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also let's be so fucking for real: if we're talking about queer spaces, which we pretty obviously are when we discuss t4t, then it's not in any way a reach to say that incuriosity about afab people's clit and vulva is far far far more frowned upon and recognized as an issue than incuriosity about transfem bodies. "guy who can't find the clit" is a very well worn joke by now, but "guy who doesn't know what a perineum is" is just a real type of guy that you see on here constantly proudly stating that he's never considered any dimension to trans women's bodies beyond dick and tits

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One with the whales Spock drawings I’m thinking about him

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what if instead of horses we domesticated porcines... i think that could be cool

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A copper retriever with her unoxidised puppies

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Nicolas being the one to help take off Lestat's stage make up night after night—and then the first time he sees Lestat again after Magnus...he goes to wipe at his face, as though there's makeup to be removed ...but that's just Lestat's face now....poreless and pale...rosy-lipped...shadowed eyes...WRONG eyes, beautiful but wrong? Have we talked about how Lestat came back wrong?

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i'm a substance abusing pseudo intellectual but you will respect me

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do you think it keeps travis up at night that justin is effortlessly the gayest and cuntiest brother

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last time my mom visited I was talking to her about parenting and how I appreciated a lot of the choices she and my father had made about raising me and my brother and she agreed that just listening to the child and taking them seriously was the One Weird Trick to cutting out like 60% of conflicts between parents and children. and she said one time I was about three or four years old and we were all going to the grocery store, and at the threshold of the store I just had a meltdown. i was overwhelmed, I was crying, I was just at the end of my rope like kids get sometimes. and instead of dragging me through the store my mom and dad stopped what we were doing and just asked me what the problem was. and I was able to say I didn't want to be there, I couldn't do it, I wanted to go home. and she says she and my father just looked at each other and back at me and said "okay" and we all went home that day instead of forcing the grocery store trip. and I had so few public meltdowns as a kid despite being pretty autistic because, I think, I knew that if I ever really needed to leave, my parents would understand and back me up. and that was the case throughout my childhood. which paradoxically (one might think) resulted in me having fewer incidents of being overwhelmed in the first place, which then made me better able to handle increasing amounts of stress and so on. it also taught me that expressing feelings and communicating them to my caretakers wasn't going to be punished or ignored or called weird, so unlike many other autistic kids who get judged or rebuked for expressing sensitivity or opposition, I didn't need to constantly blockade everyone and internalize everything all the time.

it's a pretty simple concept whether your kids are autistic or not, but most parents don't seem to get it. their parents taught them to just force everything and let the child deal with it alone so they just repeat the cycle even though they know how it feels.

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tracks include: “ SOS (Medical Emergency)”, “Does Your Doctor Know” and “Gimme! Gimme! Gimme! (a Patient in Sickbay)”

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poetry is wild because in any given collection 30% of it will make you feel nothing, 60% will make you feel varying levels of confused and curious, and the other 10% will crack open your brain like an egg and reveal new truths about the human condition

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yesterday i was watching nothernlion vids and while i was passing out i was having weed + covid fever dreams where i was watching a northernlion stream of him controlling a microscopic submarine inside my body attacking the disease

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I love iwtv, but I feel people should understand that it is (at times) to the books what House M.D. is to the works of Arthur Conan Doyle.

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pour one out for all the xiaohongshu users who were just minding their own business online and suddenly got inundated with one bazillion us tiktokers

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my grandma sent me a picture of my dog with his new xmas present and i need a fucking inhaler LOOK AT HIM

oh to feel a fraction of the unbridled joy he is experiencing