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Forgive yourself for what happened then, focus on what you’re doing now.

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You know, Allah hid Paradise from our sight, but He didn’t hide the path to it. He hid Himself, but He didn’t hide His words. He hides the future but compels us to learn from the past.  

Yet sometimes we’re so fixated on the ‘seen’ problem we fail to see the ‘unseen’ solution. Yes, everything is predestined and we drown in the ‘why me?’ heap of things, but didn’t Almighty Allah ever teach you that the door to call upon Him is always wide open?

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Keep yourself around people who respect you and appreciate you. Those who have a foul attitude towards everyone don’t deserve your company. Never allow mindless drama that goes on around you to stress you. Maintain your inner peace and walk away from situations without any reaction.

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Drowning.

And when you feel like you’re too sinful to be forgiven, remember how even the rain that drowns, revives the earth it falls upon.

This anxiety and guilt bad deeds bring along with them should inspire you to perform good deeds, not make you despair.

So be better, be regretful, ask for Allah’s forgiveness and continue upon your quest to become a better muslim.

A time better than now does not exist.

– Khorasaniyyah.

‘From one sinner to another.’

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Isn’t it funny that when you found “love”, you lose yourself?

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20 Self Love Affirmations

1. “I am beautiful.”

2. “I love and approve of myself.”

3. “I choose to think thoughts that enhance my life greatly.”

4. “I am worthy.”

5. “I accept myself exactly as I am.”

6. “Forgiveness is the door out of my past.”

7. “When I forgive myself, it is easier for me to forgive others.”

8. “I accept that I cannot change anyone but myself.”

9. “My life is constantly improving.”

10. “I understand that in order to grow, change is needed.”

11. “I flow easily with life.”

12. “I am worthy of forgiveness.”

13. “All experiences are opportunities to grow.”

14. “I welcome positive change with ease.”

15. “I am deeply grateful for all of the wonderful people and things in my life.”

16. “I radiate good health.”

17. “I only give my body goodness.”

18. “I trust my intuition.”

19. “I lovingly think in a positive way.”

20. “I am at peace with myself.”

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MALAYSIA DARUL KELAKAR.

Kalau di Amerika, beberapa kali berlaku kes sekolah diserang pengganas dan pelajar dibunuh begitu sahaja. Namun tidak kurang hebatnya negara kita Malaysia. Mana tidaknya, mana lagi nak dengar dalam dunia yang fana ini berita tentang kes liwat pelajar tahfiz oleh seorang penderma. Otak tertinggal dalam perut ibu ke macam mana sampai sanggup suruh budak-budak yang hafal Al-Quran buat perkara luar tabii semata-mata demi memuaskan hawa nafsu sendiri. Bahkan sampai mengugut bunuh jika perkara itu diketahui.

Zaman sekarang bukan senang nak mencari anak muda yang ingin hafal Al-Quran. Aset yang ada sepatutnya dijaga bukan diajak berperlakuan syaitan. Sudahlah budak-budak, sejantina pula. Kenapa perlu meraka yang tidak berdosa menjadi mangsa? Bebal sungguh beliau mengalahkan Filem Badang nampaknya.

Itulah yang berlaku kalau nafsu sudah menandingi akal fikiran. Kalau tidak disogok hawa nafsu, Mana mungkin akal yang waras bertindak sedemikian. Kata Imam Ghazali, “Yang paling besar di Bumi ini bukan gunung dan lautan, melainkan hawa nafsu, yang jika gagal dikendalikan kita akan menjadi penghuni neraka”. Kalau panas seat motor yang di'parking’ di tengah panas pun kita tak boleh tahan, apalagi panas Api Neraka.

Institusi Tahfiz Awam sememangnya memerlukan dana untuk terus berjalan. Tetapi bukan bererti pihak penderma, penyumbang atau penganjur boleh mengambil sebarang kesempatan atas sumbangan yang diberikan. Jika tidak, tidak ubahlah seperti Pepatah Melayu, “Harapkan pagar pagar makan padi, harapkan penderma, penderma minat lelaki.”

Akhirnya, Abang rasa perkara ini kalau dicerita panjang-panjang pun tidak berguna. Kerna sepertimana kata Dato’ Perdana Menteri kita, “Saya ingin menegaskan bahawa masalah kemelut air di Selangor lebih kritikal…”. Mungkin ada betulnya, maklumlah ‘seekor’ peliwat pun perlu mandi juga.

“Dan adapun orang-orang yang takut kepada kebesaran Tuhannya dan menahan diri dari keinginan hawa nafsunya, maka sesungguhnya syurgalah tempat tinggal(nya).” (An-Nazia’at : 40- 41).

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Pls understand that copying and pasting quotes does not make one knowledgeable. Do not take knowledge from just anyone. Study the religion and implement it based on the understanding of the salaf through the people Allaah subhanahu wa ta’ala has blessed with knowledge (scholars).

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It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:

“Do you think that is there was a river by the door of any one of you, and he bathed in it five times each day, would there be any trace of dirt left on him?” They said: “No trace of dirt would be left on him.” He said: “That is the likeness of the five daily prayers. By means of them Allah erases sins.“ 

Reference:  Sunan an-Nasa'i-  Book 5, Hadith 15

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Allaah tells us how His mercy extends to all His creatures, and that whoever among them repents to Him, He will accept his repentance for any sin, great or small.

Ibn Kathir’s Tafsir (25:70)

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10 things to do when you are broken.

1. pray. 

2. be broken.

3. pray again.

4. write/draw/sing. whatever you want. just create something beautiful.

5. if it is the daytime, do not shut out the light. let it pull you together. and if it is night, sit obstinately in the lull of it.

6. bury your fears, even if only for a moment. your future has already forgotten them.

7. forgive yourself.

8. forgive yourself.

9. forgive yourself.

10. remember you are only human.

and repeat as necessary.

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One of the Saaliheen said

“We used to seek ‘ilm in the masajid, then the schools opened and the barakah left; and the chairs were brought in so the humility left; and the certificates were introduced so the sincerity left.”

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When things don’t work out, see it as God’s protection, not His punishment.

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in 2018, I wish you

better mental health

great looking skin

more energy

open-mindedness

healthy relationships

good dreams at night

success

delicious food

happiness

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It’s never too late to start memorising the Qur’an. Just be sincere in your intention, make duā and start. Even if it’s an ayah a day, something is better than nothing. And if we don’t make it to the end, may we be rewarded for the intention.

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8 things to quit in 2018: 1. trying to please everyone. 2. fearing change. 3. living in the past. 4. overthinking. 5. being afraid to be different. 8. sacrificing your happiness for others. 7. thinking you’re not good enough. 8. thinking you have no purpose.

Alyssa. (via be-happy-and-enjoy-the-life)