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this website needs an option for “only mutuals can reblog this post” and it needs it yesterday

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"Well, if it is a work in progress, can I just ask when the fuck is Guido arriving on the stage, please?"

INTERVIEW WITH THE VAMPIRE (2024) 2.06 – Like the Light by Which God Made the World Before He Made Light

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Don’t spend too much time with your family tomorrow we still need you here to post ok?

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are you guys ready

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Silco's pure, panting glee when vander finally starts to fight back is genuinely an insane thing to put in a show. And they're "Brothers"

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Stop saying “there are plenty of fish in the sea”. I’ve got my eye on one specific, emotionally distant salmon with commitment issues

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oh you're pro shipping? kind of problematic when taking into consideration the issues of climate change and economic imperialism in global trade

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You know what people don’t talk about often enough? Playing catch up in life after spending your teens or early 20s suicidally depressed. There’s so many more layers than just being able to say “I don’t want to die anymore.”

The difficulty in academia or a career after spending years thinking you wouldn’t be alive long enough for any of it to matter.

The exhaustion that comes from self awareness and self soothing, with the constant voice in your head saying “don’t go backwards.”

How lonely it is to watch the people your age starting families when you’re just barely learning what stable relationships are, and the sudden societal pressure of being “up against a clock” for these kinds of things.

The judgement from others if you change your image or interests this late in the game just because you finally figured out who you really are under the demons.

Be kind to those who are developing and blooming after years of not planning on being here long. We are living a life we absolutely didn’t think we’d have, and it’s hard enough without society reminding us there’s expectations of our age.

We didn’t get to be young; we were too busy fighting battles few know.

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airplane tickets should be free if you have internet friends you reaaaaaaally want to hang out with

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Sexy faggotses

WHYY IS HOMOSEXUAL GOLLUM IN MY INBOX

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Feeling incredibly sick and angry about everything. I’ll go about my day and try to be normal and then it just ambushes me and honestly the only people keeping me sane rn are the Arabs who’ve voiced similar experiences and are staying the course and being vocal despite all the attempts to basically blame everything that’s wrong with this country on us

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Amal (@/amalashuor) & her husband started off their week being woken up after the tide rose high enough to flood their tent, dragging out not just most of their belongings, and themselves into the cold sea, but their little 2yo girl Maryam too

Luckily all 3 of them are okay, but their tent is gone, their few belongings necessary for survival too (i.e., blankets, clothes). It's cold and its just gonna get colder, so please pitch in what you can to help. No donation is too small or meaningless in any way, especially right now. It'll go a long way in helping them get emergency supplies to survive the coming winter & keep their daughter warm & fed.

Amal's a fucking incredible, lovely person who's been put through a lot and survived, but right now she really needs our help

Please help out however you can 🙏

DONATE HERE // (vetted here, #175)

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*through gritted teeth* every day i choose to be kind *barely restraining myself from violence* i choose to have compassion *tamping down the vicious bloodlust inside me* i choose to care and to be kind and to love

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*through gritted teeth* every day i choose to be kind *barely restraining myself from violence* i choose to have compassion *tamping down the vicious bloodlust inside me* i choose to care and to be kind and to love

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*through gritted teeth* every day i choose to be kind *barely restraining myself from violence* i choose to have compassion *tamping down the vicious bloodlust inside me* i choose to care and to be kind and to love

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hello kinky people in my phone, please read

this is a gentle but very sincere request to please start taking COVID seriously again if you've stopped doing so. you have the power to protect yourself and the most vulnerable members of our community.

in the US, about 1 in 10 adults report having long COVID. 79% of these people say it affects their daily activities. earlier data has suggested that trans and disabled people are most likely to have long COVID, at 11% and 12%, respectively. (source)

i have been slacking off but i can't take the cognitive dissonance anymore. taking any amount of increased precautions is a step in the right direction, but here are some actions i am personally (re)committing to:

wearing a mask (KN95 or better) at ALL times outside the house in indoor & crowded outdoor spaces—this means no dining out. (find a mask bloc near you if you can't afford high-quality masks)

being aware of the high false negative rate for at-home tests; testing twice 48 hours apart to increase accuracy if i must use them, but preferably getting a NAAT test done instead

having serious conversations about COVID with my friends, sharing the precautions i'm taking & encouraging them to do the same

masking around people i don't know the precautions of, or who don't take sufficient precautions for my risk tolerance, unless they've reliably tested negative beforehand

using a sip valve to drink when masked

using CPC mouthwash & iota-carageenan nasal spray regularly eh, turns out evidence for these is really not sufficient for me to be recommending it, please disregard that. see this article for more info.

i understand it is frustrating, exhausting, and isolating to be living under these conditions. i'm especially sad to give up being part of my local kink scene in the same capacity. but i truly feel this is the right thing to do and i'm hoping to find covid-safer ways to engage in kink. i'm posting this here because deciding to make these changes has been extremely stressful and lonely, and i'd like to feel less alone and spark some positive change if i can.

please help keep our community safe <3