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Life Update : April 2017

Oh well, three first months of 2017 has been gone so fast, january is the the last time I wrote a blog post in this site, talk about life.. how’s my life going right now? if you asked.. right now I am sipping my cup of tea while thinking what goals I have been achieved for these past few months.

Life : It’s been pretty good, I could tell.. but you all know, there aren’t smooth steps in everything, I’m currently putting through all of the pieces in my life that all of this time are missing, like the way to appreciate little things more, trying to be more confident, taking care of myself more carefully, and be more grateful. School? how about that? after realizing that actually high school is not good at all. at ALL. yeah, you could find a good friend to share your thoughts and all of the chit chats, but your inner circle getting smaller in here, there aren’t big bunch of friends that you could hag out with (in my case), I'm not an introvert kind of person, so it’s not a big trouble for me to socialize with others, but it’s for real though, it’s tough to make friends in high school, those back-stabbers, and the ones who just want to utilize yourself. all of these things must be happened for a reason, something must be can learned from all of this shit stuffs that happened. MATURITY, will slowly growing inside of me.. I know, that real-life.. those real-life when you’re out from the school, it must be more tough than this. I learned a lot from high school, even just a little pieces yet I'm still on the first grade, but in one or two months ahead I'll be doing final test, yeah I'll be an official second grader, wish me luck for that.. the state that I'm currently in is, where I felt like high school thought you nothing (I talked about the subjects), obviously almost all of the teachers here are.. *shhhh* SUCKS. oh, well. some of them are nice thou, but if we count in a percentage.. the nice one is just not even a half of them.. fifteen percent maybe.. so I have to work harder to achieve all of the dreams that I have been planned, I spend most of my times besides freelancing are studying..three or four out of seven days I spend those days full of studying, I hope what I do will be paid off in the future. my days usually starts at five a.m and ended up at six or seven p.m.... how tiring... hmm but I should stop complain and be grateful more, doesn’t it?

Goals : the previous and this month which is march and april, are the highlight of my goals, I received two jobs.. I couldn’t be more happier than that, even I'm still underpaid, but I do really enjoyed every bits of it, if you don’t know what I do, I do freelance photography.. when people hired me, I should make a concepts about it, the shoots and literally everything, but sometimes if I got a client that has been arranged almost everything, what I do is just to shoot and edit the picture. the paycheck from those jobs, I saved some of them, pay some bills that I had, and shopping---- but, at this time, I don’t shop clothes for sure. currently I'm obsessed with stationery,books ( novels, poems), and skincare. I don’t even know when is the exact time that I'm starting all of these obsession, but as long as it’s good why not? I spend a lot .. a LOT of money to full-fill those obsession.. about the stationery, I don’t actually write like those “bullet journaling” or those “pretty notes”, yea maybe some of my notes looked like that, but surely not all of them, I just loved to buy good quality stationery, it’s ok to spend a lot of money at the beginning, but you won’t buy it again in a quite long time. and about the books, I've been love reading since I was a kid actually, but for the past few years I don’t really buy a book and read a book, but starting from January I promised myself to write and read more, total I have purchased about five or six books ( I'm not sure ), and I have been finished half of them, and I added two more books that I bought yesterday!, talking about skincare... I actually a bit embarrassed talking about this one, since it’s a girl thing, but who cares anyway.. it’s 2017 and gender equality has been playing role here, lol. yeah, I have tons of acne in my face, at the beginning I don’t care but slowly I'm more concern and ended up spending almost fifty dollars on k-beauty thing, thanks James Welsh for the influence haha. and the sad thing in this “goals” section is.. if you read a few post back, I told that I wrote a book, and it’s true.. my book is all finished and about to get printed this year, I'm not making this book independently, I worked with one of the government branch, but sadly I haven’t received my last payment.. hopefully it will be down as soon as possible. besides I got some jobs to do, my diet went well too, I've lost about two kilos in two weeks, not bad isn’t it? I actually starting my diet just two weeks ago, for the past few months I just fueling up my self with courage and consistency... hopefully I could reach my goals in about two or three months ahead.. 

well, that’s all the updates I could tell to all of you, and the last thing is. yes, I grew up my hair.. I went bald for almost one and a half year.. and right now I want to go out from my comfort zone and explore myself more.. it’s a good thing right? have a blessed day you all !

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QOTD : what goals that you’ve been achieved this past few months?

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Who’s the one you should falling for?

There’s a moment where i asked this question several times to my self and i’m not quite sure what should i fall in love to first, the words ‘falling’ that i wrote on the title means ‘falling in love’ to something, it could be to your loved ones, your collectible things, your fuzzy socks and knits, your fave pair of shoes and denim, and there are a lot more list that i can write, and it could go on and on.

As I’m finding the answer to that question, i also always seek to everything to make sure what’s the first thing i should falling for, i collected toys, stamps, i loved to draw and taking care all of my brush and water color palette, cleaning my camera and lens, all the things that i do above really showed that i fall in love to it until i cared a little too much to that things, all of the things that i did above doesn't really answer the question though,.

Naturally all of the humans are born to be a lover, so we will do it for the rest of our lives, without even realizing that the more we love other things, it seems, the less we are able to love ourselves. After realizing it this thought popped in my head “yeah that is true”, the answer to my question has been answered.

The first thing you should love is your own self, there is an art in loving ourselves, it is not a easy job to learn and accept the way we are, loving your own self first doesn't means you can’t love others but how could you love another while you can’t even accept your self when you look at the mirror?, small little steps will leads you to be more accepting yourself as who you truly are.

Starting from eliminating criticisms ( just accept what you want to accept and let go what you don’t want to accept), reduced insecurities ( God’s made you as perfect as you are, don’t worry), try to releasing the love to your self (the example is showing some love to your body, take a good bath, eat healthy and work out ).

The last thing you should do is celebrate your worth, you guys spending days to days for run to strengthen your legs & spending nights on the gym to build the abs, you girls spending hours for make up to look pretty in front of people, and all of you who have been worked so hard from day to night for studying so you can get an A+, treat your self! get some rest, reading your fave books, watch netflix, get your self some ice cream and other nice things. You are worth it more than you thought, don’t you ever let people to make you down!

I write this not only for you, but this is a note for my own self too. I’m still learning to do all of these things, as the days passed by, i know we can get through this ! 

( I want to know your thoughts too about this question <on the title>, let me know by typing your answer on the box below :) )

xx Harris

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ROEPI : Your Everyday Essential

Got a chance to write again a little bit, this week school haven’t start properly so i still owned a plenty of free time. This time i want to write about my favorite local brand. Yes, it is @roepiah you can check them at instagram. They sell essentials items which is their items won’t be eaten by seasons or trends, they focused on basics and life-wear ( and i love it!).

I have been addicted with this brand since i found out this brand on instagram while I’m scrolling the popular post section, i opened their insta feeds and opened their website, the thing that made me surprised is the price, it’s so damn affordable. The range for clothes is starting from 89.000 to 500.000-ish (in rupiah), and my absolute favorite from roepi is their T-SHIRT ! 

PERSONAL THOUGHTS

I owned six pieces of roepi t-shirt, they comes in various color but my fave is their black and white plain t-shirt. This t-shirt cost 89.000 (in rupiah), which is quite affordable for a t-shirt with this quality, I caught my eyes to this brands for the first time because of their brand tags on the t-shirts, i just find it so cool and chic. The fabric that they used is really soft and have a nice fit on my body, I used size large for inner clothes (because it fit more tight) and if i just want to wear the t-shirt itself i used size extra large, they do comes in O shape neck line and V shape neckline ( not the deep one though ahaha) , for me this is a good investment for my wardrobe (and yours too!) t-shirt is such a basic item, especially plain t-shirt. These t-shirts also my go-to item, so versatile and clean, and a key piece in the wardrobe.

( this is the black ones, one of them still have tag on them because i just bought them about two days ago. Oh yes, roepi also had a lot of promo, like discounts (right now on their web!) and buy one get one promo)

QUALITY

I give 8/10 for the quality of this brands, i love their concepts about clothes too, they used to share their thoughts on their instagram and the price that they put really suitable and comparable with their quality, the fit is also good though not too tight in the under-arm ( usually every time i buy t-shirt that’s the problem), and the last thing, the fabric is really soft to the skin and absorb the sweat, but there’s also a lack in the t-shirt quality especially the white ones

( the one on the top is the roepi t-shirt that i’ve worn for four months and the bottom one is the new one i just bought)

The white color are slowly washed off and become grey&yellow-ish as the month passed by, i don’t wear it everyday but i wear it often, because of that problem i have to buy a new one every four months.

The overall of this brand is pretty good and i really recommend you all to buy your essentials items in here, they sell hoodie, bags,shoes,t-shirt and many more just check them out on instagram here. Here’s the end of my short review about my favorite essentials brand, there are still plenty more brand that i want to share and review to you all especially the local ones, maybe next time i’ll do it again. Save your money by buying more essential items rather that ‘that’ IT items. Shop less, choose better!

xx Harris

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Thoughts on 2017 + 2016 Recap

Before talking about the past and the future, I just got back from Bali, the overall trips is so amazing and fun, i visited quite a lot beaches there ( surely will make a Bali diary trip post after this), and sadly my holiday is going to be over in just a few days, the reality is coming again, i have to wake up early for school *sighs*, so let’s start..

2016

For me, this year has been so tough, there are a lot of lessons that i could learn from this year. I cannot tell you that this is the worst year, because you know, the ones who’s wrong is not the year but YOU! i can describe this year as a beautiful chaos, i will recap the good things that happened in this year..

1)  i made a lot of new friends this year,

2) the transition from junior to senior high school has been so fun yet challenging,

3) in this year too, my photography skill has been growing and the photography job opportunity came a lot too in this year,

4) i started a new online magazine (as i tell you on the previous post),

5) and the last but not least,  i got my very first job to make a book! yes, a book i repeat, it’s an illustration book that i’m currently still in the making, the purpose of this book is for a high-schoolers, i surely will tell you the detailed information of this later. ( hopefully will come in this year)

in every good things, there will be also a bad things, i felt like i don’t want to remember or even recap the bad ones, but i have to write it, why? because all the bad things will taught me to be better in the future, i don’t want to make the same mistakes that i’ve made in the past, as i write it down (and you should do it too!) i will used this as a prohibition guide, so here it is..

1)  I am too much caring about what people said

There aren’t much bad thing that happened this year, but as it titled, i am pretty sure you owned the same problem as mine, people will told you you are too fat, you are too ugly, and other shaming words, but in the end the one who’s going to accept or letting it go is you. In my case, i’ll always listen to it and caring about it a little too much, when people said that shaming words, maybe i’ll just laugh or just thinking positive about it but sometimes when people talk about it way too much, it seems like i always carried their judgement as a weight on my mind and my body and it’s not good at all. Everyday,everytime i grow a little by little, and when i grow my mind will follow too, and by that thing, i’m trying and learning to love my self as a whole body and not just loving it at some parts. their judgment is not going to be a “weight” that i carried, but i will make it as an advice and trying to be the best of me.

2) I don’t save enough money

They told us that money can’t buy happiness, but surely money can buy nice clothes, shoes, and airplane ticket to somewhere amazing. I just realized that i have to save money in the middle of the year because at the end of the year i will go to Bali for holiday and i won’t hand any money if i don’t save it from now. Usually all of my income i used it all on my daily expense and clothes, starting this year i promised my self not to spend too much money and save more, also give more to someone needed.

3) I don’t lose so much weight and not exercise so much

Because i am new for being an highschool-er,i’m a little bit overwhelmed with the task, i’ve got tons of homework and projects that have to be finished everyday, i also joined in some community which is require me to do some stuffs such as designing, meetings, arranging events etc, all of that things leads me to come home late and being tired, so i’m not capable enough to work out or exercise everyday, but if i have a time (usually just on the weekend), i definitely will go for a fast walk or run, but i don’t effect much because i’m not doing it often. 

That is some of my bad habits that i should stop in this year. Guys, i do really recommend you to write down the things you want to get rid of in your life, because when you write it down you will feel more relived and remembering it much more, so you wouldn’t do the bad things twice.

2017

New year means new fresh pages, new fresh start and it feels like you starting all over again from zero. For me, new year means a start button, i can do all over again starting from the bottom, also new year means a lot of new opportunities to come, new projects, new acquaintance. I do really hope this year will be my year, there are a lot of things that should be achieved and done in this year. Tons of new fresh ideas has been sailing on my head, i cannot wait to make it happen!

I will also write down the things i want to achieve this year, maybe you guys will be inflame and will start thinking a tons of plans that you will achieved in twelve months ahead.

So, here is mine..

1) Be more grateful

It just a simple word but so hard to do, sometimes when you all way too much glance up like thinking how wealthy they are, how successful they are you won’t ever be grateful, just use them as your reference of goals.

2) Eat healthier

This thought always crossed my mind, “can i be a vegan?”, because i’m so done with my current weight and i am currently doing that vegan eating thing, i’m in trial and i haven’t think that i’ll be a vegan forever (maybe someday), there is a lot of research and role models for why i’m doing this thing, some of them are @therawboy i loved to see his instagram feeds and also his youtube channel, also @livshealthylife i love her recipes on her youtube channel, and the last but not least Cam & Nina on youtube. Hopefully by doing this diet, i will lose some weight.

3) Shop less, choose better

I always appreciate the craftsmanship and every little aspects in everything, in terms of clothes, i have stopped shopping on fast fashion retailer about a half year, i get rid a lot of clothes in this past few months, because i want to wear and own something that I really loved and feeling comfortable in it, my current fave brands are @roepiah on instagram, Norse Project, and @Bluesville on instagram. 

4) Save money, write, and read more

I’ve told you before about saving money, my point about savings are, so i can travel more (explore more new places), buying nice things, and giving to someone needed, i always believed in my parents advice “ all of the things you own, it’s not all yours. some of your wealth are owned by the people who’s in need”. 

About writing, i promised my self to write everyday, starting to write on a diary (what i write in there is everything that is happened today), and i hope i can update this blog more often ( please bear with me, sometimes school tasks are sucks), and the last thing is i want to write more article on toi et moi, my current online magazine project, my friend Zahra and I been writing a few article on the web, please do check it out right here.

The most boring thing are reading, i really love to read, but when i did i need  a really long time and space, so the solutions to be effective and efficient, i won’t read any novel or read those thick book with a long ass paragraph. i choose magazine, if you read every paragraph it feels the same like a book. currently reading national geographic latest issues talking about gender. ( i took almost two days for reading it)

5) Make more projects so i can earn more income

The income i write is not all about money, new ideas, new experience, new friends, new engagement, i count it all as an income. Money is a plus from all of the things that i do, i may be young and under aged but i want to be freedom about financial from my parents. It felt so good when you can afford some “thing” or go to somewhere nowhere with your own blood, sweat, and tears.

6) Re-designing this blog

This one is tough, it has been a year my blog looking like this and it may takes trillion times to have the over-all looks of this blog, but hey, i just made new header!

These are some thought that i want to share with all of you, i hope we all can learn from our mistakes in the past. Cheers to the new chapter, where we can start with a bank page and filled it with new stories and experience. So sorry for making this post so long about 1,500 words. I hope your day will be good!

See you!

xx Harris

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What is Happening?

( Massimo Dutti Jacket, Lev’s Shirt, Marks & Spencer Shorts, Monstore Inner tees, Topman socks, Vans Sk8 High)

( nikicio tees )

Been a very, very long time since the last time i stumbled upon this blog, so glad to be back!

This past few months since the last post has been very tough, apart from my adaptation with new school, yes i am an high school-er now, battling with so many task and test, and i’m totally okay with it (of course i lied)  & i’m just finished my final test about a week ago which is very calming because it is so close to holiday, and i am going to Bali in a few days!

I also very busy with my current project Toi Et Moi, it is a website for teenager where they can find a lot of things from fashion to music, from cultural to helpful tips, this website are curated by me and my best friend Zahra, there aren’t so much post right now, but there are a lot more to come starting this month or early 2017, we both worked really hard for this, we hope the out come is as good as we planned.check out the web here and follow the instagram for daily updates.

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In this post i just want to talk about my current favorite jacket! yes it is my Massimo Dutti jacket, my key pieces these past few months, outwear has been always my “mostly worn” pieces, i always wear outwear in my outfit, whether it’s a parka, cardigan or shirts, all of my outwear collection except shirts, it is always in neutral tone-- just because it always goes with any outfits--

talk about having a over-loaded wardrobe, i’ve just done wardrobe cleaning this month, i got rid a lot of clothes such as doubled tees with same color or the new shirts i bought but never worn and many more, i gave it to someone who needs it (such as orphanage etc) i think it is more valuable if i gave it to the right place/person, right now i am feeling so happy ,i saved a lot of time by owning a fewer clothes (less choices, the better). 

About the outfit..

Some apparel that i wore on the first photos are thrifted, i don’t know why lately i am really into thrifting, from online thrifting to real-life thrifting ( by visiting thrift shop), since i am not into fast-fashion anymore, i’m choosing to buy local brands or thrifting. i bought the shirts only for 50.000 in rupiah or about five bucks in dollars, if you buy that levi’s shirt at the mall, i guaranteed it will cost you more that 25 bucks, and about the shorts i bought it only for 60.000 or 6 bucks, so cheap yet so trendy. to be stylish shouldn’t cost you to death guys! ( if i had a time, i’m really excited to write a post about thrifting!)

That nikicio tees on below picture... that’s my absolute fave tees, aside it is oversized and made out from some kind of scuba fabric, it so comfy! i bought it on sale at nikicio website, you guys should really check out the brands, i’ve been eyeing some of their new collection (almost all of their clothes are unisex) so guys & girls, what are you waiting?----waiting the sale to comes out----

some of my wishlist from nikicio

shop it here : Exaggerated Cult Sweater

shop it here : Skull T-Shirt Back

Actually i am not really ready for writing a post, because i don’t have a stock photo or anything, the picture above i took it from my instagram ( the only social media that i always used), i promise in the next post will be a lot better than this with more helpful article--- here it comes the end of this post, see you all really soon guys!

xx Harris

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PHOTO DIARY : BALI 2016

Pantai Kelating while sunset

Pantai Kelating view via Alila Villa Soori 

Pantai Kelating’s black sand  ( tees : comme des garçons play, shorts : giordano, sandals : flipflop)

my sister chasing the waves at Kelating beach

me woken up by the sun shine (p.s that’s not a pond but our private pool!)

my parents view from their rooms ( we’re in separate rooms, me accompanied by my sister :D)

headed to lunch ( tees : come des garçons play, sunglasses : @loonystore on instagram)

watching sunsets ( you can’t see it because it’s black and white, sorry guys!) ( cap : @popculine on instagram)

foods and drinks in here are so damn good! shout out to Alila Villa Soori staffs  ( their mango lassi and chicken avocado burger are da bomb!)

me wearing nikicio tees and converse cap

last time dipping in the pool, but first ootd shoot ;) ( sandals : flipflop, tank : h&m, sunglasses : @loonystore via instagram)

last outfit before headed up back to where i belong, ahaha ( tees : h&m, it’s linen and suitable for super-sunny bali weather, shorts : thrifted, sandals : flipflop)

visiting hurley store before catching my flight, another new tees and caps added to my wardrobe, oops

so, that’s it guys, i’m so thrilled and wishing i could get back to bali and of course to all villa sorri too, their hospitality are on totally on point!

xx Harris

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Naked As We Came

How’s your day? i hope it’s all runs well as you all wish, finally back since the last post was on december. i’ve been struggling with lots of things from school,love-life and any other things. As this post titled with iron&wine song;one of my fave band/singer/or what? ahaha, i just want to talk we are all as a human being, why are we being racist, selfish, and rude to other people while other people do good to you? of course me as a human being owned that negative-sided but i don’t really want to focusing myself on that side. this past two months has been so amazing twisted with unwell feeling, on may i’ve finally graduated from high school, yeah i’m very overwhelmed because those tasks and tests are finally over but i have to continue to senior high school, i thought it’ll be easy but it’s not, to get accept to a shs that i want there are a lot of steps (in indonesia), maybe it’s easier for you out there  in other side of  the world to get accept in shs. until now, right fucking now i haven’t schooled yet while my other friend has been schooled and learning in their new school, there are a lot of reasons “why, i haven’t schooled yet” that i can’t explain to you all. all i can see are ,there are a lot of people that wants to take all of your great opportunity and also there are a lot of people that will happy if you’re down or in a bad position(s), but you all has been known that karma is alive!, what goes up must be comes down too, i believed that God has been saving a good place and also other great opportunity for me, but me as a person, i like fair play in any games and i don’t like to dragged people just for my own happiness or my personal benefitt, so you all have to learn how to treat other people and learn how to become a better person ( and it’s a lesson for my own self too! :) ), but this past two months has been amazing too, i can spend a lot of my time to prep my meal by my own self,picking my fave fruits and veggies and cooked ‘em all became my meal for breakfast to dinner , and also running ( i run almost everyday, but i just started running just this past few weeks :D ) , and doing crafty things also saving money (because i rarely go out ;p), when i go out usually i spend it all with my cousins who visited me in bandung and spending my time being that “photographer” (because that’s my side job besides being a student ;D), i also several times meeting my best friend, Zahra and also some of her friends to shoot together at some places, i love to surrounding myself with a new friends and also a good company, one of them is Zahra, she’s like the best partner i could ever ask for, we’re in a different school, rarely chat but you know... when two people are connected you don’t need to do all ‘that’ stuffs everyday. :D .... so i think that’s all i can tell to you all right now.. just want to tell you all we are human, it is okay to meltdown, but please do not unpack all of your things and feelings in your sadness... if you need to cry, cry it out loud and then focused again to where you are going to headed..

xx Harris

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What I Bought From : Sociolla.com

About a week ago, i received an e-mail and its from an unknown email address, when i opened it it’s a free voucher! i thought it was a voucher for shopping in zalora.com or any others online shopping website that sells clothes, but it’s not.

The e-mail said that the voucher is for sociolla.com, i’ve heard about this web from the internet, this web sell make up and skin care stuffs. i’m kinda confused , “what will i buy?” that question popped in my head, and as a guy i don't really used a lot of skin care, usually i just used face wash and body shop tea tree oil. 

I also don’t usually buy skin care stuffs on the internet, but when i searched testimonials about sociolla, they  wrote a really good reviews about this web, so i decided to bought all of these stuffs ( in the image), they came in a really pretty pink box and wrapped in bubble wrap.

1. REDWIN COCOA & SHEA BUTTER BODY CREAM 75ml ( sold out )

i used this when i’m about to go to sleep, i only used this on my knees and elbow because they’re having a dark spot and i want to brighten and soften that area.

2. BODY SHOP TEA TREE OIL TONER 60ml ( buy )

3. BODY SHOP ALOE NIGHT CREAM 50ml ( buy )

4. ETUDE PETIT BIJOU ALL OVER SPRAY ( buy )

i sprayed this on my pillow and blanket before i sleep, because this spray smells so good like a fresh showered baby!

6. COTTAGE BODY WASH IN CARAMEL 50ml ( sold out )

7. COTTAGE BODY WASH IN OCEAN BLOSSOM 50ml ( buy )

Sociolla’s customer service is the best i could say, because they’re really fast  at responding to their customers messages, so don’t hesitate to shop on sociolla.com

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Daily Wear

Talking about what i wear, first thing that popped in my mind is something that i wear should be comfortable, but being comfortable doesn’t mean that you can’t be cool,it’s all about how you mixed and matched the clothes that you’re going to wear.

Recently, i am really into a monochrome or earth color palette and also layering.

and the second thing is, it doesn’t have to be expensive to be stylish, because i’m a student, of course i have to find the cheapest ones, and now i am really into the local brand, since local brands served so many choices and also served low-cost price.

my current favorite outfit combo is, rolled up chino, clean kicks, tucked in t-shirt and bomber jacket.

---- actually, since i told you all that i’ve been installed wifi in my home, i said that i will upload content more often, but my only hitch is the school task, now is the last year of my high school, so i have to do school-related stuffs first. if i had a free time, i’ll upload as much as i can. (in the next post, i will give you a guide how to shop smartly and i’ll give you a list of my favorites local brands).

( t-shirt asgoodsupplyco / bomber new look, smillar here / pants thrifted / kicks nike, smillar here )

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10 Gospels That You Should Own

Been way too long absence from blogging, even though every time i blogged something not all of them are useful (hahaha), previous days ago i just installed a wifi in my home, i hope that i could upload blogging content often. there’s no any pictures for this time, soon i’ll update content with pictures! stay tuned.

- Today i want to share a gospel that you all should owned

1 / if it feels not right, don’t do it

sometimes that we’re all feeling dilemma for doing something, if you think what you do isn’t right, stop doing it but if you still want to do it, make it work.

2/ trust your own self

if you’ve been chosen your decision, don’t let anyone make you changed it.

3/ don’t ask too many help from people

if you can do it by your own, don’t be a people pleaser.

4/ stay away from negativity

there’s no space for negativity in our minds, just think positively! negative thinking makes you feeling stressed, stressed can caused so many disease though.

5/ don’t be afraid to said yes or no

sometimes there’s a time that we feel between want to say yes or no to something, first thing first is that you should understanding the problem that you’ve been through, if you understand you will know what to say.

6/ fight for what you want

7/ don’t care too much what people say

as long you’re doing something good, don’t be afraid to get judged. “ do what you want to do, people will judged anyway” quote said.

8/ let go of what you can’t control

9/ say exactly what you mean

be honest to your self and everybody, once you lied, you’ll be hard to earn trust from people.

10/ Never give up on you dreams

“everything you imagine is real” pablo picasso said. but to chase your dream you’ve to work hard, anything will never happened if you don’t work for it.

* i know that this gospels are just ordinary, but there’s still plenty of people that can’t work this out.

[againstpleasure-blog]

Well, hello everyone!

I am Harris as you known (or you’ve been reading my description on the “about” page hehe), i am starting to write again on blog (fyi : this is my third blog on tumblr), usually my tumblr page filled with random things like reblog-ing pictures, writing my random thoughts (love,life,foods,fashion,etc), and now i want to filled my blog with a worthy things, and i’ll try my best to use proper grammar, ( i know i’m a sucker for grammatical thingy), I am really open for critics, about my fashion taste, my works in photography, and of course my grammars, you can contact me on contact page.

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