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mbti explained (how to self-type)

what is mbti?

mbti is a tool which is frequently used to help individuals understand their own psychological preferences in communication, interaction with others, perceiving the world, problem solving, managing changes, resolving conflict etc.

is mbti even a real thing?

though the mbti resembles some psychological theories, it has been criticized as pseudoscience and is not widely endorsed by academic researchers in the field.

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now that you have an idea about what mbti is - let’s get familiar with the 8 cognitive functions

1. extroverted sensing (se)

extroverted sensing is using taste, touch, smell, sound, movement and sight to easily absorb information in the physical world. as strongly observant, these people pick up on details other people do not notice, and some even have a photographic memory. they love excitement, spontaneity, new experiences, and material goods.

2. introverted sensing (si)

introverted sensing is understanding the world through past precedent and experience. people who are introverted sensors thrive using routine, tradition, organization, and rules. they are often very attuned to their bodies, and have specific ways of doing things that work for them in order to get the job done. they are responsible, reliable, and cautious.

3. extroverted thinking (te)

extroverted thinking is outwardly conveying thoughts using logic, reason, and analysis. extroverted thinkers are clear and concise, direct, and unmoved by emotional appeals. they are often strong orators and writers, who have thoughtful, well-researched arguments and theories. extroverted thinkers like to convince people of their thoughts and implement new ideas.

4. introverted thinking (ti)

introverted thinking is a function that seeks to understand personal ideas using a deeply specified framework. introverted thinkers are constantly mining their own thoughts in an attempt to be rational and reasonable, slowly ruling out other ideas before coming to their own firm conclusions and they’re often guarded about how they got to these conclusions.

5. extroverted intuition (ne)

extroverted intuition often means noticing patterns, symbols, and connections in the world that others may not see. extroverted intuitives live for possibility, often expressing themselves through a tumble of ideas, or a constant external brainstorm. they may talk about many things they want to do, but not ultimately follow through. for them, it’s all part of the process to get to the best idea.

6. introverted intuition (ni)

introverted intuition is described as “knowing without knowing how,” as well as “thinking without thinking.” it’s the most mystical of all the mbti functions. people with this dominant function tend to reach conclusions without having a clear idea as to how they got there. they are wise, convicted, and always have a plan to work toward a bigger picture and seek to build and understand complex systems. Introverted intuitives are always processing in the background, and regularly have answers simply come out of nowhere.

7. extroverted feeling (fe)

extroverted feeling is concerned with harmony, bringing people together, and caring. extroverted feelers are great at reading the emotions of others; they are big empathizers, absorbing the feelings of others around them to the point that they sometimes cannot tell which feelings are their own. they easily squash and step around conflicts, and they are typically very social.

8. introverted feeling (fi)

introverted feeling is a function concerned with authenticity, individualism and values. introverted feelers know what they believe, have a strong sense of self, and can easily identify their personal experience of emotion. they are often outspoken activists, and love to help those in need. they don’t have stronger feelings than others who utilize this function, but they do have more mastery over them and can put them toward change—of self, of others, of society.

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understanding the mbti functions as the 16 types

now that we’re clear about the eight mbti functions, we can better understand how they correspond to each of the 16 personality types. each type has four functions, ordered in a stack from strongest to weakest:

dominant function

the first function in the stack is called the dominant function, the strongest one you use so often, you may not even realize you are doing it.

auxiliary function

the second function is called the auxiliary function, which assists the dominant function in conveying ideas and is also relatively strong in your personality.

tertiary function

the third function is the tertiary function, which may be slightly under-developed, but does start to manifest in your type more prominently as you age.

inferior function

the fourth function is your inferior function, which is challenging to access and often only comes out under stress.

now, let’s look at all of the types and their functions.

INTJ: Ni > Te > Fi > Se

INFJ: Ni > Fe > Ti > Se

ENTJ: Te > Ni > Se > Fi

ENFJ: Fe > Ni > Se > Ti

ENTP: Ne > Ti > Fe > Si

INTP: Ti > Ne > Si > Fe

INFP: Fi > Ne > Si > Te

ENFP: Ne > Fi > Te > Si

ESTP: Se > Ti > Fe > Ni

ESFP: Se > Fi > Te > Ni

ISTP: Ti > Se > Ni > Fe

ISFP: Fi > Se > Ni > Te

ISFJ: Si > Fe > Ti > Ne

ESFJ: Fe > Si > Ne > Ti

ESTJ: Te > Si > Ne > Fi

ISTJ: Si > Te > Fi > Ne

to take a closer look, let’s break down what this means for just one of the types. say we’re analyzing the ISTP personality. to do this, we consider the four cognitive functions that correspond to the respective personality type in order to get a deeper understanding.

ISTP: Ti > Se > Ni > Fe

ISTPs are rational and reasonable, very analytical, logical and objective (dominant ti). they have detailed memory of events. they focus on the objective, sensory world and are eager to experience it fully (auxiliary se). may be focused inwards, on the internal world of thoughts, ideas, and concepts (tertiary ni)

the ISTP’s inferior function (fe) may only be noticed when they are under stress or in the problems they deal with often, especially considering the inferior function is often the opposite of the dominant function.

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I hope this helped!

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Why you should date These MBTI types

INTJ

Relationships are never the priority of an INTJ, so when they have an interest in someone they're serious about the case. they give sharp and attentive compliments. They have a sensitive soul and will lower their walls for their lover showing that they're actually a little clueless in love which makes it cute. INTJ's being weirdly hot and charsmatic and love to give their partner bold compliments.

ENTJ

Passionate lovers for real. They like to keep their romance steamy and love when someone joins them on an adventure or long deep conversations. they tolerate criticism and is always looking for a way to develop the relationship more. They'l pamper you with self worth compliments and are into a lot of physical touch, giving the most thoughtful gifts.

ENTP

Curious type of people. Dont mind them asking you tons of questions about everything. They're always busy and love to get drunk. They come up with the most random hilarious ideas. Continue the conversation by debating about the most random subjects ever! They're smooth talkers which makes them natural good flirts. Theyre really easy going and open minded. nothing is weird to them... really.

INTP

Extremely complex and imaginative. no conversation will every be boring with them. they have deep emotions and are very capable of warmth and affection. theyre intelligent and love to encourage their partner. great balance between outgoing and staying inside. they're very enthusiastic about things that takes their interest. they dont demand much in a relationship, they just like the presence.

INFJ

They strive for that long term relationship. generally very selfless and always move forward on life. Sensual lovers, and will take every emotion and conversation serious, they'll do everything to make you feel worth full of yourself. Dating an INFJ will feel like you two are the only people in the world. They can put meaning in words and feelings and they'll teach that meaning to you on a deep emotional manner.

ENFJ

Top tier gentle(wo)man. They're perfect family people and love to be around family and friends. They'll cheer u on every journey and look for opportunities to support their partner in their accomplishments. they put harmony above all else. understanding and optimistic at the right times. Very great intuition and will check up on their partner. Also good at romance, they know exactly how to treat their partner with kind love.

INFP

Strong desire for an emotional/soul deep bond with their partner. they'll give you the best gifs you could every imagine. they're so extremely creative and funny in their own way. you wouldnt find someone like them. Genuine romantics and smooth flirts. very lovay people and always wanted their idea of love to come true. they love to get physical with their partner and share all their ideas and dreams with them.

ENFP

They love to explore and they smoothly go with the flow. Trying new things they've never done because is part of their great inutuive and creative mind. Lets not forget that these people are very funny and weird at the same time. They have strong beliefs and opinions are they always know what they're saying making them quiet intellectual people. very lovable and talkative people. besides nobody hates the ENFP .

ISFJ

Givers kind of type in relationships. They like to give love and attention to their lover and dont expect much back. they just need the reassurance from their partner since they're striving for a long term relationship. Very committed people who sense the emotions of their partner making them very nurturing and caring people. probably the most patient and supportive people on this planet.

ESFJ

Always bringing a lot of love and fun in the relationship. They always try to be as optimistic as possible. they have strong emotional reactions making them easy to read. They're very outgoing and love to plan everything ahead. They'll remember every detail about you and would make you feel very valued. they value traditional relationships, so they're the perfect match for marriage.

ISTJ

Values honestly with a passion. They love to plan everything ahead. no detail will be missed. They strive to help their partner to perfection. They're very predictable and are quiet romantic!. They would put a lot of effort in the relationship to work it out. They have a cliche thought of romance and marriage which makes it easy to see what their goal is and what they're longing for.

ESTJ

Bold lovers for sure. They're not afraid to say what they think. They love to keep things real and structured. They are sensitive and protective lovers who believe in hard work. they keep their promises. They love to go outside and be practical in this society. They love to see progress in life making them solid lovers. They are hard-driven people who wont give up easily, they are also big lover of physical touch as a form of affection.

ISFP

They love surprises and are always trying new things they just thought of. Easy going people who are also surprisingly good with children and people. Lovable people who love the idea of a wholesome relationship. They're the type of partner that would be your best friend and lover making them very reliable companions in life. Nothing will be too late for them!

ISTP

complex and practical. They like to be usefull in a relationship making them reliable people. Building their own life with their partner is an absolute goal for them. They value freedom and take pleasure in simple things, they're not needy and also express their love my performing romantic acts. since their actions will speak louder than words. They like to encourage their partner a lot too.

ESTP

Most fun people to be around with. They'll make you feel in the moment and make you feel all your 5 senses. they're good problem solvers and love to take action. they're essential workers who never get bored! They love physical touch and love to shower their partner with surprises and gifts. they would bring you on an adventure and are life- driven people. which makes them a good companion

ESFP

They will go with the flow and are very impulsive. They're most likely to party every weekend. And they dont think too deep about life making them easy going people. they're perfect family people and are always full of energy. they'll put you at their center of interest and would explore everything with their partner. they take crazy risks and are very unpredictable making them very fun and caring lovers.

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MBTI : lovers edition

INTJ: falling for them, like falling into the first page of a book you know is going to be your favourite. you'll be taken into a mind, a world, a story, a mind, a world you can't help but choose to dive into again and again, again (again like in mitski's pink in the night again like Taiga to Ryuji after they kiss). you fall like rain (and you know there'll be thunder and lightning if they fall too)

ENFP: fighting over who gets to lick the spoon clean of cake batter, a little naive but strong-hearted, nicknames and inside jokes, road-trips with best-friends, lazy laughter and a crooked smile, staying up late talking to someone and realizing it's already morning only when the hazy sunlight peeks through the blinds at dawn, you find yourself loving life.. but you wonder if thats simply because they're in it

INFJ: you didn't know you were waiting until you met them and now they're everything , they're the warmth of your skin under the golden sun-rays , cold feet curled under a cozy blanket, the fresh smell of spring rainfall , kisses on birthmarks, soul gazing into soul , languages spoken with a mere touch , long car rides with windows wound all the way down just to feel the wind in your hair and the joy of life , with them you're infinite ,to you they do what the spring does to the earth ... make you feel a l i v e , they're a breathe of life and your constellation that guides the way to heaven and back , its an intertwining love that grows like a rose vine over your stone walls and blooms into a eternal spring .., youve found the peace that many seek yet few find and you'll feel like the luckiest person alive.. treasure them

ENFJ: cooking up late brunch together , dancing to the music still in pyjamas , hersheys kisses left under pillows , they'll never hold anything back ..in love , life and even in fights- they'll never back down when it comes to you

ISFP: honey coated lips and a face gifted by the moon, kissing in the rain kissing to rid the pain, they remind you of sunsets, warm days at the beach , hand in hand with your lover, under blue skies and witnessing an even bluer ocean , candid photos of loved ones with an silver birch frame , tucking flowers behind their ear, their name engraved in your heart

INFP: soft calm evening lulling you into sleep , nuzzling into their side, surrendering to their warmth ..hands tangled into the sleeves of their sweater and breathing in their scent, with them the shields come down and the laughter comes unbounded , leaping out and taking flight like an eagle soaring in the sky freed from gravity and from the noise of the world that compares nothing to the one you have with them..and in moments with them you'll find happiness come to rest by your side

ISFJ: hummed melodies , touring around the streets of Paris and have crepes by the Seine, shy glances, sneaking into the kitchen at night and kissing the powdered sugar off their lips after a midnight snack of doughnuts , hearts carved in a tree - eyes on me

ISTP: their presence is all you need to shield you from the moments you'd rather forget, a hidden passion that burns fierce like forest fire and heart as warm as a hearth

ESTP: falling in love with them is falling in love with a storm a whirlwind of emotions mesmerizing yet chaotic you'll never let go , a love that consumes you , a tumult of emotions as gripping as it it chaotic , if grounded will climb up a tree and knock on ur window at 4am cause in their defence 'a whole day without you is a whole day too long'

INTP: will make you question all the universe with a most wonderful sense of doubt., a glow of warmth under a cold exterior ,you never need to pretend with them ..with them you can be whoever you want to be , they'll never feel like a stranger but perhaps one day they'll never feel like someone at all (they'll feel like everything)

ISTJ : museum dates and art gallery rendezvous, the cold expressions mask a hopeless romantic, sudden and intense bouts of Feelings at 2 a.m, likes to think they're tough but melts in your arm when you hold them

ISTP: They walk in and smile at you and suddenly you're ready for an adventure, a motorcycle ride at 1 am and you've never felt more alive. when their arms around you though.. you've never felt safer. There's a whole lot to them under their cool but sturdy exterior , a raging storm or perhaps a calming lake just like the ones where they first taught you how to skip stones.. strong arms around you their face right next to yours hearts racing and fluttering. Theres something inexpressible about them...perhaps thats what makes you turn to them every time.

ENTP: falling in love with them is falling in love with a storm and you'll find yourself falling faster than the torrential rain you're under , drowning yet floating , theres lightning within you and the thunder is the command of fate to never let go , love is one never-ending game, love isn't just love for them , its everything , it a adventure , a journey , a surprise , a game , the feeling of coming home , night vs day , all of it transpiring between the moments spent with you and thinking of you, type to say "do you trust me" with gleaming eyes and a mischievous grin as they hold out a hand so you can go with them to do something rebellious (you rlly shouldn't trust them but you always do anyway)

ENTJ: they dont yearn they want..and want gives way to desire..and to desire is to need, competitive but will let you win just to fonsdy watch you rub it in with glee (theres the most tender soft smile on their face but theyll never admit) , ,hard to fall in love with them but even harder to fall out , hickeys hidden under Dior scarves , whispered propositions on necks , hiding the smile playing upon your lips by sipping coffee gone cold , possessive arms wrapped around your waist

ESFP: makes you a playlist when they can't find the right words to convey their feelings, "so many things to do with you but so little time," wears their heart on their sleeves, falls fast and might get hurt in the crash but would do it all over again for you, they're unapologetically themselves and you love them for that, you just hope they love you as much as you love them

ESTJ: They've got your back, always. Sometimes you need it, sometimes it's even before you realise: they're the cup of coffee placed into your hand when you have to work a late night, they're the advice you didn't know you needed. More than anything, they're the place you can finally relax, because they'll hold everything together for you. They'll hold you up. If you're lucky, they'll let you hold them up too. Stronger, together.

ESFJ:theres something about them , maybe its the way they look at you with eyes full of childlike wonder and joy and trust , the way they make everyone else in the world dissapear so you know as long as you have them you have it all , maybe its magic maybe its fate or maybe just maybe its something called Love ..maybe thats the feeling you have right now , what it feels like to be in a sunflower's dream, lost in the waves with a pearl in your hand ...or what it feels like to finally finally have something to lose, something thats yours, its not a case of loving them so much youd die for them ..its a case of loving them so much youd l i v e for them

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estj

- smiling in public, frowning when alone - appreciative of the art in movies and songs - never off social media - has trouble not seeing people as uncooperative chess pieces - big spender - says yes to every party and isn’t shy to contact friends, aka a networking god - beauty enthusiast but prefers natural and professional-looking stuff - actually tries to complete bucket list - hard to please, has clear preferences and never settles

esfj

- considers eating the main event of every getaway - throws the best parties - ‘golden retriever’ strategy for making friends: “just jump them” - works hard when not distracted by coworkers - remembers everything everyone has ever said and is touchy about dates - patiently explains to everyone why what they’ve said was socially unacceptable… ok, maybe just to me? - likes the idea of charity but isn’t idealistic about it - knows you’re around by the sound of your footsteps, like a puppy

istj

- works hard to hide weeaboo side - finds work relaxing - would probably enjoy the challenge of being a castaway - the kind of parent that scares away boy/girlfriends - has THE nerdiest hobbies - attempts professional fashion - probably the most reliable person in everyone’s lives - likes being pushed to improve and to be supported more than comforted - always happy to info dump - love language is being given their favorite coffee blend

isfj

- claims to dislike ‘messy animals’ but lives for their pets - loves action movies with big battles - work-oriented but easily distracted by gossip, as is esfj - always the voice of reason - pretends to not be a hopeless romantic - cautious to the point of anxiety; would, however, survive the apocalypse - despises gaudy, likes natural tones and classical fashion - nice but easy to offend and disappoint - dog-lover that can easily be made a crazy cat person - can’t watch nature documentaries without feeling sorry for the planet/prey

entj

- almost always dressed for a job interview - can’t work in a messy room - obsessed with life hacks and goals - preoccupied with drawing the potential out of things and people - jokes without smiling. good at poker - can be surprisingly reckless and hot-headed - likes fancy stuff and doesn’t mind paying for it - other than 'studying’, hobbies are traveling and exercising. cannot relax - cynical when young, now likes the idea of spiritualism - selective about the people they spend time with

entp

- knows the solution to all problems but still has many problems - can’t help but worry that they talk too much and too quickly - literal pyromaniac. likes the color red as much as enfp - lights up every room they’re in… - takes nothing seriously, except video games. judges people who skip cutscenes and name their characters badly - soul leaves body during boring activities - criticizes action movies’ physics and combat - considerate but doesn’t hold back during arguments - attached to weirdly specific things and moody about them - irritatingly decent at everything - at risk of laughing during a funeral

intj

- pretends to not care but has secret vent blogs - blog/avatar/website is minimal and monochromatic OR sparkly and rainbow - seems shy from a distance but really isn’t - bitter about lots of things; chooses to cope alone in 'rational’ ways - religiously relies on to-do lists, which i find adorable - practices fiction writing by roleplaying and creating characters - hides nerdy side by acting professionally - uses fashion to make a statement - likes cute-creepy things - researches everything about a place before visiting - doesn’t mind friends who show up twice a year

intp

- has considered going to jail for alone time - routinely baffled by people - can’t play horror games, gets too much into it - unintentionally offends everyone - feared until seen as a dork, then is never again taken seriously - dreams of uploading the internet into brain and vice-versa - minimalist to maximize free time; wastes it by daydreaming - always late, starving, and sleep-deprived - can’t enjoy anything without also criticizing it - slow to understand dirty jokes - could spend whole life studying everything and achieving nothing - rebellious, always trying to 'hack the system’

enfj

- adores art in general; singing, writing, sewing, acting, painting… - makes getting along with everyone at work a priority - jokingly? uses terrifying memory to emotionally blackmail people - often stressed juggling many projects, lives on coffee - cheerleader sort. will fight you for wasting your potential - probably the most extrovert person everyone knows - more cunning than they present themselves - dresses to impress

enfp

- shows up with a meme after 6 months of radio silence - can’t stop talking yet insists they’re shy - has too many interests and projects. finishes anything by divine intervention - fascinated by fire and the color red, same for entp - acts like a dork but is sharp and opinionated - can’t do anything soulless, has to have ‘willpower’ and ‘inspiration’ - can’t see their natural talents - has serious regrets for someone still reckless - will name their children after videogame characters - Sinammon roll

infj

- piercing gaze is somehow also dreamy - trust issues. likes gathering intel before 'investing’ on someone and to have the upper hand - perfectionist whose work is never done - researches a lot before buying something expensive and then cherishes it - worries about seeming unapproachable - puts too much effort into planning their house decor - diplomatic as possible just before door-slamming people - never deletes anything from computer - surprisingly hard to please - loves shipping characters and people and analysing their compatibility

infp

- clumsy, may apologize to inanimate objects they bump into - loves photography/cosplaying/fashion but shy to expose themselves - idealized future is a coffee shop AU - serious fangirl/boy but dislikes shipping wars. has fanart folders - listens to surprisingly edgy music - surprisingly good with details, remembering dates, being on time, etc. but room is messy - people-pleaser but not a doormat; has a strong sense of justice - cherishes gifts forever - doesn’t like killing bugs but is fine with gory movies - kinda bonkers about cats

estp

- ambitious and restless, always looking for fun, opportunities, and shortcuts - has many friends and enemies - “hands off” kind of boss but overly critical when bothered - can’t end the day without pushing someone’s buttons - confidence is a two-edged sword - secretly soft for sweet people - too generous with their time and money - hates hypocrisy, but judges rule-breakers while being one themselves - blames the world when feeling stifled. sometimes disappears - reckless to the point that death/jail time would surprise no one

isfp

- wants fame but avoids attention like the plague - shares about 15% of their artsy side - great at being sneaky - collects pretty little trinkets - hopeless romantic. has stashes of love letters/novels/manga - loves animals but would rather die than touch a slug - loves fashion but is too shy to wear anything daring, slowly works on confidence and external identity - can be surprisingly cold - hates stress more than anyone - seen as a cinnamon roll even when being rude

esfp

- lives for the memes - gets away with everything. would probably get away with murder. - cannot hurt a fly (unless drunk and doing stupid shit; actually, sometimes bites) - never seen truly angry, ever - ideal habitat is hippie/surfing camp with a nearby nightclub - loves all animals, especially silly-looking ones - becomes driven when the situation requires and when stressed - always moving and meeting new people out of boredom - good at games and plays for fun

istp

- likes the idea of the military/police but has trouble following orders - oblivious when being flirted with - carefree but reliable when it counts (and not pranking you) - quiet and even quieter when moody. hates failing and being unable to fix a situation - a genius at whatever they put their mind into (for two days tops) - wears the same jacket everywhere, sometimes doesn’t comb their hair, sleep schedule is nonexistent - good at games and plays to win

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The Moon and What You Long For

Moon in Aries: Compete with others, prove worth and win Moon in Taurus: Physical security, engages the five senses and be comfortable Moon in Gemini: Be stimulated, things to do and people to talk with Moon in Cancer: Comfort, Safe place, people to care for and be vulnerable with Moon in Leo: Have fun, realize ambitions, be noticed, feel respected Moon in Virgo: Efficiency, Reliability, Something or someone to nurture Moon in Libra: Peace, beauty, companionship, communication Moon in Scorpio: Emotional security, sex, follow passions, realize ambitions Moon in Sagittarius: Meaning in life, freedom, hope, knowledge, travel Moon in Capricorn: Security, comfort, competence, productivity Moon in Aquarius: Logic, freedom, independence, innovation Moon in Pisces: Inspiration, creativity, fluidity, emotional connection, escape

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Your Sun in your Solar Return

Every year on your birthday your sun returns to the same location as your natal birth chart. On that day, the sky will tell you about your upcoming year. Reading a natal solar return chart is challenging because many sources disagree upon the meaning. A good rule of thumb is to always refer back to the sign and condition of the house and ruling planet of your natal chart. What is their condition? How does their energy function for you?

In previous posts I have written a lot about the ascendant of the solar return. This post assumes you have done that work and focuses on the location of the solar return sun.

Sun in the Solar Return

1st House: Encourages individual action and indicates personal success. Will highlight the house of your natal sun.

2nd House: Earnings come more easily and you are more clear about your earning potential. Ambitions will run high but you may become jaded and pessimistic about your own worth if afflicted.

3rd House: Interactions with your colleagues, neighborhood, or siblings increase. Writing, speaking, and socializing fill your year. Success in study is indicated by positive aspects.

4th House: The sun here often indicates changes in the home or interest in real estate – especially if Uranus or Pluto is involved. You may find yourself delving into your past, your roots, your heritage, or ancestry. New furniture and decor is often purchased and represents an inner desire to tidy up your inner psyche.

5th House: The sun’s rulership in your natal chart will tell you how a 5th house sun will express. If it rules the 1st, 3rd, or 9th there is a focus on expansion of self and personal expression. If it rules your natal 7th or 11th, then relationships will rule the year. If you have children or are trying to have children they may be the focus of the year in some way.

6th House: Personal health is brought into focus. If service is called for, it is important to give it freely. You may need to rest, diet, or exercise as a way to relieve stress to both mind and body. Sometimes an increase in work and productivity are associated with this placement. You can become more regimented and detail-oriented.

7th House: Often the sun in the 7th will tell you more about your partner than yourself. Your relationship may transform in some way if you are partnered. If not, you may find yourself partnering up in work or life. If the sun is close to the descendant, you may find yourself in conflict with another. The house that your sun rules will tell you more about the nature of your relationships for the year.

8th House: Sometimes the sun in the 8th indicates dealings with mortality, but more often it indicates the end of a life situation. Because the 8th house is indicative of others’ power over our finances, investments, inheritances, and karmic dues, these can also be an indicator of an 8th house year. You may find yourself owing others, or others owing you in some way. Ultimately this is a house of release and renewal.

9th House: A year of growing and learning. Sometimes spiritual, sometimes through travel, and sometimes through advanced schooling, your ambition is high in a 9th house year. This is a year of stepping outside of your comfort zone.

10th House: Prominence is brought to career and public life. Your reputation will spread and you will find yourself in a position to receive accolades, promotion, and achievements. Afflictions can indicate challenges and the sun’s rulership of your natal chart can speak more to the areas of life you will be given opportunities to excel.

11th House: A year when plans and goals are realized. Increased activity with groups, institutions and the introduction of new friends. Organized activities are often highlighted with this placement and you may become more active in causes you believe in. Plans for the future are made and you are determined to set the course to manifest them.

12th House: Can sometimes indicate a year that includes health issues or underlying disease, but in general points to a year of uncovering 12th house issues (spirituality, unconscious, karma, and closing out of cycles).

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Houses in the sr chart

the focus of this year will be….

1st house: building and preserving your self-image and self-identity. Becoming more self-aware of your physical, mental, and emotional self.

2nd house: building up your finances and focusing on your self-values and possesions. Discovering your hidden talents and establishing your self-esteem

3rd house: building up you knowledge and social identity. Learning how to communicate well with others.

4th house: building up or deviating away from your domestic life, cementing a foundation for yourself. Family, roots, and land may be the focus of this year.

5th house: building up your creativity and new, temporary relationships. Taking on personal interests in particular hobbies. Taking risks and seeking pleasure

6th house: building up your acts of service and preserving your health. Reducing stress. Being more efficient in the workplace and daily life.

7th house: building up and cooperating with all one-to-one relationships (platonic, romantic, business, etc.). Creating a balance between being other-oriented and making time for yourself. Relating to others

8th house: building up joint finances. Experiencing regeneration, healing, changes in sexuality, transformations, and personal sacrifices

9th house: building up your morals, possible knowledge from a higher education. A time to travel and experience the world from a different lens

10th house: building up what you want your social status, general reputation, and career to be like. A quest for recognition in personal achievements.

11th house: building up your current friendships, possibly expanding or becoming more attached to your inner circle. Plans for giving back to the community, stepping into your individuality, ambitions, and independence.

12th house: Discovering your hidden self, the parts of you that you don’t want to see. Becoming more reclusive, spiritual, frustrated, and using escapism as a detour

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Astrology observations: Solar Returns

🌞 Venus in the 12th house of a solar return chart can indicate a hidden relationship (for example: an affair or a secret crush) or trials in your love life (for example: a current relationship might end, you might experience heartbreak)

🌞 The sun in a solar return chart sets the main theme for that year

🌞 The position in the natal chart of the solar return ascendant can indicate the themes of the year ahead

🌞 Saturn in the 12th house of a solar return chart might indicate a need for solitude or in other cases a period of depression

🌞 Uranus in the 4th house might indicate a move

🌞 Uranus in the 1st house of a solar return indicates many changes in your personality or physical appearance

🌞 The moon in the solar return 11th house indicates a very social year ahead

🌞 Many planets in the solar return 7th house, such as the sun, venus, jupiter, indicate the beginning of a relationship

🌞 Jupiter in the solar return 5th house can indicate a casual relationship

🌞 Venus in the solar return 9th house might indicate travels to other countries, a relationship with a foreign person or even getting money from a teaching salary

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Venus observations ❤️

Aries Venus: Are very passionate lovers, they have a aim and shoot type of energy. They give their all and expect the same in return. They'll always do things in a quickness when they love someone. When ever you call they'll answer, whenever you need them they'll be there. It's all or nothing for this placement and if you don't reciprocate they have no problem shooting their shot else where.

Venus in Taurus: Are practical and will enjoy doing practical things for you or with you. They're steady with their journey to love, they enjoy feeling secured within their connections. It's important their partners ensure that for them. They are romantics in a physical sense, because Venus is in its house. They are very sensual, and have strong senses(smell, touch, taste, etc). Because they have the tendency to spoil, Expect gifts, cooking and dates as a love language. They are very protective also.

Venus in Gemini: These people have the tendency to get bored easily. They are constantly looking to be entertained. It's not easy to intrigue them but if you have, congrats! They typically enjoy sporadic, exciting adventures and conversations. They sometimes can't make up their mind and can be indecisive. They show their love by giving advice from different perspectives, solving solutions and actually considering your opinion on things.

Venus in cancer; They guard their hearts because once the shell is cracked, they love uncontrollably hard. Because of this they'll guard you also. They can sense your moods, and they know your soft spots. They can have a smothering energy at times. They always have your best interest at heart, they don't take pain or betrayal easily. Once your in your in. But once they shut you out things can be difficult. Be gentle with them because it’s hard to win their trust or admiration back. 🦀

Venus in Leo: These people like to claim what is theirs. Sometimes as quick as possible. They can be possessive and have a "mine" mentality. They will watch and observe you before approaching. As long as your connected to them your always safe and have someone on your side to vouch for you. They enjoy affection and love when you compliment them. They'll always try to compliment you also. They value attention and reassurance. This makes them confident in their connection with you.

Venus in Virgo: These partners are very considerate. When it comes to truly settling down they are picky. They carry acts of service through out their connections. They are responsible and reliable. They have Parent like energy, they give great assistance. They’re very patient and calming. Their anxious side is that their perfectionist when it comes to them and their connections. So they can become disappointed easily with small interferences. They get agitated easily, and hate sudden inconveniences. Be patient with them also, they simply want to be cared for the way they care for others.

Venus in Libra: Since Libra is in its house these people savor the beauty in life. They are pros at courting people through their words and actions. They Know how to attract partners and keep the romance balanced. Because of their heavy Venus influence these lovers are flirtatious. They have the tendency to overuse their charm which isn’t good at times. You’ll see that others find them very alluring. They're fair partners and don't enjoy conflict. They like keeping things peaceful, whenever there is a problem they will provide a solution. They rarely mind apologizing for their mishaps. They’re calm lovers, when in a relationship. Expect them to be very good at knowing your aesthetic. This means when they purchase you a gift you’ll actually like it. They’ll make sure of that.

Venus in Scorpio🦂: They are secretive within their connections. At times they don't reveal their true intentions, they can have double standards. No matter how close you are to them you may not know every detail about them(as their partner you'll still know more than others). It'll be the opposite when it comes to you however. They like when their partners reveal each aspect and characteristics of themselves. (Insecurities/flaws and all) They keep track, so they can use these things to their advantage. These people give you the benefit of sharing your soul, and it doesn't go to waste. Expect consuming sex, intense emotions and to be captivated by them.

Venus in Sagittarius: They are explorative and attract suitors often. But because of their fire aspect once they settle they'll only want to expand with their partner. Meaning they'll want to keep the fun and fire burning in the connection. There will never be a dull moment. They are humorous and have the advantage of being your best friend. They enjoy elevating their personal lives and they’ll bring you along the journey.

Venus in Capricorn 🪐 : They see love from a logical Standpoint at times. These people may use connections to help elevate their success in some shape, way or form. They care about their status and reputation. Their personal achievements is important for them. So if they like you they'll deem you as one. They'll include you in their schedule, and provide some form of stability for you. They’re good at helping you with career tasks (school, programs, college). You’ll learn a lot from them, because they’re natural teachers/mentors.

Venus in aquas: They have the tendency to like open relationships, or they move from partner to partner in a unusual timing. They bring everything back to spirituality and can sometimes believe they have multiple soulmates. They will always try to enforce their perspectives into their connections. They sometimes have strong ideals and can be opinionated. They enjoy partners who share the same ones, or can understand their sense of logic. They enjoy conversating and can be sapiosexuals.

Venus in Pisces 🐟;They drift wherever the love is strongly given. They Love to go with the flow. They don't usually make the first moves, they like to be pursued. They enjoy being captured, and they love romance. Once your in a connection with them expect cute gestures, actions and responses. They can be clingy also, and shy at times. They’re sensitive so love can be overwhelming for them. When this happens they sometimes need to retreat and reflect.

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venus signs <3

aries venus: seem like they’re not interested but are. like a challenge. very touchy. want someone they can laugh with. like the drama. wants a partner who loves their flaws

taurus venus: so romantic. want to please their partner. say all the right things. would take you to the moon if they could. will move on if not appreciated. love to be in love

gemini venus: want to know what you’re thinking and want you to know what THEIR thinking. love to spoil their loved one. will probably make the first move. great huggers

cancer venus: will plan their whole life around you. want to make you happy. become huge children around those they love. will just start holding your hand in public. they are so warm

leo venus: will show you off! they are your biggest fan. bossy. find it hard to trust. just want a cuddle

virgo venus: make it seem like they didn’t plan it but the DID. good manipulators. want the best for you. like it slow. like to protect. don’t they have such a nice smile?

libra venus: just want to know ur ok. will buy you flowers. and then a garden. will pull you up on your bullshit. they love to be loved. SWEETHEARTS

scorpio venus: okay they’ll get jealous. LOVE intimacy. good at intimacy. they just want someone loyal and who gets them. very smart

sagittarius venus: love excitement. secretly super sensitive. want to bring you into their world. want to pick your brain. very gentle people really

capricorn venus: introduces you to everything they like. will take you for a romantic dinner. quite shy - they take a while to show that they like you. very kind. watch too many romance movies

aquarius venus: intellectual stimulation is their kink. love to sit in bed and talk. LOVE the chase. they are heartbreakers. they like it a bit weird.

pisces venus: love to be in a relationship. find safety in love. want to make their significant other laugh. cheeky. children at heart

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🌟Venus Signs as BOYFRIENDS🌟

💙Aries Venus: very masculine and needs a lot of attention. the type of boyfriend who wants to do adventurous things with you. he is also really funny and protective.

💙Taurus Venus: really romantic and quiet. he just wants to chill at home and cuddle. can be super stubborn at times. that one boyfriend who spoils his girl soo much.

💙Gemini Venus: this boy is so flirty and playful! he will take you on an adventure and talk about the most random things ever the whole time. loves making you laugh.

💙Cancer Venus: sooo protective and also quite clingy haha. this boyfriend will make you feel very loved and protected. super caring, cuddly and family-oriented.

💙Leo Venus: get ready to be shown off to the whole world! this guy wants a girl he can be proud of. he can get quite jealous and wants you to make him the center of your world. a very playful and sweet boyfriend.

💙Virgo Venus: very honest and caring. he will make sure that you are happy and taken care of. this boyfriend loves holding you and wants to hold your hand 24/7. 

💙Libra Venus: the romantic and traditional boyfriend. he will take you on cliche dates like dinners with roses and candles. this guy is so gentle, funny and generous!

💙Scorpio Venus: this boy wants to know your deepest darkest secrets but its going to take some time before he’ll start sharing stuff about himself. soo protective and cuddly! he will always take care of you.

💙Sagittarius Venus: you can expect going on the most adventurous and wild dates ever haha. he is pretty chill about relationships and loves having fun. you will never get bored with this guy.

💙Capricorn Venus: get ready to become spoiled haha! he is so ambitious and practical. this boyfriend is an introvert and loves spending time somewhere private with just you. he will make you feel safe.

💙Aquarius Venus: he is really charming and witty. he will not only be your boyfriend, but also your best friend. wants to have fun a try new things with you. you can expect random fun dates with this guy.

💙Pisces Venus: this boy is artistic, romantic and clingy. can get so loud and crazy, but he is also very sensitive and emotional. he will take you on the most romantic dates ever. loves pda and cuddles.

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VENUS PERSONA CHART ❣ 🎭💘

the Ascendant on the Venus persona chart means how you show yourself to others in a most charming way, whatever kind of charm it is. it also represents how people see you in terms of appearance and image, and how / if you attract people easily or not.

the Sun is where the energy of your Venus is centralized.

Venus on the Venus persona chart gives more outlines and details of how you love and how you want to be loved, as well as what are your values ​​and preferences in relationships. represents what actually satisfies your Venus.

the Moon means what brings you emotional comfort within relationships, what most makes your Venus feel at home. what kind of emotional treatment you want to receive from other people (for example: if you want them to bring you some healthy inconstancy, a change to your life - moon in gemini; or if you want more independence - moon in aquarius). it also means what you think is beautiful in terms of how to deal with emotionally.

Mercury represents what type of communication most satisfies you within a relationship and what your preference is for communicating your feelings and sensations. it talks about how you verbalize (whether you verbalize or not) the matters of the heart. it also means what you think is beautiful when it comes to how to communicate and express yourself.

Mars represents where your Venus can lose control, that is, where you accept to lose control, which attracts you in an intense and devastating way. what makes your Venus surrender. it also means what you think is beautiful about assertiveness and energy.

Jupiter means the way your Venus wants to expand, where your Venus is overblown, and it can also mean the area where you will be most lucky or have many experiences in terms of relationship. it also means which beliefs / philosophies / ideas you think are beautiful when it comes to relationships.

Saturn represents where the rigidity of your Venus is, what the solid values you seek, it represents where your difficulties will be, what problems in relationships you have or the greatest tensions to deal with. it also represents where you have a certain inflexibility or blockage.

Uranus gives us tips on where our Venus ends up looking for changes and originality. Uranus represents what attracts you in terms of being different and unexpected. represents what subject your Venus wants to see something unique in (for example: Uranus in the 6th house on the Venus persona chart can represent that you don't want a very routine type of relationship that doesn't change and doesn't evolve by routine).

Neptune shows us the dreams that Venus wants to achieve in a relationship, where you want to get lost and surrender completely. it can show where we tend to be more fanciful and unconscious and where Neptune's mists can take our view.

Pluto represents where our Venus needs to learn to transform. represents the disruptions and phases in which Venus will need to learn to evolve over the course of life. (for example: a person with Pluto in the 3rd house, who has a lot of difficulty with communication within their relationships. through problem situations and even pain, that person needs to learn to improve on this and to deal with possible trauma resulting from relationships so that he can be a less restrained person, not least because communication is the basis of everything in any relationship).

the North Node shows us where the lesson is that Venus needs to learn and where you need to get out of your comfort zone.

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How It Feels To Be Loved By The Moon Signs

Aries Moon - this is a new love. this is being stuck in the honeymoon phase. it’s a million kisses, everywhere you go. it’s the rain on your skin. it’s both cold and hot, the love swings you everywhere.

Taurus Moon - this is the love of adventure mixed with stability. even just staying home feels like a brand new day with your eyes wide open. they want to take photos of you all day long, because they’re in love with your beauty. they know how to make you fall in love with yourself.

Gemini Moon - this love feels like freedom. you’re flying through the sky on a private jet, and joining the mile high club. they are so intelligent and this love is talking. you talk through everything, and you find yourself surrounded by a dozen love letters they’ve made for you.

Cancer Moon - this love feels like home. this is your mom’s home cooked meals, and your grandma’s secret recipes. it’s always having a pair of arms to fall into. it’s softness and sugar and sweetness. it’s feeling like you’re always gonna be accepted and have a place to go, no matter what.

Leo Moon - this is the love for royals. you will be treated like you’re fit for the throne. they will show you off to all their friends and all over their social media, and don’t be surprised when they brag about your accomplishments as if they were their own! they will shower you in compliments and gifts.

Virgo Moon - an organized love. they plan the dates in advanced, and keep a calendar marked with all the significant events in the relationship (including things you may not find significant!). they show their love by collecting little items from your dates and storing them away. this love is having someone bend over backward for you time and time again.

Libra Moon - this love is very forgiving. it feels like makeup sex and dressing up for fancy dates. this is being spoiled, and being taken out all the time. money is no concern for them, when it comes to love, and they will lavish it all on you. they want you to be happy, in all scenarios.

Scorpio Moon - such a beautiful love. they will make you happy like no one else. they will be loyal to an extent you haven’t seen before, and stick by your side through everything. nothing scares them away, no matter how bad or evil you’ve been. once they love you, they love you.

Sagittarius Moon - this is a wild love. adventure at every corner. this is cruising down the Caribbean with a wine glass in hand, and their head resting on your thigh. this is tan lines and beach bodies. this is diving off cliffs thirty feet up and going skydiving. everything is exhilarating, and their love is no different.

Capricorn Moon - very stable love. they want to take care of you, and will go to the ends of the earth for you. sometimes they may seem a little stern, but in the cold, you will find the fire lighting up inside them. they keep you warm, through everything. it’s being protected, so long as they are by your side.

Aquarius Moon - this is a slow-pace love. heavy platonic, friends to lovers energy. even in the worst fights you have with them, you know they are still your best friend and will support you. it is a slow-burn, something that continues to blossom over time only to become more and more beautiful as the years pass.

Pisces Moon - a very compassionate love. they can read your mind before you even have a chance to speak it. when you have a bad day, they’re already at home with hot cocoa and a warm blanket, waiting for you. they are empathetic, and will do their best to understand what you are going thru. a very soft love, like being cuddled by kittens.

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Astrology and the IC

Many intermediate astrologers are quite familiar with the meaning and nature of their Ascendant, Descendent and Midheaven, yet many (however not all) can often be unfamiliar with the significance of the sign located on the Imum Coeli (IC).

First, it is important to take note of what these signs indicate in the natal chart. The 4 cardinal DIRECTIONS indicate the nature of out roles in particular social aspects in the human collective - Our individuality and own identity (AC), our family role and identity (IC), our role and identity in a relationship and with other people (DC), and our ambition/career role, as well as our role in the eye of the public (MC).

The IC, being the lowest point in the astrological chart, indicates our innermost self and core identity. It’s the personality traits we developed in relation to the way we were raised in our family, describes the hereditary nature of our family, and also, the IC sign indicates the ROLE that was given to you by your family. The IC can describe the nature of the nurturing, home and family life growing up, the maternal figure, and can also indicate how you were perceived by your family.

As the IC naturally opposes the MC, this reflects as to how one’s home life can greatly influence the type of goals one wishes to pursue independently in the outside world once they set off on their own path in life. There have been countless success stories of individuals who have transitioned from rags to riches - very opposing manifestations that can be reflected in the nature of the zodiac signs placed on the IC/MC axis in one’s chart.

The IC describes how and where you live, the nature of of your property and home, and your life’s roots and life foundations.

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Your IC sign describes the nature of the role you have in your family, the nature of the family (particularly the maternal figure or the primary caregiver), what you need to feel secure, your private self, and the foundation for your outward ambition.

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* Note *

I have listed as many possible positive and ‘not so positive’ interpretations for the sign located on your IC, and I am also limiting the interpretation to specifically the sign (and possibly any planets located within that house).

The location of the IC ruler by sign and house, as well as aspects to the IC such as the conjunctions and opposition, may be accounted for, though trines, textiles, and squares can give energy to the IC also, their manifestations will be slightly more subtle. If you are new or intermediate to astrology, aim to only read about conjunctions or oppositions to your MC if you have any. Oppositions will indicate conjunctions to the IC (Imum Coeli) and this will mean that planet is hidden from the public. A full chart interpretation will be required for the highest accuracy.

Not all descriptions may apply to you as I’m covering as many interpretations as possible!

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IC Sign descriptions below - *Warning* Long Post.

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Overlays in Synastry🧋

today we are gonna talk about overlays in synastry talking specially about venus, if I see that this is something that is well received I will be doing for other planets as well.

So if you are new and you don’t know what I am talking about overlays in synastry, are in what house your venus falls in your partner chart and you can see how is the relationship nature, explain things about your relationship depending in the house your venus fall in that person chart and viceversa.

I want to say that I am new in synastry so this is about some research I did, and the synastry in house 3rd my venus falls in his 3rd house and 8th his venus falls in my 8th house have more details because are the synastry I have with my current boyfriend right now so I can give you more depth.

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1st house🎻

-This couple might had attraction since the beginning.

-The venus person can read the other person like a book since the other person can’t lie to the venus person.

-The tension they have is very prominent and people can feel it.

-Instant connection, is not a hard time to connect or talk because is just easy.

-They can sense each other intentions, feelings and emotions, so is not time for confusion the union between this two is always very clear.

-The venus person tends to be the first to talk to the house person, and give the initiative.

-The house person love the intensity that the venus person carries.

-Chemistry is on point here.

-Very explosive together, direct and passionate.

2nd House🎻

-This is a cute one because the venus person finds comfort in the house person.

-Security and wealth is something that have this synastry.

-This couple might have a lot of cuddles and express their love through a very cute way.

-The house person take care of the venus person and protect them.

-The venus person makes the relationship cozy and calm for both of them.

-Both of this people have a relationship that is private and enjoy their time doing cozy things.

-The house person is always there for the venus person, and the venus person makes sure to be sweet with tha house person.

-This overlay may give a lot of gifts to each other, like “This necklace remember me of you” “I was passing through a cafeteria and I bought your favorite coffee” things like that.

-Touchy to each other.

3rd house🎻

-Communication is on point here, the venus person is very vocal about their feelings and the house person will enjoy that and express themselves too.

-Is very common that in this synastry tend to chat a looot, or give each other cards, little notes.

-The venus person is always talking here, something can happen in their lives and would want to share it to the house person immediately.

-The house person enjoys the company of the venus person and is happy listening to them.

-The venus person may ask a lot of questions to the house person so they can here their opinions and ideas and they would be fascinated.

-They always have sparkle in their communication, and they always have something to say.

-The venus person is like a little kid, asking in a pure way and being happy to listen as well.

-The house person is gonna make the venus feel validated with their opinions.

-Always experimenting and never being bored with each other.

-Having their own jokes together.

-Trying new things and learning.

4th house🎻

-The sense of finding a someone that gives you family security.

-The house person takes care of the venus person.

-The venus person is happy to find someone that cares about them.

-Very cuteeeee.

-A very private couple.

-The kind of couple that takes photos about everything together and finding comfort on each other.

-The venus person gives a lot of love to the house person and security.

-They listen to each other emotions.

-A very melancholic and emotional couple when they have anniversary or anything like that they take it very seriously.

-Albums with photos is something I see this couple would like.

-Familiar to each other, and trust easily.

5th house🎻

-This is going to be a very public couple.

-They love each other in a very passionate way.

-Happy vibes together and they match each other craziness and ideas.

-The venus person is more free with the house person.

-The house person enjoys that explosiveness of the venus person and support everything they want to do.

-This is a party couple and very social together.

-Doing crazy things like going in a trip without asking, jumping constantly and being full of energy around each other.

-Passionate and love attention of people.

-This couple tend to be very accepted by the people or they kinda hate it no in between.

-Never bored around each other.

-Very generous and giving, with each other as well.

6th house🎻

-This is a very strong and serious one, the house person gives the venus a sense of “everything is gonna be okay”

-Very secure vibe, helping each other to be the best version of themselves.

-A very growing relationship.

-They tend to be healthy to each other and giving the best the can go each other.

-The venus person tries to make the relationship very secure and happy for both of them.

-They are always for each other.

-Helping a lot to each other, in the house, or maybe some homework depending on the situation but always trying to help.

-The venus person tends to help the house person how they can, doesn’t matter the situation they are gonna try to help the house person.

-The type of couple that have a routine together.

-Mental connection, they know each other and their needs so without need go ask they do it and makes each other life more easy and happy.

-The couple that take care of each while sick and make everything the doctor say without objections.

7th house🎻

-This is a very passionate and charming one.

-Here apply the “Opposites attract” they tend to be very different but they connect very easily.

-The house person treats the venus person as a royal one, full of attention.

-A very long term.

-Passionate and learning through the way that is each other and seeing life from another perspective.

-The venus person makes sure the house person feels loved and supported.

-They try to make everything equal and sometimes mirror each other.

-They try to make everything peaceful.

-Dependency become very strong here.

-Is a very strong and calm relationship.

-Always pleasing each other.

-Always thinking about the other person and concerned about their needs, putting the other person first.

8th house🎻

-A very deep relationship.

-The venus person is gonna show to the house person to work with their fear of abandonment that is very common in this synastry, but let me say to you that doesn’t mean their are gonna be each other other psychologists don’t get me wrong is working issues not a center of rehabilitation.

-The venus person is gonna show the house person the true love, a ride or die love.

-The house person is gonna understand and love the light and dark side of the venus person.

-Here the sex is on point.

-Understanding each other is a whole other level.

-Can talk about anything without being ashamed.

-The venus person loves soooo deeply to the house person too.

-The attachment here is big, once you are in is gonna be hard to go.

-If this works is gonna be beautiful having love forever to each other and just knowing that is barely impossible to end that.

-But if it doesn’t work it can get real toxic very quickly so both parts need to be mature to be here.

-Transforming, growing and healing through love.

9th house🎻

-Best friends kinda lovers.

-A very happy and cute one as well.

-The have ambitions together and is a very light synastry.

-They would have a very curious nature together.

-Jumping next to someone.

-Always smiling and understanding their partner.

-Being in their own happy place.

-Shine a lot together.

-Making a lot of memories constantly and learning new things never getting bored.

-Watching movies, traveling, cooking, watching documentaries together.

10th house🎻

-The real power couple here.

-Intense and serious.

-Taking the relationship very serious.

-Very public always maintaining people watching them together.

-Ambitious and having goals together.

-Each other are happy and grounded together.

-They impulse each other to be better and being more calm and grounded.

-They balance each other out.

-The type of couple that have plans like “Let’s buy this house together” things like that.

11th house🎻

-Mental connection.

-Very social, and love throwing parties and things like that.

-Don’t care about the opinions related to their relationship.

-Doing different things.

-Another best friends types of couple.

-Doing random things together, talking, caring about other people.

-Helping each other.

-The connection is very strong, they stimulate each other.

12th house🎻

-Deep, and kinda confusing.

-They have a connection of just getting the person but at the same time no.

-Kinda blurry and very private.

-A very psychological connection.

-Soulmates for real.

-Always together even though is confusing and weird.

-People don’t get what is going one with them sometimes.

-A very healing relationship.

-Kinda a fairytale.

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HOW TO SPOT TRAUMAS AND FEARS IN A BIRTH CHART pt.1 🦇☕️

Pay attention  to the 8th HOUSE:

The 8th house is all about fears, taboo, the dark side of the human mind and what’s hidden. It’s connected with Scorpio and associated with Pluto, the planet of regeneration and rebirth, it suggests that we’re all able to find the key for heal our traumas and win over our fears.

First, look at the sign on the cousp on the 8th house, here some examples (maybe I’ll explain in another post and in a more detailed way what does the sign on the 8th house cousp mean):

Aries 8th house: fears related to taking action, defining your individuality, competition, doing something exclusively for yourself, expressing your anger, impulsive behaviors.

Taurus 8th house: fears related to your own stability, expressing yourself in a creative way, expressing the sensual side of your personality.

Gemini 8th house: fears related to communication, expressing your opinion, being chatty, being superficial, not feeling smart enough.

Cancer 8th house: fears related to your roots, your family, expressing your emotions, being vulnerable.

Leo 8th house: fears related to self-expression in general, standing up for yourself, being extra, taking leadership, vanity, feeling confident, expressing yourself through art.

Virgo 8th house: fears related to rejection, being criticized, responsibility, respecting high standards, not feeling smart enough, being imperfect.

Libra 8th house: fears related to cooperation, relationships, connecting with other people, love, loosing your balance.

Scorpio 8th house: fears related to secrets, not being able to know what’s happening around and inside of yourself, jealousy, expressing your sexuality, open up, intimacy.

Sagittarius 8th house: fear of missing something, not living your life at the fullest, being trapped, not being able to experiment and have the opportunity to learn.

Capricorn in 8th house: fears related to taking responsibility, not working/trying hard enough, showing your emotions, open up.

Aquarius in 8th house: fears related to showing your authentic side to the world, feeling weird, not being able to “fit in”, being different, loneliness.

Pisces in 8th house: fears related to chaotic situations, deep emotions, love, explore your dreams, explore your spiritual side, losing yourself.

Look at the position of Pluto in the birth chart:

The position of Pluto in a specific house of your birth chart suggests how you can heal your traumas. Pluto can be a tricky planet, it’s connected to karmic lessons and can be challenging keeping on repeat the same lessons again and again until you change the game in a definitive way.

Pluto in 1th house: define your identity, find your authentic self and don’t be afraid to express who you truly are, open up with others, accept unconditionally your unique way to independence is the key.

Pluto in 2th house: find your comfort zone, guarantee yourself a stable lifestyle, develop resilience and try to set reachable goals for yourself, try to express yourself through art.

Pluto in 3th house: speak your mind, connect with people around you, share your ideas, relationships are important for your healing journey, write down your emotions, heal the relationships with your siblings.

Pluto in 4th house: understand and nurture your emotions, heal the relationship with your family, understand your roots and practice unconditional love, heal your inner child, feel a sense of belonging with your community.

Pluto in 5th house: heal your relationship with your inner child or surround yourself with children, give yourself the opportunity to “act like a kid” again, work on being spontaneous and less shy, express yourself through art and theater.

Pluto in 6th house: follow a healthy lifestyle, eat well and drink more water, do gym, work on your goals and dedicate your energy to a project or volunteering, connect with animals.

Pluto in 7th house: establish healthy relationships with others, define healthy boundaries with others, open up, establish 50-50 relationships based on mutual respect and cooperation.

Pluto in the 8th house: establish a healthy approach towards sexuality, explore your spiritual side and activate yourself in a direct way towards your fears, be honest and don’t fear your deepest thoughts.

Pluto in the 9 th house: expand your horizons through  travel and education, learn is the key for healing your trauma, connect with new realities, explore your spiritual and philosophical side.

Pluto in the 10th house: find your goals and work hard to achieve them, you can heal your wounds through a carrier that makes you feel happy and aligned with your highest goals, you need a lot of structure and to work on your approach to responsibility.

Pluto in the 11th house: you need to find a community and work with people that shares your same view of life, find a place where you can feel a sense of belonging and community, don’t isolate yourself and open up with others, you can heal your wounds through friendships.

Pluto in the 12th house: you need to explore with your spiritual side, work on your internal dialog, try to sleep well, analyze your dreams and trust your intuition, your spiritual gift will guide you through the healing process.

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Part one of signs on house cusps

Aries on the 1st house-Comes off as fierce and strong.

Aries on the 2nd house-Aggressive about their belongings. Determined to succeed.

Aries on the 3rd house-Confident speaker. Loud and expressive laugh.

Aries on the 4th house-Military families. Mother was very protective.

Aries on the 5th house-Passionate lover. Extreme sports. Fast hobbies.

Aries on the 6th house-Fast paced lifestyle. Works out. Strong body.

Aries on the 7th house-Strong partner. Protective of friends and loved ones. Aggressive way of handling disputes.

Aries on the 8th house-Likes rough, passionate sex. Secretly very intense and passionate.

Aries on the 9th house-Passionate about beliefs. Freedom fighter. Marches in protests. Determined.

Aries on the 10th house-Determined. Strong public persona. Heroes. Soldiers. Police officers. Respected.

Aries on the 11th house-Protective and living friend. Bold friend. The one ready to fight. Takes you on adventures.

Aries on the 12th house-Secretly confident. Hides their strength and power.

Taurus on the 1st house-Beautiful and delicate features. Earthy presence. Down to earth and kind.

Taurus on the 2nd house-Practical about money. Good at business. Determined and possessive over possessions.

Taurus on the 3rd house-Beautiful and soothing voice.

Taurus on the 4th house-Comes from a kind and loving family. Home is beautiful and luxurious. Good interior decorator. Nice taste.

Taurus on the 5th house-Loyal in love. Artistic hobbies.

Taurus on the 6th house-Healthy routine. May be vegan or vegetarian. Likes things planned.

Taurus on the 7th house-Gentle and careful partner. Very loyal.

Taurus on the 8th house-Sensual and enjoys sex. May have a sex addiction. Downfall may be greed and lust.

Taurus on the 9th house-Set in their beliefs. Enjoys traveling.

Taurus on the 10th house-May be a business person.

Taurus on the 11th house-Steady friendships. The loyal friend. Gives good advice.

Taurus on the 12th house- Secretly really down to earth. Greed is part of their karma. Calm and enjoys being at home.

Gemini on the 1st house-Funny and charming. Slender but tall. Can be quite bony.

Gemini on the 2nd house-Takes risks with finances.

Gemini on the 3rd house-Loud but small voice. Witty, and intelligent.

Gemini on the 4th house-Family is very scattered. May be a hoarder.

Gemini on the 5th house-Kinda non commital. Experimental. Likes to try out different hobbies.

Gemini on the 6th house-May worry too much. Scheduled person because without a schedule they’re a mess. May have trouble gaining weight.

Gemini on the 7th house-Likes sociable partners. Enjoys someone who stimulates them mentally.

Gemini on the 8th house-Sexually experimental. Kinky.

Gemini on the 9th house-Takes an interest in many different topics in school.

Gemini on the 10th house-Known to be well educated and a good conversationalist.

Gemini on the 11th house-The social butterfly. Likes to go out and do things.

Gemini on the 12th house-Can be very shy and keep thoughts to themselves. Can be too antisocial.

Cancer on the 1st house-Soft, round features. Sweet and kind. Very feminine. Great love for family.

Cancer on the 2nd house-Values family and togetherness. Spends money on things for the home.

Cancer on the 3rd house-Gentle voice. The voice of a caretaker. Sweet talker. Baby voices.

Cancer on the 4th house-Loves family. Believe in harmony, compassion and love. Home is where the heart is.

Cancer on the 5th house-Spends time taking care of others and doing tasks around the home. The type of child who enjoys chores and spending time with other the family.

Cancer on the 6th house-Likes helping others. Great satisfaction from caring for others.

Cancer on the 7th house-Sweet and loving partner is who they need and what they want. Likes to be nurtured and likes to nurture in relationships.

Cancer on the 8th house-Gentle sex. Values intimacy. Keeper of peoples secrets. Doesn’t fuck with evil. Very intuitive.

Cancer on the 9th house-Gets emotional and greatly appreciates travel an college. College gives you a sense of togetherness, and you can find your true friends there. Travel is an experience you take to heart.

Cancer on the 10th house-The mother of society. Known to help others. People greatly appreciate your presence. You are kind and gentle soul in other peoples eyes.

Cancer on the 11th house-The mom friend™. You take care of your friends. You are protective and consider them family.

Cancer on the 12th house-May feel as if you aren’t taken care of. Secretly a very caring person. You have love for everyone it seems.

Leo on the 1st house-Noticeable. Beautiful and well known. Looks and acts like royalty. Charismatic and a leader.

Leo on the 2nd house-May spend a lot. Has luxurious belongings. Enjoys luxury. Expensive clothes and belongings.

Leo on the 3rd house-Nice voice. Popular siblings. Well known siblings. Amazing and noticeable laugh. Instagram famous.

Leo on the 4th house-Lives in luxury. Mom was a good role model. Spoiled.

Leo on the 5th house-Passionate lover. Likes to be appreciated. Artistic and talented. Lots of different hobbies.

Leo on the 6th house-Beautiful body. Strong body. Spontaneous. Good work ethic. May be high maintenance.

Leo on the 7th house-Charismatic partner. Loyal and sociable. Relationships in the spotlight.

Leo on the 8th house-Likes to be worshipped during sex. May like role playing. Downfall is greed. Bad side is disloyal and ungrateful.

Leo on the 9th house-May be a good leader. Easily influences large masses. Well known.

Leo on the 10th house-In the spotlight. Popular in their profession. Fame. Everyone knows something about you

Leo on the 11th house-Popular friend. Friend who you shows you new things. Spontaneous. Likes to party and have fun.

Leo on the 12th house-Secretly insecure and doesn’t feel appreciated. Wants love but doesn’t always receive it. May feel overlooked or invisible.

Virgo on the 1st house-Modest but intelligent. Calm presence. Funny. Beautiful. Nice hips.

Virgo on the 2nd house-Pragmatic with money. Enjoys self improvement books.

Virgo on the 3rd house-Soft voice. Funny. Modest and reserved siblings. Well read.

Virgo on the 4th house-Quiet surroundings. Modest and clean home. Not too flashy, but well kept.

Virgo on the 5th house-Loyal and devoted. Likes to read and write.

Virgo on the 6th house-Cleans when nervous and can be very meticulous. Nice and balanced diet. Healthy. Doesn’t get sick too often.

Virgo on the 7th house-Wise in partnerships. Anxious but ready for marriage. Devoted.

Virgo on the 8th house-May be quite kinky. Likes dirty sex. Many guilty pleasures. Likes to be submissive.

Virgo on the 9th house-Ivy League ready. Devoted to their beliefs and higher education. May be very religious.

Virgo on the 10th house-Considered to be reliable and hard working. Their career is important. Nurses and doctors.

Virgo on the 11th house-Helpful friend. Looks out for everyone. Kinda reserved though.

Virgo on the 12th house-Secretly clingy and messy. Worries too much. Relies too much on others.