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A soulmate is someone who is willing to grow with you, who chooses to be with you until the end, and will love you through good and bad. It’s not about sunshine and laughter, it’s about mundane moments filled with unknowns.

T.B. LaBerge (via wordsnquotes)

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A soulmate is someone who is willing to grow with you, who chooses to be with you until the end, and will love you through good and bad. It’s not about sunshine and laughter, it’s about mundane moments filled with unknowns.

T.B. LaBerge (via wordsnquotes)

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feel good things:

watch sunrises. somehow, this makes me feel like the beginning of something new, the birth of my better, stronger self. watch the way the sun rises, because just like that, you will rise and shine, too.

sing your heart out. dance until you’re exhausted. make art until you run out paint. write out your feelings. indulge in your passion and do it like you’re doing it to impress yourself.

relive your favorite, happiest memory. it is one easy guaranteed effective way to make your heart, your soul, and even your lips smile. no bias.

rewatch your favorite film. grab some chips or a bucket of popcorn and have a marathon of your most-watched flicks. don’t hesitate to replay your favorite scenes if you feel the need to.

aspire and try to be kind, always. being kind on a daily basis is possibly one of the most exhausting and draining thing to ever do but i promise at the end of the day, before you go to sleep you will realize: it is worth it. always.

take a shower. scrub off your creeping self-doubts, smell nice, and bask yourself with self-love. take your time to ponder about your life inside the tub. this is the best time to reevaluate and relax.

be spontaneous even just for one day. drive away from the city. get a haircut. go on a coffee shop hopping. sketch random places. let your heart and your thoughts wander. let your soul soar and be free.

treat yourself. it does not necessarily have to be something enormous or expensive. it could just be a new set of brushes or getting a thrifted second-hand book or buying yourself some bouquet of fresh flowers. it’s not about the tags, it’s about the thought.

rekindle your love for a forgotten passion. nothing beats falling in love with something the second time around. touch your dusty piano keys, change your rusty violin strings, and once again (just like the old days), let your ardor dance in harmony.

take a nap. because sometimes, the best way to temporarily solve something, is to do nothing. yes, it is only ethical to give yourself a break from the overwhelming society. and yes, taking a nap most of the time makes everything better.

if you want to or feel the need to, cry. there is nothing wrong with doing something that is inherent. this does not prove that you are weak, it only proves that you are a human being capable of feeling things. so really, do not ever plan to hinder yourself from crying. it’s often times therapeutic.

do something that you have never done before. no more excuses. just because there is nothing more empowering and satisfying than crossing something out of your bucketlist.

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2018

Scared to enter 2018.

What if everything is just the same like this year?

I dont think i have any energy left to survive.

Even to be able to go through 2017 amazed me.

What if my 2018 will be tougher?

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Here comes July.

1. You can’t buy your time back so don’t waste it on something that is not important.

2. Belajarlah untuk mengucapkan selamat tinggal kepada masa lalu dan hal-hal yang tidak betul.

3. Refrain yourself from hoping too high because too many times it will hurt you & let just live with what we have.

4. Try to change to be better or else we will stuck on the past and get left far behind.

5. Stop missing & dreaming & longing to something we didn’t had.

6. Don’t expect or hope for unrealistic things like “jangan pernah berubah”. Things always change. Be prepared.

7. Heavy hearts weigh us down so let it flow.

8. God doesn’t do coincidence. Good or bad, there must be a reason. He always have plan for us.

9. Carilah kebaikan walau dalam perpisahan sebab mencari keburukan takkan mendatangkan apa-apa malah bakal merosakkan hati sendiri.

10. Nak hati baik, kena selalu mencari dan melihat kebaikan. Jadi carilah kebaikan walau apa keadaan pun, walau sedang menangis dan kecewa.

11. Cinta tak selalu tepat waktu, kerana cinta itu selalu tepat dengan takdir.

12. Life is about two things, to hold and to let go. When the time comes to hold it, hold it. When the time comes to let it go, let it go.

13. Berdamailah dengan kenangan. Jangan memaksa apa yang telah terhapus sebelum ini menjadi satu realiti.

14. To be rejected by someone doesn’t mean you should also reject yourself. Please, move on.

15. Anything that might hurt you would just make you stronger in the end. Please, move on.

16. You have your own happiness to think about. Please, move on.

17. It is true that love cannot last forever. But it is also true that heartbreak is soon forgotten. You just need to accept reality.

18. It hurts when it hurts, but the aching will pass. No pain last forever. Ia akan sembuh seiring masa seiring doa.

19. Please know who you are and be that person.

20. Please accept and love yourself.

21. Have courage to let go of the things that are not meant for us.

22. Don’t love too fast because the worst case scenario is to love someone so much only to realize, you should not have fallen in love.

23. Time can erase both joys and pains. I just hope whatever it erase, it is the best for us.

24. People always change. Knowing that mean you should keep changing too. That’s what being alive means. That you should not stay behind.

25. We are human. We screw up. We lose our way. still, we need to move forward. Force ourselves to keep learning. To keep trying. To be better.

26. Manusia akan matang seiring waktu dan perkara-perkara yang berlalu akan berganti dengan yang lebih baik, inshaAllah. Tabah dan kuatlah.

27. Time passes and feeling changes. But please, please, please, always make a du'a ; for you. For yourself. For your heart. For your life.

- sederhanaindah

p/s : i’m not writing for you to like me. I write so that you would like yourself more. Stay good, okay? You will be alright.

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I don’t think you understand how in love I am with you. How I’ve adopted your manners and how I think of you every second of everyday. I don’t think you understand the pain you put me through and how I choose to still love you and to stay. I don’t think you understand how much I love you, because trust me it’s a lot and all I can do is to hope that you love me half as much.

(via somewhatsomelikepoetry)

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THE QUEST FOR LOVE

Relationships has never been something I’m brave enough to write about, especially in public. The love between a man and a woman to me is very personal. Add religion into the equation and it just becomes very sacred to me. I do not wish to write too long, since I have classes tomorrow at 9am and it’s exactly 4.30am right now. However, I just need to let a few things off my chest because it has been bothering me for quite a while now. Also, due to my hectic schedule, this is the only time I have to write- though I swear to god I’m super sleepy right now

Before we jump into the topic, yes I am single. Have I ever been in a relationship? The answer is also yes. I know how it feels like to love and be loved the same way I know how it feels to be completely shattered. You see, different people have different definitions of love. I strongly believe that the people we fall in love with can sometimes reflect the kind of person we are. For instance, I really value religion, knowledge and ambition. Thus, if i were to marry someone, I look for someone with these exact characteristics. I want someone who has the same goals that I have. Someone who will not only fight with me to succeed in this world, but also in the hereafter. I need someone who works just as hard as I do, not someone who is always tired and only cares about sleep. No more time should be wasted with whiny and lazy ambitionless boys. If you’re serious to pursue a relationship, look for a man.

If there’s one thing a relationship has taught me, it is the importance of maturity when it comes to love. NEVER indulge in a relationship just because it’s a ‘nice’ feeling. If you want to be with someone might as well be with a person who will help bring the best out of you, spiritually, mentally and also emotionally. If the relationship you are in is leading you towards the haraam, leave. No buts. It is just the end of a toxic relationship, not the end of the world. 

By the way people, it is perfectly OKAY to be single. I have been single for over a year now, and wallahi I have never been this happy and I have been achieving so much. I always tell my friends that when you are single, you have 27 hours a day. What it essentially mean is that you’ll have more time for yourself. I know some people who can only seek comfort in the presence of their significant other. After one relationship ends they feel the need to jump into another. Chill people, chill. Take a breather. You don’t need another person to feel sufficient. Try to be comfortable and at peace with yourself with or without a relationship. You have the rest of your life to be spent with your significant other, so while you’re single, might as well really embrace/enjoy it.

Okay last point before I hit the sack, never settle. Ya Allah I can’t stress this enough. Being single is better than being with the wrong person. As they say, it’s better to wait long than marry wrong. If we dont know what we deserve, we will always settle for less. But to deserve more, we should first be more. Build your character before you choose to build a family. Study hard, learn new skills, take up a hobby, read more, travel. There’s so much that can be done when you’re single for your personal development. Take care of yourself. Your health, spirituality, intelligence, akhlak (good character) etc & inshaAllah you’ll get someone who’d do the same for you.

Jim Rohn once said, “The greatest gift you can give somebody is your own personal development. I used to say, ‘If you will take care of me, I will take care of you.’ Now I say, ‘I will take care of me for you, if you will take care of you for me”.

I know this entry is all over the place, but I’m half awake so do forgive me. I hope you find this post helpful. As for me, call me philophobic but I am personally afraid to be in a relationship again. But when the time comes, I hope the guy I end up with will be proud with the lady I have become. If you happen to read this, whoever you may be, please know that not a day passes that I don’t make do’a for you, and for us. Wherever you are in this world, I hope you are also striving to be your best self. May Allah make it easy for us to find our way to each other. See you when I see you! Ending this cringey post with one of my favorite quotes from Rumi,

‘Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.’

Lots of love,

Aisyah

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Rindu alang☹️

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Srikandi

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My favorite view... but yet he always never care about me.. i always miss u.. sometimes i just hate u

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Kadang-kadang, Tulisan seseorang adalah bayangan perasaan kita yang terpendam. Suara hati yang tak terluahkan. Yang membingit dan berantakan dalam jiwa dan fikiran.

Credit to @silence

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😌 kalau la kau pye perasaan same mcm ak pye

I wish you knew how much I smile when I talk to you, and I hope I make you smile when we talk, too.

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