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Pet Dragon

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The French really don’t fuck around.

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Neuro-divergent culture is having 90% of your conversations be carried by how many fun facts you know

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Republicans demand submission. The 'indoctrination' bullshit is such an admission.

They fcuking hate babies/kids/students.

#projection

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Our hoomans put up a shiny thing that is so fun to chew on and it has a bunch of jingly toys on it. They’re so nice and thoughtful ❤️💚🎄 #waffles #peaches #catsofinstagram #meowychristmas https://www.instagram.com/p/ClQFsmxO32B/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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isn’t it kinda weird??? how people don’t pick up on details??? and freak out over smallest things??? like people don’t notice how the other persons voice goes higher or lower during a convo and doesn’t start freaking out over them hating you? and people don’t notice how others can start texting shorter replies in a less enthusiastic way and they don’t actually start hyperventilating when it happens? i wonder what that’s like tbh not to be paranoid over every little thing and how it is not to have breakdowns over the smallest changes in someone’s voice or facial expressions or even the frequency of their texting imagine what a simple life these people must have

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There are two types of borderlines:

1) I become clingy because I’m afraid you’ll leave.

2) I become distant because I’m afraid you’ll leave.

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Can someone please tell me how to not get obsessed with people? Cause I Really can't just LIKE that person.

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me: no one ever checks up on me and no one cares that i am miserable

friend: hey how are you?

me: i am doing absolutely fucking fantastic

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Ah so that’s what that is

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Anyone: *says literally anything to me*

My brain despite hearing them clearly:

Me after long awkward silence: haha wait what

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No, you don’t understand. People with BPD notice everything. We notice when you don’t smile as wide at us one morning. We notice when you don’t hug as tight. When you don’t sound quite as happy when speaking to us. When you look the slightest bit uninterested in what we’re saying.

And when you talk to someone else. When you talk to someone else and look like you’re enjoying yourself, we assume that you’d rather be with them all of the time. So we leave before you can confirm or deny that.

And if you start telling us about a fun time you had with someone else it will not end well. We might be too shy to speak up about it, but it’ll still eat away at us. We’ll feel abandoned. 

And “You should have been there!” is the absolute worst thing to say. We know we should have been there. We want to have been there. We know you had fun and we’re happy that you did, but the sadness of feeling abandoned completely obliterates that. So don’t rub it in.

Instead, say, “Yeah, we had fun, but I’m glad I’m here now” or, “… that you’re here now”. It really makes us feel loved and appreciated. 

I know this barely scratches the surface of what we feel on a daily basis, but I hope this can help those who don’t know.

Thank you for coming to my TedTalk.

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Someone: Wow you're so easy to talk to! I feel like our personalities fit so well together!

Me: thanks i made this one special just for you

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Adam Ellis is either a genius horror storyteller or in grave, grave danger.

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This is cool and all but it would drive me bonkers having my book sets all separated.

Grace’s Library: Bookshelf Tour; April 12, 2016

The first 7 photos are of my main bookcase’s shelves! The last two photos are from my second shelf (it’s about 3x3 feet). ♥

Bookshelf Tours for: 2015: (x) & (x) | 2014: (x)

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This is one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever seen.

tell me why this budgetless gay youtube series made for fun by a group of friends has the best editing and writing of anything i’ve watched in a year.

also tell me how this single scene can contain every single one of the top three most iconic lines in history.

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America is Obama’s sad ex, and Obama is the ex who immediately glows up after the breakup. image credits: Jack Brockway