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im gonnarip my fucking hair out, people on this hellsite make me so sick, im so tired of having to do fbi level background checks on somebody's blog just to make sure they dont despise trans men/mascs or accuse us of being detrans terfs in waiting or because so fucking many of you have drank the damn radfem koolaid like water

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sorry to get political again but as a binary trans girl with a modicum of common sense:

theyfab is a gross thing to call someone and if you call people that you’re gross

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anyways if you grew up as a fat little girl and ended up as a fat trans man, you should get 10000$ in emotional compensation because holy fuck people are cruel

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ao3 is crazy because you'll read the most gut-wrenching 200k word slowburn that leaves you sobbing into your sweater at four in the morning and the author will be applejacksmonstercock

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Two days ago my husband said "...and he was pissed" and I said "don't say that around the kids!" so he corrected himself to "and he was liquid angry" and I've been laughing since

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I love when someone reads an account from someone who experienced severe abuse and says “wow! I have never been abused in my life and I think of abuse survivors as fundamentally Different than me but for some reason I hyperidentify with these feelings of humiliation, despair, and self-disgust, and react the exact same way to authority figures. how odd!” and then you find out what their home life was really like.

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every day i think about the cat on twitter who looks more like a scheming eunuch than any creature has ever looked

monkey i love you beloved little freak i would die for you

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worlds slowest fanfic author tries really really hard

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me finding out my mutual is one inch taller than me

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Talking about the effects of estrogen the way some trans women talk about the effects of testosterone and getting ejected from the club

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i hate how people are like "erm you have to disclose you're trans or you're tricking gay dudes into being w/ someone who has a vagina"

can we stop equating vulvas to the "woman genitals" and penises to the "man genitals." if i was dating a guy who didnt tell me he was trans until i was already taking his damn clothes off i wouldnt care because im not a fucking freak who judges peoples bodies. im a very inclusive freak

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gang stop focusing on the second part, i dont care if you agree with me on my own genital preferences, thats ur prerogative and wasnt the point of the post. i mean, i didnt really expect a post i made while half asleep to get a lot of traction (as much as it has anyway) so i was not wording myself properly, but also i was being sarcastic? so 😭

anyway, my main point is that saying trans men are trying to trick gay men into having sex with them (because, for some reason, some people find the concept of a man with a vulva to be disgusting) is bigoted and dumb as fuck. second part of the OG post was just me sleepily expressing how much i dont mind trans men having non-cis bodies and you can feel free to ignore it since it's not part of my argument lol

just wanted to add this since i dont feel like repeating myself every time someone misinterprets my intentions, though i do appreciate everyone who has commented with their own perspectives. im just a little impatient. hope this is more clear!

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THE MATRIX (1999) dir. The Wachowski Sisters

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getting a note on a super old post