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You should be worried about what friends and family would think, certainly strangers. I would cut you both off, if I saw you on the street, I would be so creeped out it would make my skin crawl.

Y'all are nasty.

Even if you were both 10 years older, it would still be disgusting, it's not her being under 21 that makes it gross (though it makes it worse) it's the age difference. You're really creepy.

I mean...if you're both happy, I guess it's you're not hurting anybody... But you're still a creep.

ETA: No, scratch that, P needs mental help and you're taking advantage of that.

AITA if I pursue a romantic relationship with an 18 year old?

For context, I (30m) recently met P (18f) and we've been getting along great. Really great, similar interests, similar hobbies, similar boundaries. It's been wonderful and I've enjoyed every second of it so far.

Issue is, I've always felt like dating someone under 21 would make me seem sketchy or gross. We've both discussed the age gap and we're both fine with it, I'm just worried about what friends and family might say, let alone strangers. The age gap is very noticeable.

P has a thing for older men, and that's why she approached me first. Spending time with P, even if it's just on the phone, has made me feel giddy and happy for the first time in years, I genuinely care about her and her wellbeing.

P recently asked me about a relationship and I said I'd have to think about it given the age gap and society, and she seemed to understand but I definitely want to give her an answer very soon. I don't want to be seen as a gross individual for pursuing a relationship with the one person who has made me happy, but I also don't want to hurt her and lose her.

What are these acronyms?

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9/24/1982

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Reminder: If you have no voter ID, apply for a postal vote.

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some deer studies i won’t finish

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Having a study killed where they have no agency to use this birth control if they want to is the opposite of privilege.

This is just the anti-birthcontrol lobby. Literally nobody benefits from this.

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I'm taking the word Parasocialaway until y'all learn how to use it.

It's not a little girl with a role model, it's a stalker.

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Me: *intellectually understands why the plural of moose is not meece*

Me: "Meece."

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11 minutes?

Where do you live?

boutta have myself a feast

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landlords arent bad because theyre “lazy” or “parasites”, theyre bad because they take advantage of poverty and manipulate housing availability for financial gain. you people have GOT to stop framing your critiques of the bourgeoise the same way eugenicists talk about the disabled

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how do you get ppl who are like ‘love love LOVE all that matters is love!!! life is about love and nurturing and love!!’ and then interpersonally theyre some of the most unpleasant people imaginable

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I know I'm not who you @ ed, but no, this video's not cute, but it's not specifically harmful either (unless you're super against not spaying your pets).

The cat outside is trying to mount the one in the car, who appears to be in heat.

But she's also definitely still a kitten, so not wholesome or cute in anyway, (kinda disturbing honestly), but neither cat is actually being hurt because the unspayed kitten (who's a cat teenager, maybe 6 months old, max. So the cat equivalent of like...14-16 in human years) is safely separated from the adult male cat by a pane of glass

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fucked up how cooking and baking from scratch is viewed as a luxury…..like baking a loaf of bread or whatever is seen as something that only people with money/time can do. I’m not sure why capitalism decided to sell us the idea that we can’t make our own damn food bc it’s a special expensive thing that’s exclusive to wealthy retirees but it’s stupid as hell and it makes me angry

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This is like the 'take your meds nightlight'

(where you switch the nightlight off when you take your morning meds and then switch it back on when you take your evening meds)

Life hack for my fellow ADHD quilters and sewists: I plugged my iron and the nearest lamp to my ironing board into the same power strip, and switch the whole strip on and off when I need it.

If the lamp is on, I know the iron’s on, and I don’t need to worry about forgetting to turn it off, or check and recheck whether I did.