. It’s a familiar feeling and easy to replicate in trance.

Not being able to remember a word is easily extended to not being able to remember a specific word (probably one of the most basic hypnotic tests), and hence there’s nothing stopping you from suggesting a subject can’t remember a specific kind of word.. like a word with three syllables.

In Conclusion

You should be able to daisy chain any of these together in almost any order and be able to make some pretty patterns.

Forget a word –> Embarrassment –> Smile –> Touch self –> Arousal

Broken Concentration –> Confusion –> Embarrassment –> Gullibility

What you have here are lego-blocks of suggestions so I would just recommend building them together in whatever way you like and add in a few more interesting pieces as you go and build yourself a fun session.

(Note 1: Be ware. If you are going to do this work with a hypnotist you are necessarily handing them a considerable amount of power. There is no meaningful bimbofication that doesn’t make you vulnerable. Gullibility and an inability to think critically, for example, can be a dangerous cocktail to drink with a tist you don’t know very well. As always, you should be working with a tist you know and trust.

Note 2: On a point of clarity, there are many dimensions to people’s ‘bimbo’ kink. Sometime it centres around body modification. For other’s, it’s a financial-living arrangement, having an older person afford a lifestyle of leisure for the ‘bimbo’.  I want to say this post centres on the ‘hypnosis/ mental conditioning’ dimension of bimbofication but that itself has a number of aspects (behavioural, clothes selection, self-perception etc.).  This is a post on, what is commonly referred to as ‘bimbofication hypnosis’, but really means to say ‘dumbing down’ hypnosis. )

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Tips for dumbing down

Hey there! A huge part of being a bimbo is dumbing down, and for a lot of people, that’s pretty hard. There is nothing more rewarding than the true helplessness when your own brain betrays you and you can’t remember a word or a smart way to say something. So here are a few tips for people who truly want to dumb down. 

Try induction hypnosis files

These are the ones that have a legitimate induction and will work towards specialized goals such as increased libido, OR IQ reduction OR airheadedness etc. These are good if hypnosis works for you. 

Try tumblr bimbo hypno files

these are different than induction hypno because they don’t have an induction, it is much more of a bombardment of statements and thoughts. They work by overwhelming your brain, suggestibility, and heavy repetition. Tumblr hypno can often be combined with other tips on this list

Fake it till you make it

Literally, just keep telling yourself how dumb you are and acting dumb until its no longer faked. It’ll take a while, but it will eventually happen. It is especially effective if you have a trainer or someone else who helps you fake it till you make it by calling you dumb or stupid or reminding you of how much of a ditzy bimbo you are. 

try associating being too dumb with pleasure

This one is kind of fun. Find something that’s WAAYYY too hard to read, something like legitimate scientific experiment write-ups, or international business law books, or rocket science, something that you definitely cannot understand. Don’t try too hard to focus and read and understand it. Try masturbating while trying to read it. Keep reminding yourself you don’t understand and you’re too dumb to understand and associate how good you feel with how good it feels to not understand. Slowly work your way down in level of advanced material as you get dumber, but make sure its always too hard for you. The same can be done for math. 

Consume easier media/ take things at surface level

stop watching such deep and hard shows to understand, stop watching stuff with symbolism or hard plots to follow, stop watching stuff with commentary on society. Just watch easy and light stuff. Take your media at surface level. Don’t think too deeply about it

Well, those are the tips I have, if anyone else has any tips, please feel free to add them :) 

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A post I’ve been meaning to make:

With the push and resurgence towards conservative values, I’ve also noticed anti-porn sentiments growing in number and I feel the need to emphasize the importance of nuanced conversation.

I am not denying that there are damaging/toxic elements of the porn industry and porn culture which SHOULD BE discussed. However, historically sex has been a topic in which the pendulum always seems to swing aggressively from one side to the other.

We are seeing a large percentage of society feel isolated and lost in regards to intimate relationships as we collectively begin to question what dating, marriage, and love mean to us in a modern context. Feeling confused, scared, and lonely is understandable. Unfortunately it puts people in a position where they are more susceptible to propaganda if they are not mindful of the content they are consuming.

This propaganda taps into our fears and promises us that it has an answer to why we feel this way and how it can be solved. Everyone would love for there to be a simple answer, so this can be a seductive thought. The reality is, there is no overarching answer and we will never resolve these feelings without considering the MANY factors and nuances of the situation. Returning to intense conservative beliefs cannot resolve these issues, and lead way to larger problems and fascist ideology.

I’m a creator who enjoys darker themes, but now more than ever I feel I must clarify some things surrounding my interests and content. Sex has a psychological element, and the places an individual feels repressed, fear, or shame can manifest themselves in sexual fantasy. It’s a way for one to explore these feelings and reclaim them in a place where they are safe.

Kinks (cnc, degradation, female submission, etc.) are NOT inherently indicative of someone’s values or desires outside of a sexual context. I know that many popular content creators go to the extreme to prove that they embody their submission and enforce their sexual beliefs in every aspect of their life, but this is often not reality. Nor is it healthy in most cases.

Fantasy is a wonderful thing and I am a huge advocate of sexual expression.

However, in light of some things happening in the world I would like to state the following:

- I believe in equality, and will fight against legislation that seeks to hinder the rights of others.

- I find gender roles largely performative, and don’t think they are embedded in our nature.

- Enthusiastic consent and ethical practices in kink are mandatory.

There’s nothing sexy about genuine oppression.

If that is a turn off for you to read, then do not interact with my content. My content was always intended for people who play with these themes while knowing they aren’t rooted in reality and care deeply for people.

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Hey, I'd love to chat more, get to know each other.

Sure

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What the fuck is wrong with 90% of the

“Dom/mes” on Tumblr?

I swear, the sheer audacity of some so-called “Dominants” on this site is generously shocking. What the fuck is wrong with most of you?

Since when did being a Dom/me mean treating submissives like disposable playthings? Since when did it mean demanding obedience without offering respect, boundaries, or basic human decency? You don’t get to call yourself a Dominant just because you slap “Sir” or “Mistress” in your bio and bark orders at strangers like a power-starved brat.

A real Dom/me knows that dominance isn’t about control alone—it’s about trust, responsibility, mutual pleasure. It’s about understanding the submissive’s needs, limits, and desires just as much as your own. It’s about care. And yet, I keep seeing these arrogant, unskilled, self-absorbed pricks who think submission is owed to them just because they exist.

You are not entitled to anyone’s submission.

You are not a Dom/me just because you think you are.

And you sure as fuck are not dominant if you don’t understand that submission is given, not taken.

If your idea of dominance is ghosting subs after using them, ignoring boundaries, degrading without consent, or treating submission like a free service, then you are not a Dom/me—you’re a walking red flag.

This space should be built on mutual desire, mutual respect, and mutual pleasure. If you can’t understand that, then step the fuck away from the title of Dom/me and sit down!!

And to the submissives out here: You don’t owe these people anything. A Dom/me who doesn’t respect you, your limits, or your autonomy is not a Dom/me you should waste a single second on. Call them out! Do not keep the damage they did to your body and mental health in! SCREAM. YELL. TOGETHER WE CAN MAKE THEM STOP.

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So I think I’m ready to look for a new online play partner. Taking prospective Doms or Dommes who think they can handle a switch that needs a firm hand and deliberate active guidance and direction lest she grow bored. If you think you’re up to the task I’m ready to talk and see if we’re a good fit! Open to bimbofication, hypnosis, protocol and behavior modification, misogyny play, orientation play and humilation/degradation play.

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And we love seeing you do it

i love being a good dog

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As a girl with a Lit/Philosophy BA and a Masters in UX Design sometimes i wish I’d dropped out to be a bimbo and sexworker sooner

every once in a while i remember i dropped out of a grad program in computer science and then became a bimbo and i just have to smdh a little

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Gods yes it does

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Honestly though, I love this for you and am totes jealous.

ive been basically high for days and horny and needy and jsut like. fuck. im fucked

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I know I would.

damn I bet the people who fumbled me throw up whenever they think about it

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teh real dangerous part of tumblr is getting caugt in a loop when u reblog and then otherdummies reblog and then u reblog again and then the other dummies reblog adj by the time you know it u have edged to the same post like 100 times as everyone reblogs it over and over and over 🫠

not that i have ever done that or anything 🙈

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Hello! Im new Dom hypnotist, I'm not that good yet, would you be kind enough to help me on occasion? I'd love to learn. And if I may practice with you I'd be greatly honored. If you're not interested i understand and i hope you have a great day!

I’m not opposed to getting to know you better but as a rule one should never do hypnoplay with random folks you don’t know. Trust is a big part of making hypnosis work and is very necessary to safely vet a play partner