bathsanddepression

[bathsanddepression]

A funny warm welcome

Hello everyone! And welcome to my page. 

A little bit about this blog:

Since 2018 I’ve been dealing with depression. It began with a job loss, transitions in important relationships, family trauma, and of course my own bullshit; because we all got some, right? But we will get more into that later. 

I found one of the only things that helped me cope, was taking long soothing baths. I never thought they could be so healing to the soul.  I needed warmth in my life with the coldness I was facing. I suppose you could say it was a symbol of what I needed in my life warmth and a respite; and it delivered.  

A lot of things would consume my mind and I thought why not start a blog about it. Not sure if anyone will actually read this, but on my end it serves as an outlet whether or not. 

One of the things I thought about is Zodiac Signs (find your chill, more serious topics to come4 just for fun and a warm up) I have no idea WHY some people take these so seriously and hello, I am one of these people.  I am the worst sign out there: GEMINI! LOL and I’m only saying this because it comes up has the most hated sign most of the time. But I’m used to being disliked, you could say it’s meant to be. Whether you find zodiac’s ridiculous, or weirdly intriguing; let me know if this post resonates with you - the good or bad. 

Here are some pros and cons about each sign based off my experience with each one. In my opinion, we need all new signs… 

ENJOY! 

PROS ABOUT EVERY SIGN

Aries are very hard working and make strong leaders. Pleasantly optimistic and extremely determined. They will help you get to where you want to go if you’re willing to listen. 

Taurus are generous and can’t help but be helpful.  Caring when they can trust and feel comfortable with you; they really do want to see you win.  

Gemini’s are intelligent and extremely creative, great communicators too. Love to give a helping hand and remember important aspects themselves and others. 

Cancers are caring and take pride in showing that to their loved ones. Put family above all else and will stick up for others when needed. 

Leo’s LOVE being the life of the party. Almost always know what they want and how to get it, loyal. 

Virgo’s keen attention to detail to make everything perfect is what makes them one of the most well-orientated signs. Hard-workers, smart  and insightful. 

Libras are extremely funny and charismatic. Can make good friends and are great at putting things together, including their well lived lives. 

Scorpio’s are loyal and passionate to a fault, they respect honestly and aren’t afraid of challenges, strong people. 

Sagittarius thrives in freedom, whimsy, and just plain fun. They don’t enjoy being held back feeling like caged birds because of their passion for life. Adapt to change well 

Capricorns are the most goal orientated sign, success is the essence of their being, nothing less. Smart and hard-workers. Decent motivators as well. 

Aquarius are very intelligent and independent. You can learn plenty from them, great educators don’t be shy to ask them anything inquisitive. Humanitarians 

Pisces are kind, sensitive and caring. Compassion and creativity is their being. Forgiving and can be intuitive. 

CONS ABOUT EVERY SIGN 

Aries are bossy and rude AS FUCK. Don’t always know what’s best for themselves, you can’t expect good advice from them. Will leave you in the dust and act like nothing happened. 

Taurus can be shit talkers and it’s typical of them to twist stories to their liking. They LOVE to gaslight the soul out of you. Can be glutinous. 

Gemini’s get angry a lot, extremely hot and cold. Hard to trust and can be deceptive in getting what they want. You best run after you disrespect them as well. DRAMA. 

Cancers are the most cunning, they are VERY sensitive, but don’t be fooled by that. They use their emotional intelligence to manipulate; can be cruel. 

Leo’s will always make you feel guilty for their mistakes. ALWAYS. It’s the self-centered part of themselves they cannot help. (Like Men) they also make lousy friends due to everything being about themselves, and what they need and want. A big UGH.

Virgo’s love to make you feel inferior and insignificant. They see themselves as the best, it’s part for their “perfection” and it’s a NIGHTMARE. Always think they are right, enjoy shaming you in front of others to make themselves look better (no joke, someone wrote on a forum about this exactly; see pictures below - this is actually the sign I dislike the most followed by Leo)

Libra’s will sit back, and let you sink. Even though they know you’re drowning, it’s scary. HUGE gossipers, can’t tell them much unfortunately. (Still love them though; biased cause they are my fave sign)

Scorpio’s are secretive and keep to themselves. And to be honest, I do like the female Scorpio’s for the most part, but the Male ones are on an another level of runaway as fast as you can. Extremely vindictive and unforgiving so you prob won’t want to cross either gender on this one, you could hear from them everyday, or never again. I’ll leave you with that. 

Sagittarius…self centered a bit, will use and dump you if you aren’t on the list of their priorities.  

Capricorns are cold, to the point of cruelty. (A trait of all Earth signs) Opportunists at heart, if they don’t see you as stepping stone for themselves it’s see you never. Quite selfish and GODLY. 

Aquarius are always arrogant about something…can be SNIDE and off putting with back handed comments. 

Pisces can be EXTREMELY ignorant and oblivious. It’s all about what you’re willing to put up with at the end of the day.