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dont understand people who "don't like" valentines day... I personally dgaf that its "made up" and "commercialist"... i love heart shaped things and i love everyone in my life. Its really simple

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Was scrolling through AO3 and found this gem

Enemy to parent is a trope we have to popularise lmao

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Ace culture is spending years thinking that the word "hot" just meant "conventionally attractive"

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*gold arrow whistles past, THUNKS into a tree behind me*

me: heh, cupid? more like stu- *lead arrow grazes my shoulder*

me, rubbing shoulder: ok, ow

*diamond arrow of ambiguous feelings knocks me flat on my ass*

me, scrambling into cover: OK OK I GIVE UP SORRY GEEZ

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Here lies AKHTS. She never scored.

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My chemical friendship :)

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mfs be like "are you single or taken" and like technically im single but that implies that im availible, which i most definitely am not so yes im taken. im taken by me. you cant have me.

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Who wants some aroace marshmallow?

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Im a big fan of love triangles without the love

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Why is it when there IS Aromantic or Asexual representation in media, it’s almost always AroAce and not Ace with no Aro or even less common, Aro with no Ace? Like c’mon, just give us some more nuance other than “I would rather die than come into contact with another human being.”

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Ppl will say being AroAce is boring but personally I think the fact that I'm not like a majority of people and have a different experience of the world than them makes me rather unique and interesting.

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If you identify as asexual and Christian, check out this survey! It's for a book about asexuality and Christianity which I don't think is a topic that exists yet and is definitely needed. Please also share this with people who might be interested, the author currently has 10 interviews and would like to get to 50 by the middle of March 2025.

https://docs.google.com/.../1FAIpQLSfhPuv6wbMduX.../viewform

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i dont "ship" anything i just understand .

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"Why is all aspec representation in media AROACE rep?" and is the aroace rep in the room with us right now?

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Looking for a young adult book for the new year? Try Recipe for Confidence!

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It depends on the anime for me. If it’s just a bit of fan service, I can tune it out. But there are many I avoid watching because it is too much. I also have issues picking new anime to watch due to Crunchyroll no longer having comments and ratings so I can’t see if there is fan service ahead of time. It really does suck being into anime at times.

It's so hard being an anime fan sometimes bc of how pervy it is. Like, in my top 5 is My Dress Up Darling. I'm a cosplayer and I have basically the same personality as Marin. She's such a silly goober and I am such a nerd for all the cosplay minutia. This is the comfort show I watch when I'm sad or just need some cute romcom vibes.

BUT I TRY SHOWING THIS TO MY BEST FRIENDS AND THEY ARE LIKE "WTF THIS SHOW IS SO HORNY". Like, I know but I'm ace and largely ignore that BS in favor of Marin being my little silly.

Or I'm talking about TGCF and my friends are like "oh, its those horny Chinese men I keep seeing having sex all over my dash" and I'm like "NO. LET ME TALK ABOUT MY WHOLESOME GIRL FAILURE OF A MAN, XIE LIAN, AND HOW MUCH HIS BOYFRIEND LOVES HIM".

Like, is it just bc I'm ace that I tone all that shit out? Is that normal? I just get so invested I don't notice it.