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[apris1992]

I'm naturally a person who likes to be by herself (symptom of being the only child I guess) and has no issue being alone but honestly this shit can get lonely. I want to meet by person and jet off in the sunset together.

[apris1992]

Reached out to the best friend that I drifted from due to money. Even though she hasn't met her end of the bargain (may never will) I have to admit I miss her dearly. She has taken accountability and apologized but I haven't spoken to her in months and we used to text each other all the time. That was by my doing. I was pissed off and disappointed. Just waiting on her response. Let's see how this goes and if it's salvageable. I hope it is because she a big piece of me.

The first person I came out too, the person who knows everything about me, the first person I could easily open up to, the first person/friend I met in college, the only person who knows my deepest secrets. Literally my rock.

I would hate to lose this. I don't want 14 yrs of friendship to go down the drain. I really don't. I don't know what tf I would do with myself if this was to end for good.

[apris1992]

Getting mad at masculine women for getting top surgery is nuts.

You don't know them. Did it ever occur to you that maybe they're non-binary? Maybe they're transitioning? Maybe they're trans-masc?

Saying it's a trend is stupid.

If you're a masc woman and love your titties then great. But unless you have a convo with them, stop assuming their gender identity and getting upset they're living their life they deserve to live.

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Ladies of Sosa is a Sudanese-American podcast that I enjoy. They talk about everything from American politics, Sudanese politics, pop culture, Sudanese culture, American culture etc.

With that said I do wish when they discuss things that involve diaspora wars or Black American culture, that they would invite Black American women on. They did before and I thought it was productive insightful convo. The men they invite are FBA/ADOS and I find those niggas insufferable and xenophobic af. They do not represent what Black Americans actually think as a whole. The only thing they do get right is defending Black American culture as its own culture and ethnicity. That's it.

[apris1992]

B5 - Give It Back

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"Mother" Lessie Benningfield Randle

One of the two last living survivors of the 1921 Tulsa Race Massacre, celebrated her 110th bornday on Nov. 10, 2024. ❤️

Beloved elders, Lessie and Viola Fletcher (also 110), are still fighting for reparations for government-sanctioned domestic terrorism. God willing someone will peep the play and let go of their time-wasting attorney who filed their case for this massacre under that ridiculous "public nuisance" framework. Twice. Dismissed by the Oklahoma Supreme Court and a lower court because it's the wrong claim. No shocker there. A public nuisance framework is not reparations and it's disrespectful to the history, victims, and survivors.

God willing they will get everything that's owed and more with a competent attorney who files the correct paperwork while they're still here with us.

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Lol. Def seeing people conflate the two but go off.

I was targeting straight women that think de-centering men and being frustrated with them means trying to date women. That logic reminds me of political lesbianism. Nowhere did I say that was the premise of the 4B movement.

My degree and career requires me to constantly read academic journals/studies so trust me my reading comprehension is on point. What you can do is work on that attitude and be gone.

Ok what we're not going to do is bring political lesbianism back.

I'm all for the 4B movement but straight women remember decentering men does not change your sexuality. You know you aren't romantically or sexually attracted to women and that's ok.

Build up your friend group, choose singleness, be selective of the men you entertain, don't lower your standards, and work on yourself,

[apris1992]

btw 4b has nothing to do with political lesbianism. it's 100% "spend time with your friends, centre yourself not a male, do hobbies with women, give your money to female-run businesses, try to remove as many males from your life as possible".

I know. I'm just seeing people conflate the two.

[apris1992]

coco gauff wins the wta finals (09.11.2024)

[apris1992]

Ok what we're not going to do is bring political lesbianism back.

I'm all for the 4B movement but straight women remember decentering men does not change your sexuality. You know you aren't romantically or sexually attracted to women and that's ok.

Build up your friend group, choose singleness, be selective of the men you entertain, don't lower your standards, and work on yourself,

Update: Let me put a disclaimer. The 4B movement doesn't promote political lesbianism. That's not the premise (I know this and never said it was). But they're women who are conflating the two. So I'm saying to straight women who are thinking about jumping to this side just because they're frustrated with men and not because there is actual attraction to women.......do not do it.

[apris1992]

Let me get this straight you fell in love with straight white women influencers (who surround themselves with nothing but white women and men) because they can rap some Boosie lyrics or sing real well and are surprised when they come out as Trump supporters?

Let me get this straight you fell in love with a white Christian singer who's from Oklahoma and surprised she supports agent orange?

Stop inviting everyone to the cookout. Vet the yt women before you follow them. And idk maybe follow black influencers and listen to more gospel music (and even then u gotta vet ) so you won't be disappointed in the end.

[apris1992]

They say your college best friends are supposed to last a lifetime but I feel like I've lost both of mine.

One is married, so naturally her focus is elsewhere but I'm always the one reaching out to see how she's doing and the other is due to money........

We were 18 when we met and we're now 32/33. We've drifted away to the point where I feel like a lost a piece of me.

This is a part of life I guess.

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All I know is nobody other than black people better ask me for shit. Everyone else is on their own.

These exit polls are diabolical. White women and nbpoc aren't serious.

[apris1992]

Please, spread this for those who might need it right now

U.S. suicide hotline: call or text 988 (available 24 hours)

U.S. trans lifeline: (877) 565-8860 (when you call, you’ll speak to a trans/nonbinary peer operator. full anonymity and confidentiality)

Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) – provides 24/7 confidential support and referrals for individuals and families facing mental health and substance use disorders, including panic attacks and anxiety.

LGBT National Help Center: (888) 843-4564

Trevor Project: Call (866) 488-7386, text START to 678-678, or chat online.

Take care of yourself and each other. Please stay safe ♡

[apris1992]

It seems so far the only man that hasn't been a creep or flat out rude is Dwayne Wade. I hope she looks to him instead of Shaq. Shaq been a weirdo.

THIS

It’s hard to articulate how DEEP the betrayal goes when a teacher, mentor or uncle figure in your life disregards your platonic bond and reduces you to a piece of ass they’re attracted to

Also if you’ve already EARNED a place of trust in a woman’s life due to a platonic bond, THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO IS VIOLATE IT

[apris1992]

using my voice while still finding it!!!!

[apris1992]

This bisexual stud convo is tired. Wrap this shit up! It's been happening for almost two weeks. SILENCE!!

Anyways this is now time for the bi masculine women to shine. Where y'all at? 👀

Embrace the bi label babes. Bi fems and mascs unite!