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The person I reblogged this from deserves happiness and love
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If i EVER interact with a blog that’s abusive or shitty PLEASE tell me 🥴
Sometimes I don’t read too deep into bios or I miss things but boundaries and respect are soo fucking important and if somebody sucks I don’t want to support them <3
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Taking him to the makeup section and letting him pick out the color of lipstick he wants to be covered in tonight, but I have my own set of rules that he is completely unaware of-
If he picks a bright red he gets tied up with the same colored rope
If he choses a dark red I'll put him in dark red lingerie
And if he choses black he gets cuffed to the bed, blindfolded, and gagged<3<3
The choice is his, he just doesn't know it~
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You want to call yourself her daddy?
What’s her favorite color? What’s something that always makes her laugh? What are her goals? Her dreams? What is she afraid of? Do you know what she likes do to when she wants to relax? Do you know what helps her when she’s had a bad day? Can you recognize when she needs extra love because she’s feeling needy but doesn’t want to say anything? Can you tell when she’s bothered by something? Do you know her favorite way to be held, to be cuddled, to be wrapped up in your arms? Are you her safe place to go to when the world gets scary? Does she feel safe opening up to you? Does she feel like she can tell you anything? Do you punish from a place of love/caring, for correction of her destructive behaviors, for her own good? Do you see her as a person, a whole complete, complicated person? Do you make her feel respected and cherished? Do you protect her? Do you take care of her?
Being daddy is way more than fucking her, and if you’re not ready to take her heart, mind, body and soul, and protect & treat them with all the love, care, tenderness, respect that you are capable of giving, then you’re not her daddy. You’re just some asshole who wants to be called that. And you can get fucked.
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when the safe word is “gentle” because you don’t want them to stop, just be… more gentle.
safe words don’t always have to mean total, full red. safe words can mean go slower, i need a moment but don’t pull out, can you not do specifically whatever it is you’re doing, etc.
sex is supposed to always have open communication, and if you’re like me and struggle to say full sentences or give specific instructions, come up with a list of words that have different meanings to you and your partner(s).
talk, put everything out in the open, be vulnerable, trust this person / these people, make sure you’re all on the exact same page, and most importantly, be safe ~
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Today hasn't been very good. Reblog to cover prev in blankets and tell them everything is going to be okay and they're loved.
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TW - self harm
Trying to come up with ideas for littles that struggle with self harm, please leave your ideas if you have any more
- hold ice cubes
- color on yourself
- color a picture of how you feel
- cuddle a pet or a stuffie
- drink from ur sippy and watch a cartoon
- put a heating pad on ur tummy
- therapy spanks
- running hands under warm or cold water
- take a bath
- ask ur cg to brush ur hair
- lay on ur cg chest as they hum
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Having sex isn't everything, have y'all tried just laying down, playing with someone's hands while they talk about life. Those are the moments to live for. Deep talk and understanding someone's background, opening up to someone and actually falling for them more and more.
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reblog to send your mutuals a hug. maybe just the thought is enough to cheer them up 🥺
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Yeahhhh, looked through his blog, and this guy is a moron who thinks he’s entitled to other people’s time/content/body/etc. definitely adding to the blocklist
Some of you really need to understand that just because the content on someone's blog is sexual, it doesn't give you a golden ticket to act sexual in their DMs. Everyone deserves respect, regardless of the type of content they share. Consent and mutual respect are important in all interactions. Just because someone is open about their sexuality online doesn't mean they're inviting unsolicited advances!
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