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BBQ Ranch Pasta Salad

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Pullin' Me Back

Chingy ft. Tyrese

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A Perfect Friday Night. 💜🖤

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How to Mentally Glow Up in 2025: The Year of You

Let’s be real… 2025 is your time to shine, but not just on the outside. The real glow-up? It happens in your mind. A sharp, healthy, vibrant mentality isn’t just a flex—it’s the foundation for the best version of you. So buckle up, because we’re diving deep into how you can mentally glow up and take over the world (or at least your corner of it).

1. Purge the Mental Clutter

Imagine your mind as your room—would you want to hang out in there? If the answer is no, it’s time to declutter. Here’s how:

• Start journaling: Write down every negative thought, lingering insecurity, or limiting belief. Put it all out there. Then, reflect on how those thoughts are serving (or sabotaging) you.

• Practice forgiveness: Let go of grudges, even if it’s just for your own peace. Write letters you’ll never send or say “I forgive you” out loud to the universe.

• Create a “mental donation box”: Just like you’d donate old clothes, decide what thoughts and habits no longer fit the person you’re becoming. Release them.

Create a new life by creating a better, more mindful space of mind.

2. Curate Your Input

What you consume shapes who you are, so curate it like your personal Pinterest board.

• Social media: Follow accounts that inspire, teach, or make you laugh. Unfollow the ones that make you feel drained or insecure.

• Conversations: Surround yourself with people who add value to your life��those who uplift, motivate, and challenge you. Let go of energy vampires.

• Entertainment: Watch shows, read books, and listen to podcasts that expand your perspective. Make every scroll and screen time session intentional.

Your input should be a reflection of the person you’re becoming, not the person you’ve outgrown.

3. Romanticize Routine

Stop treating your daily life like a chore. Instead, make it a vibe:

• Morning rituals: Light a candle, put on a playlist, and make your coffee like you’re starring in a cinematic masterpiece.

• Self-care: Don’t just slap on moisturizer—massage it in while reminding yourself how stunning you are.

• Work: Set up your space with little touches that spark joy (a cute mug, fresh flowers, or a diffuser). Even your to-do list can look aesthetic with some color coding.

When you find beauty in the mundane, everything feels magical.

4. Invest in Self-Awareness

True growth starts with knowing yourself. Here’s how to dig deep:

• Meditation: Start with 5 minutes a day. You don’t need to be a pro—just sit quietly, breathe, and observe your thoughts without judgment.

• Journaling prompts: Explore questions like, What do I truly want? What am I afraid of? What brings me joy?

• Therapy: If it’s accessible to you, therapy is a game-changer. Having someone guide you through your thoughts can unlock levels of understanding you didn’t know you needed.

• Personality tools: Whether it’s Myers-Briggs, Enneagram, or astrology, these can give you insights into how you think and feel.

Self-awareness is like upgrading to 4K resolution—you start seeing everything clearly.

5. Embrace the “Soft Hustle”

We’re leaving grind culture in the past. The glow-up isn’t about working 24/7; it’s about aligning with your passions and values.

• Set “aligned” goals: Instead of chasing what society tells you to, ask yourself, What do I actually care about? Then focus on that.

• Prioritize rest: Rest is productive. Schedule downtime like you would an important meeting.

• Celebrate progress: Even baby steps count. Write down your wins, no matter how small, and acknowledge your growth.

Remember, working smarter doesn’t mean you’re slacking—it means you’re evolving.

6. Surround Yourself with Expanders

You’re the average of the five people you spend the most time with, so choose wisely.

• Look for expanders: These are people who’ve done what you want to do, inspire you, or challenge you to grow.

• Create boundaries: If someone’s energy feels draining or toxic, it’s okay to step back. Protecting your peace isn’t selfish; it’s essential.

• Join communities: Whether it’s online or in person, connect with like-minded people who support your goals.

You deserve to be in spaces where your growth is celebrated, not diminished.

7. Celebrate the Small Wins

Progress isn’t always flashy, and that’s okay. Here’s how to make every step feel like a victory:

• Keep a “wins” journal: Write down something you’re proud of every day, no matter how small.

• Reward yourself: Finished a tough task? Treat yourself to your favorite snack or an episode of that show you love.

• Practice gratitude: Every time you achieve something, even if it feels minor, pause and thank yourself for showing up.

Success is built on the little moments, so don’t overlook them.

8. Rewrite Your Narrative

Your story is yours, and 2025 is the year you take the pen back.

• Shift your mindset: Instead of saying, “I’m behind,” say, “I’m exactly where I need to be.”

• Create affirmations: Write down empowering statements like, I am capable. I am resilient. I am becoming the best version of myself.

• Visualize your future: Spend a few minutes each day imagining the life you want. Picture every detail… the sights, sounds, and feelings. Then take one small step toward it every day.

You’re not stuck, you’re just starting. And the best part? You get to decide how the story unfolds.

2025 is the year of you. Glow up mentally, and everything else will follow. You’ve got this. Now go out there and shine so bright that even your past self is inspired. ✨

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The Zero's Journey

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Poetry Comics Month, Day 1: Circle

The theme of this year's Poetry Comics Month is "Experimentation." Throughout November I'll be posting daily comics that expand the boundaries of what a poem can be.

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Poetry Comics Month, Day 3: Story

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