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Missing home so much

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Papa

Walaupun banyak kekurangan dari papah, suka marah, bahkan pernah main tangan. Papah paling sayang unci. Sangat sayang unci. Paling ngerti unci. Mudah2an sehat terus sampe nungky nanti ngasih cucu buat papa😭

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Menikah

Tidak semudah yang terlihat, dan seseram yang terlintas.

Menikah menyatukan 2 pikiran jadi satu, 2 tabiat jadi satu, 2 dompet jadi satu. Satu tujuan. Satu perjalanan.

Aku bahkan bener2 seperti baru menyadari kehidupan pernikahan setelah satu tahun berumah tangga.

Menikah bukan lagi seseorang harus menuruti egomu, atau merasa kamu yang paling tersakiti.

Setaun ini seperti benar2 masih pacaran. Sering ngambek, nangis wkwk

Tapi ga peenah nunjukin beeantem yg ameh aneh depan keluarga. Semua terhandle dgb baik. Semoga selamanya seperti ini.

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Teruntuk kamu,Suamiku

Kamu yang dulu hanya sebuah kata tanpa nyata,

Kamu yang hanya menjadi bahan cerita dengan pena,

Nama yang terkumpul penuh asa,

Kini... kamu telah menjadi imamku.

Terima kasih mau berjuang dengan ku..

Ini tak akan mudah. Tapi bersama akan membuatnya lebih indah🙂

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ITS BEEN A LONG TIME!

Bumped to February 10th 2018.

Hello fellas. Kaya nya gue udh bertekad mau rajin ngepost lagi di sini. Wkkw karna kalo di ig ga cocok buat curcol. Kalo disini kan jarang yg liat yaaah.

Karna ram manusia ada batasannya.

So lets get started *suara byuti vlogger*

To be honest, memutuskan menikah di usia 23 taun its a very big deal.

Padahal dulu ngarepnya 21 taun wkwkw .

So excited dan so scary juga.

Apalagi gue ldran nya khan maen jauhnya Aceh - Bima.

Gue merasa bangga sama diri sendiri kadang2. Dan merasa kasian sm diri sendiri kadang2. Wkwwkw

So, the man is Faqih Ansori.

Orang yg tersirat di beberapa postan gue meminang gue.

Orang yg suka tidur kalo ngaji

Yang lucu banget itu wkwk

Temen drama gueee

Maju mundur. Bismillah. Prosesnya cepet banget.

Oktober keluarga acih ke rumah. Tadinya desember 2017 rencana nikah. Terlalu cepet. Jadinya februari 2018.

Dengan berbagai macam drama kehidupan, ngurus apa apa sendiri, sampe nyari bahan buat bridesmaid, batik keluarga gue cari sendiri.

Semua acara dr uang patungan sendiri. Kadang suka baper kok hhmm kok. Tapi yaudahlah ya uang bisa di cari. Toh gue sm faqih yang penting ikhlas las las.

Pertama kali abis halal doi bilang

"Ternyata tangan kamu kecil".

Sialaaaaaaannnnn ya anda. Ya Allah suami sendiri😭😭🤦🏽‍♀️

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Buummmm. Hancur lebur.

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Buummmm. Hancur lebur.

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Bulan terakhir JOMBLOOOO!! I dunno what to say. but im nervoused already. There’re too much what ifs in my mind.

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Apapun yang terjadi didalam hidup nungky. Insya Allah nungky ikhlas. Nungky nerima.

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Kebahagiaan? Kebahagiaan macam apa yg seharusnya dicari? Terlalu fana.

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My dear seeking sister, you will meet a lot of men in your life. Please don’t settle. Wait. Wait for the one you would want your sons to be like. Find him, and then wait for him if you have to. Wait for the one that treats you like a queen. The one you can depend on to protect and take care of you. Wait. Wait if you have to.

Yasmin Mogahed (via abeauutifulpatience)

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If you want to get married, ask Allah for 3 things in a spouse: 1. Grant me someone who will remind me of you. 2. Grant me someone who will hold my hand in Jannah. 3. Grant me someone who will elevate my Emaan.

(via islamicrays)

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‎رزقت حبها I was nourished by her love

Prophet (saw) talking about the love of his life, Khadijah (ra)

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Marry someone of faith, someone of good manners and Allah will show you happiness in this life and the Hereafter.

(via xkhairunx)

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In english, a wife is known as a “housewife”. In arabic, she is known as “Rabbaitul Bait” or "The Queen of the House”.

See the huge difference?

The arabic language is full of depth and meaning. Every woman is a Queen in her own home, the children are her prince and princess, and the house is her kingdom.

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The Prophet ﷺ was asked “Which (type of) woman is the best?” He replied “When you look at her, you feel happiness.

Hadith-Sunan An-Nasa’i. (via hadeiadel-blog)

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I pray you marry a man that will listen to your worries with an attentive ear.

A man that will take your tears seriously.

A man that won’t be annoyed when you falter.

A man that will make every effort to see you smile.

A man that will put you above even his greatest passion.

A man that will protect your precious heart.