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VIRGINITY

I know this is a sensitive topic. Many would not be very comfortable on talking about (their) virginity.

So, I just wanna ask, is it something important to you? Naniniwala ka ba na ang virginity dapat sa mapapangasawa mo lang ibibigay?

Tbh, I’m not a virgin anymore. I decided to give it to a random stranger. To a fuck buddy. Yes, you can tell me all the filthy things in the world already. Some of you will ask me “WHY? ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR MIND?” 

Maybe YES. Maybe. If you’d ask me today, If I regret anything? My answer will be NO. You’d ask me again, why with a stranger. I actually don’t have any definite answer to that. I just know that I experienced sex already.

My thinking about Virginity is that; it’s yours. It’s up to you kung anong gusto mong gawin. Para lang yan yung natanggap mong regalong pera sa mga ninong at ninang mo tuwing pasko. Ikaw ang bahala kung anong panggagamitan mo. But also, you need to face the consequences afterwards. Kumbaga kung ibinili mo siya sa walang kwentang bagay, (let;s say di mo naman kailangan) masasayangan ka. Same as to having sex. Kung  makikipagsex ka sa hindi mo boyfriend, or hindi mo mahal. You need to think about it. You need to face the consequences na pwedeng mangyari. 

And so I did it.

I had sex.

Actually, I never tried to have sex with any of my boyfriends before. All my experiences are with guys that I dont ‘really’ know. 

So, ang point ko lang naman, para sa mga babae, kung gusto mong makipagsex at pinipigilan mo kasi iniisip mo na gusto mong ibigay yung virginity mo sa future husband mo, think twice mga bes. Naniniwala ako na ang virginity, sayo yan. Gawin mo gusto mong gawin. Kung yung mapapangasawa mo magrereklamong hindi ka na virgin, hiwalayan mo. She doesn’t deserve you pag ganon. Duh. And di din naman sinasabi ng mga babae sa mga future husband nila na dapat sila din yung first, just like ‘some’ guys demand.

But, kung gusto mo talagang ireserve yan. That’s okay. Ibig lang sabihin na may paniniwala ka and you’re very cultured. Good job!

Yun lang, madami pa sana akong gustong sabihin kaso next time na.

-basha

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I know I dont post much in here, but can we talk?

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Sinabi din ba niya sa ‘yong iba ka katulad ng pagkakasabi niya sa aking iba ako sakanila?

-basha

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Alam mo kung ano tayo? Sayang. Sayang tayo.. 

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