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you’re in his dms I’m in his silent hill nightmare psyche

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There are different kinds of aro people. Some are perfectly happy to do romantic relationships. Some absolutely cannot stand the idea that anyone might even think they're in one. And then there's me, who just messaged my FWB asking if I can tell my landlord she's my girlfriend so I can use her mold allergy as a reason why no, he cannot just paint over the black mold in my apartment, he needs to actually do something about it. If I'm going to live in a society where romantic relationships are taken uniquely seriously? Well, I have absolutely no problem lying

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starts punching and tearing at everything in a blind rage. i want AROMANTIC characters i want characters with not an OUNCE of romance about them i don't JUST want aroace characters i want AROMANTIC characters that AREN'T ASEXUAL i want people to headcanon characters as AROMANTIC not just aroace i want fandom to treat AROMANTICISM as AROMANTICISM, and not a SUBCATEGORY OF ASEXUALITY. RRRAAAAAAAAGHHHHHH

[ID: banner reading "don't tag as ace or aroace"]

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Go forth my children

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A very large aro flag.

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I enjoy your pronouns (mainly bc I also use those but yk)

Thanks! I enjoy yours too

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as an optimist i dream of a beautiful world where people are fucking normal about aromanticism

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Sometimes...characters being in a romantic relationship is worse.

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Happy ASAW 2024, here's something about community !

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i came out to my mom & she said i “invented” aromanticism and asexuality

so for all the aroaces out there you’re welcome 😔🙏

i’m out here doing gods work

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No, you misunderstood. When I said I can’t feel romantic or sexual attraction I wasn’t complaining, I was bragging.

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Being repulsed is really fucking weird. Not wanting to see people kiss, being uncomfortable when witnessing romantic displays, that's all associated with childishness. I've genuinely thought there was something wrong with me or that I was a bad friend for not wanting to hear about my friend's new boyfriend for hours. Or that not liking to see my friend and her girlfriend kiss meant I was jealous somehow.

It's very alienating and othering and simply confusing because most of us go through this for years before discovering there's a word for it and other people feel this way.

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having a ponder about being aromantic and the kinds of friendships or qprs I might want to have

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By the way "some aroace people still date and have sex" and "it's weird how internet spaces makes every single aroace character romance and sex favourable" can and should co-exist. Sincerely, an aroace person

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"Oh you're alloromantic? But what if you meet someone one day who puts you off romance forever? I think you should put your life on hold just in case that happens."

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Look at this polo shirt I saw today

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Oh how the tables have turned