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When in Silang, visit Tagaytay





who goes to Silang and not visit Tagaytay?
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Miracle in Cell No. 7 Father's Day 2023


Father's Day 2023 is so special. I finally got to talk to my dad about everything, the questions that were not answered for so long, we talked about the pain he caused me, my sister, and my mom. He apologized and he recognized what he did. He is not a perfect dad but I've never doubted his love for me.
mag bubuhat na ako ng bangko; he is lucky to have understanding daughters. My sister and I, our bond is so strong, we always talk about our problems even though it is not in my nature to talk about my feelings I've come to learn that it is healthy and sometimes the only thing that could save a lot of relationships in my life.
This was also the day when my father recognized that he had a lesbian daughter. I remember it so vividly, he was on a video call with his close friend and his close friend noticed my nose piercings
"alam mo ba the girls who have those are gay" "Well, she is gay, she's a lesbian. My daughter's a lesbian."
my father would always ask me if I have a boyfriend every time we see each other and that is after I came out to him as a lesbian. I cry to my friends about that. Hearing him admit and recognize that he has a lesbian daughter was such a big deal for me. I know I might appear unapologetically myself and that I don't give a fuck about what anyone might say about my sexuality, but hearing my dad say I'm a lesbian was so special to me.



So, if you're not okay with your relationships with people, talk about it. It took us 1 drinking session to fix our issues.
++ He's not the only lucky one here. Understanding daughters would've gone nowhere without the father who's ready to admit his mistakes and apologize for the things he did.
Talking about your problems with people would not always work if the other party is not ready. But then again, at least you tried.
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