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sometimes i see cis people say "trans people will understand if you misgender them at first. i call my nephew 'her' all the time and he knows i don't mean it" no he doesnt. he probably never hangs out with you for more than ten minutes because that's how long you can last in a conversation before making him feel like shit. also he thinks you're, best case scenario, stupid for not being able to figure it out, or worst case scenario, uncaring about him and his needs. he doesn't like spending time with you. you're deluding yourself into thinking you're far kinder than you are. you're weird man.

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Megan talking about the reaction to W.A.P in her documentary

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Say it with me! Wheelchairs aren’t sad! Mobility aids aren’t sad! Mobility aids are instruments of freedom!

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a lot of newer christmas movies are fun and silly, making santa cool and/or jacked and like, I'm here for that! but like. why can't they ever be fucking fat. why do i only ever see fat santas in ads or like, rankin bass stuff. it's one of his defining features! he's FAT. let him be fat!!!!!!! why can't he be cool and fat? jacked and fat? there are some where like, he's big, which is cool, like Klaus, but it's always this stylized boxy-proportion made to look big but not fat. im just. so tired. he can be fat if he's funny, or silly, or old. haha. look at the jolly fat man. but when he's supposed to be cool? or powerful? nope! can't have a fat character be shown as cool or powerful or attractive!! even if it's a DEFINING CHARACTER FEATURE.

god forbid people be fat. god forbid fat people be shown as anything other than silly or a joke.

im fuckin tired, man

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Merry Clickmas!

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Thread from Alisa Valdes-Rodriguez on her experience in a hospital in Cuba

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"The number of hours we have together is actually not so large. Please linger near the door uncomfortably instead of just leaving. Please forget your scarf in my life and come back later for it."

poem by Mikko Harvey

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How I sleep knowing I always cite my sources:

(First image from the film Drip Dippy Donald (1948); second image from season 4, episode 3 of the Simpsons, “Homer the Heretic” (1992).)

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my ape brain when it gets dark at 4:45pm

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Merry Christmas, merry Yuletide, happy Hanukkah folks💙

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I was thinking about how ‘Grinch’ and ‘Scrooge’ are words for people who hate Christmas but aren’t exact synonyms and then this chart happened.

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How it feels to be a beautiful girl with a secret

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I sent my parents an inflatable dog as a Gigi replacement and now I get pictures like this every day

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