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Ahhh have to head out but thank you all for your questions! Loved answering them. BYE GUYSSS!!

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Hey, I'm sorry to bother you with this but I feel really bad rn. I broke a promise I made to a friend about two months ago that I wouldn't cut myself. I feel really bad about it but Idk if I should tell them and apologize or just keep it to myself bc they are going through a lot of their own problems rn. Idk what to do

I’m not really sure apologizing will help. And I don’t mean that in a bad way. It’s just…this isn’t really something you can promise. For a lot of people, self-harm becomes an addiction. You can make promises all you want, but they’re so, so hard to keep. You can’t beat yourself up over it. Sometimes we take steps back. It’s okay.

As for telling them, that’s your choice entirely. If they made you promise, then they obviously care. And besides, this is the kind of thing friends are for, right? But timing is also important, and if you don’t feel comfortable talking to them, then don’t. If they can’t discuss it at this point, that’s okay, too. The important thing is to not lie. If you can’t openly and (mostly) comfortably talk to your friends, then something is wrong. Even if they’re not in a good place to offer their usual support, it’s still important for both of you to be able to talk to each other about your issues.

Talking to other people about this is important, and it’s a significant part of your recovery. Just be honest and understanding, and make sure they know that this friendship works both ways, and you’re there for them, too.

Good luck; you can do this

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just girlfriends doing their thing

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brooklyn nine-nine: Gina Linetti

“All men are at least 30% attracted to me. My mother cried the day I was born because she knew she would never be better than me. At any given moment, I’m thinking about one thing: Richard Dreyfuss hunkered over eating dog food. I feel like I’m the Paris of people.”

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via Introvert Doodles

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it’s been through a lot

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Samira Wiley & Lauren Morelli Wedding Photo. The 29-year-old Orange is the New Black actress and writer got married in a intimate ceremony on Saturday afternoon (March 25, 2017) in Palm Springs, Calif.

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