actuallynobutwhynot

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I ❤️ bitching and moaning

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I know this might make people mad, but absolutely refusing to even attempt to treat your mental illness, and instead just endlessly inflicting your unmitigated episodes on the people around you, is abusive. Your loved ones are not stress toys that you can just squeeze every time you feel bad. It is bad if someone says your repeated behavior is hurting them, and you take no steps to change. I know damn well that you can’t always help how your brain acts, but I’ve also spent a lot of years trying to stop my spiraling brain in its tracks, work on strategies to calm down, and consider the impact I’m having on others, because I grew up in a household with people who have the attitude of, “I have the right to consume all the attention in the house and drain your energy every single day because I feel miserable, and you’re the bad guy if you say that I’m making you feel bad and that I need to get help. I can treat you however I want because of my anxiety.”

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Let’s goooooooo

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elijah wood as bacchus at 2004 mardi gras. if you care

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hamster under the fridge

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they put his ass in the high guard recruitment posters 😭🙏

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beanie baby dragon is crossing your dash

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the anon button isn’t for hate, it’s for sending cute messages to your mutuals that you are too embarrassed to send in as yourself.

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Starscream, fetch!

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Hello what do you think of my evil otp Horseless Headless Horseman x Merasmus

MANY ARE SAYING THIS!! I'm just here for Merasmus getting ANY dick thrown her way she deserves it after all she's been through

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me, in tears, desperately trying to recommend transformers to everyone i know because of the amount of well written canonically gay characters but no one listens to me because they’re all robots that turn into cars and they think its for little boys

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just cat-sat for my friend for five days and well, new kinsey scale just dropped i’m a 1.5

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why would you like media that is good if you can like media that is bad instead and pace around your room like an insane person thinking about What If It Was Good

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i need more medieval yaoi