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love is the most important thing ever

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"not all men" you're right. Jesus Christ of Nazareth, the son of God, would never treat me like this

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Mleeehhh

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I wonder if people on the ace and aro spectra have weirder "Hear Me Outs" than allo people...

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There are so many people who are obsessed with their identities and base them on ever-changing desires, feelings, and trends. It is reassuring to know that Jesus has provided those who accept Him a solid, firm foundation for our identity. We don’t need to rely on unstable feelings, or fixating on our gender, or picking out which political party seems morally correct, or letting our disabilities and illnesses define us, or considering our past sins and mistakes as the most important part of ourselves, or anything else to know who we are.

We know we are children of a loving, unchanging God. Our identity is in Him, not the world.

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every so often, i think, and it might be so selfish of me, but i crave to be someone's first choice. i want to be the person that someone sees fun things to do and their first thought is to ask me to go with them. i want someone to be willing to inconvenience themselves a little bit sometimes for me as i would do for them. i want to be looked at in a list of people and to have someone pick me out of all of them. i want to be held at the same level as a romantic partner in terms of effort and closeness. i want someone to want me as much as i want them, even though it's not in a romantic sense. i want to be important to someone.

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can i request something please — an asexual reader x lnds boys... like, the game has some sexual undertones which i dont mind (im ace too) but still 👉👈 I'd like to read how they would react

LaDs HCs:

When you’re asexual

Hey Lux! 🩷🦄

Welcome to my ask-Box and thank you for your request 🥰

I did some research before I decided to accept it. I’m not very familiar with every aspect or term of sexuality in general, so I wanted to make sure to understand your ask to its fullest.

And as I informed myself about what the term asexuality really means, I wanted to try to write about it. As someone who sometimes struggle with sexual intimacy herself due to various reasons (I wouldn’t consider myself ace though), I wanted to give it a try.

So I hope I‘ve done your ask justice and that I didn’t interpret it wrong 🩷

The LGBTQ Center from the the University of North Carolina at chapel hill:

Asexual – A term used to describe someone who does not experience sexual attraction toward individuals of any gender. Asexuality is a sexual orientation, and is different from celibacy, in that celibacy is the choice to refrain from engaging in sexual behaviors and does not comment on one’s sexual attractions. An asexual individual may choose to engage in sexual behaviors for various reasons even while not experiencing sexual attraction. Asexuality is an identity and sexual orientation; it is not a medical condition. Sexual attraction is not necessary for a person to be healthy.

As your relationship with him progresses you get more and more anxious because the closer both of you get, the more physical intimacy approaches. And it’s not that you don’t have feelings for him, you just don’t need to express your love that way. For you, love comes without the need to unite your body and so you realize that you need to talk about it.

Zayne

As a doctor, Zayne understands where you’re coming from. In his career, he often meets patients with an asexual orientation

He sits down with you on the sofa in his apartment and as he holds you in his embrace he asks you how you feel about it

He wants to know your boundaries, which intimacy is fine with you and which you don’t want

Zayne wants you to feel comfortable around him. Knowing what you like and don’t like and how far with intimacy you want to go, sets him at ease.

Because after all, he just wants to be with you, no matter if you’re doing “it” or not, and communicating your needs is elementary for this

Rafayel

Is a bit confused at first and needs to be explained what this means

After searching up the term and your explanations, he fully understands and supports you

He takes your hand in his and assures you that there is no need for him to be with you in that way.

Just spending time with him, holding hands, and don’t forget about him is all that matters to him

He will never do anything that you’re not comfortable with because you’re his most precious pearl in the entire ocean

Xavier

After you tell him that you’re ace he holds his chin, saying nothing for a few minutes and processing that information

After some consideration, you get his best innocent blue eyes bunny look

And he asks you if cuddles and nap times together are still a thing or if he needs to abstain from this

With a laugh, you assure him that this is alright, and you are immediately pulled onto his beanie chair for a cuddly nap

Murmuring he tells you that he loves you in every way and he‘ll never leave you again

Sylus

Isn’t surprised at all, to be honest, he just waited for you to tell him that you’re ace. He watched over you for so long, that he already acknowledged your asexuality

And as flirty and bold as he is often with you, he assures you that you don’t need to be afraid of him

He would never do anything to harm you or to scare you away

And there are other ways to show how much he adores you and to cherish your body

He doesn’t have this black card for no reason… he plans to spoil you rotten so you always know that you’re loved even without physical interactions and touches

In the end, there is no love purer than his…

Mentioning List: @blaire-apricity - @homurasturtle - @ayumi-darling

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Reblog if you're asexual and tired

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ACE CHARACTER?!?!?!

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“My heart skips a beat when I see you” heart defect get that checked

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Elements

💛🧡🤍💙

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its ace awareness week

if you're ace im aware of you

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ACE WEEK COMIC...01!!

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well i want someone to talk to 24/7 to drag around and go places with me and maybe it’s codependency mixed with desire but i just want someone to stick with me for life