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Respawning: A Full Rundown

There were some recent discussions about respawning in the loa community and as someone who's been in the shifting community for years, I figured I could shed some light on what it is, how to do it, common misconceptions, etc! This post should go over most of your questions but if there's anything else you're confused or worried about, do let me know!

What is Respawning?

Respawning, not to be confused with permashifting, is when someone shifts to another reality and severs their connection to their CR (current reality). This means that this person will not be able to shift their awareness back to that reality.

So, say someone is currently aware of Reality 1 but they want to respawn to Reality 2. Once they respawn, they won't be able to shift back to Reality 1. Making sense so far? Great!

Fears and Worries

After shifting got popular a few years ago, a lot of people had some fears around the whole thing. People especially were very nervous about permashifting and respawning and as such, they both got a pretty bad rep.

I want to make it very clear that you do not need to die/commit to respawn. This is an extremely limiting belief that quite frankly, is also dangerous when people believe it. There are so many other ways to respawn, you do not need to die. So, without further ado:

How do you Respawn?

Respawning is very similar to shifting just with an added step! So there's no need to complicate it. You can respawn the same way that you shift! However, since respawning is the added act of severing your connection, here are some ways to go about that specifically:

1. Erasing your memories.

This should be fairly straightforward. You can either script or intend that once you shift to your desired reality, you'll simply forget about your CR. You can also forget that you shifted there in the first place if you want!

2. Visualizing a "thread"

You can do this whenever you want, some people will go into the void or a lucid dream first, but you don't have to. Simply visualize a string/thread that connects you (aka your consciousness) and your CR together. Then visualize cutting/burning/just generally destroying this thread! This can be done before and/or after shifting to your desired reality.

3. Scripting

Simply script that you can never shift back to your CR!

4. Intention

Simply set the intention that you can never shift back!

Quite honestly, I don't want to talk about how to respawn through death. It's not necessary and I don't recommend it. I understand not wanting your clone to go through the same thing, trust me, I do. I've been there. But I want you to really take a deep breath and think. There are always other options. Which leads me to:

What about my clone?

Majority of the time when people do consider respawning through death it's because they believe a clone will still exist in the reality they're leaving. They're afraid that this version of them will still have to go through whatever they're currently going through. They want a quick way to leave and, most importantly, a quick way of ensuring they can no longer be hurt.

I want to assure you that I understand this fear very personally, and that's why I feel confident in telling you that this fear is not necessary. It's okay to feel it, but you do not have to act on it.

If you are considering respawning through death, I want you to read these next paragraphs very clearly, with an open heart and mind.

After respawning, you can still change things in your OR through manifestation, scripting, and/or intention. Think about the life you want for yourself there. It can be a better version of that life or something completely different. You can give yourself a completely new life, with new family, friends, circumstances, etc. In my opinion, this is one of the best ways to respawn and still ensure a good life for the you there.

That being said, sometimes just changing your OR-self's life doesn't feel like enough. So instead, change the whole world. You can change key issues or turn it into your favorite movie. The world is your canvas! Give yourself the life you want.

Regardless of how you go about it, the main thing I want you to take away is that there will always be a better option. An option that is kinder to you, an option that gives you hope, an option that brings light to the darkness you've endured. I understand wanting to just throw everything away, but I want you to know that you can do that and give your OR-self a good life. You don't have to deal with death at all.

Be gentle with yourself. Think about the hopes and dreams you have or used to have. Think about the perfect life and give it to your OR-self. Knowing you can change everything is power. Understand and respect the power and knowledge inside you and use it to treat yourself with the kindness and grace you should've been afforded your whole life.

Common Misconceptions

Permashifting and respawning are the same thing.

Nope! I understand the confusion, however, they are different. If you haven't already, now would be the time to click on that link at the beginning of the post!

Your body has to die for you to respawn.

This isn't a video game! You do not have to die. And if you keep telling people that, what exactly do you think will happen? People will still want to respawn and now they think they have to die? Bro please, have some common sense. Respawning does not equal death, at least not in terms of shifting.

Respawning is painful/traumatic.

No! Absolutely not. All of the "methods" I listed above are completely pain and stress-free. Don't worry so much.

Respawning is harder than shifting.

Nope! It's literally just shifting but with the added intent of never coming back. Why would that be harder?

All people who respawn are suicidal.

No.

People who respawn are selfish.

No. You guys need to understand that sometimes people are born into realities that are real shitty. It's not selfish to want a better life and it's not selfish to leave one reality forever.

There are some other misconceptions but I think these are the most important and frequent ones!

Why would someone respawn?

Good question! Like I said in that last point, sometimes people are currently aware of very shitty realities. Honestly, I don't think I need to list all the horrible things that people can go through here. People respawn for literally any reason but a lot of times, they're doing it because it's an option that will let them live safely and happily. Most people have an emotional connection to their CR and may find it hard to just permashift because they know they might be tempted to come back. And that's certainly not a bad thing, but depending on their life there, it can be like going back to that ex that cheated on you five times and stole your money. Not great.

At the end of the day, what someone does with their shifting journey is up to them. And constantly judging people for something that is not inherently dangerous, and was only spread as such because people were uneducated and fearful of it, is just not great all around. No one needs to explain to you why they want to respawn. It's a big decision and if someone made it they've definitely thought it through.

One last time before I end this post, you do not need to die to respawn. I know I've said it multiple times now but it's important for people to understand this. Constantly saying this just because you heard it somewhere else and got scared is not great! Please remember how powerful you are. You do not need to do anything in order to shift, permashift, or respawn.

Alright! I think that's it? Again, if you have any further questions just let me know. Respawning is pretty simple and so is actually doing it. But definitely make sure you're in the right headspace while making this kind of decision and don't rush it.

[abbisfazbear]

love this

I remember during puberty talk in 6th grade they handed out permission slips for parents to sign if they didn’t want their kids getting sex ed and like five students ended up having to wait in the library while the rest of us learned about puberty and health stuff.

Afterwards during lunch recess almost everyone in class spent our time telling those five kids what we learned and showing them our handouts.

[abbisfazbear]

[abbisfazbear]

Stop Procrastinating Shifting Nah, you're not "waiting for the right time", you're just avoiding your own power and I love you, but get the fuck up and do something. We are all out here saying we want to shift. We believe in it (more or less for some people). We yearn and dream about or DR, about that hot looking, successful and potentially emotionally stable version of ourselves. But lets take a look at what we are actually doing a lot of times. Scrolling through shifting posts.... again. Because we haven't done that the last few days, huh? Re-reading the same LoA post hoping it hits a bit different this time (it doesn't). Shuffling unnecessary shit around in our scripts, because changing where the "About Me" section is will unlock the cheat code to the multiverse somehow. Telling ourselves "I'll do it tonight if the vibes feel right". And then we fall asleep before we get the second affirmation out because we pushed back sleeping and trying for 4 hours at this point. Busted, huh? When we are constantly doing that, we are neither manifesting nor shifting, we are just mentally pacing in circles like a neurotic racoon. This isn't preparing... it's procrastinating. I say this with all the love I can come up with after only 4 hours of sleep: There is no perfect attempt. You just need to fucking start doing something. The chances you will shift by only tweaking your script over and over and over again, waiting for something to happen, are rather low. The chances you will wake up one day and say "Yes! I have been enlightened and now I am ready!" in regards to shifting are also low. Because you are already ready! You have been from the moment you got the definition of shifting thrown your way. I think most of us are just scared to fuck it up and "fail". Of course it's sometimes scary to want something so bad it makes us cry and all we can do is manifest and hope for the best. But delaying that shit won't make that scary feeling go away. It just gives doubts more time to invade your thoughts. Can we all agree to drop the thought of needing a 27 step pre shifting routine, stop pretending that we need to be "in the right headspace" while trying to shift and to stop expecting motivation to just suddenly appear like a convenient divine ass-kicking as if it is needed? Yeah? Great. We'll just start anyway. Picking some random fucking method, doesn't matter which one. Saying our affirmations even if we feel like a delusional nutjob. Just.. trying. Doing something, anything really. Even if we suck at focusing or visualizing. Just do it anyway. Showing up and doing something even if it is not perfect is pulling your brain away from being scared of fucking it up. Build that momentum. We shift through starting and doing, not through running away from shifting ^-^

[abbisfazbear]

this is so funny to me 😭

i had a dream i worked in an underwater restaurant and people kept ordering ice in their drinks and then getting mad at me when it would float away. and i’d tell them beforehand that the ice would float away & they’d be like lol no that’s not how it works just give me the ice. I’m fighting customer service battles never seen before

[abbisfazbear]

me every day without fail: I'll do [chore] when I get home

me when I get home:

[abbisfazbear]

[abbisfazbear]

Hey you all know about that fungus that possesses ants to make them climb on the tip of grass blades in hopes of getting eaten by a cow, so that the fungus can continue its life cycle in the cow's guts? Because I think that's the kind of thing that's wrong with cave divers.

We don't know what's down there. We don't know what's gotten into their heads that makes them so determined to physically, personally go down there to find out. But I wouldn't entirely dismiss the possibility that whatever has gotten into them is very invested in getting eaten by whatever is down there.

[abbisfazbear]

I find your lack of whimsy disturbing

[abbisfazbear]

Daily Affirmations

I shift on every try.

I shift unintentionally.

I shift on purpose.

I'm so glad I shifted.

I'm in my desired reality.

I woke up in another reality.

I'm my own god, my own universe.

I control the 3D.

I'm so happy that shifting is so easy.

Repeat this 15 minutes straight per day and I PROMISE you would be there.

[abbisfazbear]

I’m watching Splash (1984) which is a romcom about a guy who falls in love with a mermaid, and when she chooses a human name she chooses Madison and guy says “that’s not a real name, but alright” which seems to imply that Madison was not a name until at least the 80’s and all girls named Madison are actually named after the mermaid. thought you should know

[abbisfazbear]

Shifting is essentially a conscious transition between mental states—akin to deep meditation, lucid dreaming, or self-induced dissociation. Your brain is already capable of generating fully immersive, hyper realistic experiences without external input. Just think of vivid dreams or hallucinations. All of that? Your brain. Not a simulation. Not magic. Just neuroplasticity and brainwave manipulation.

Here’s what happens when you “shift”

• You enter a deep theta or delta state (linked to sleep and subconscious access).

•You detach from the sensory input of your current reality.

•Your imagination becomes your dominant reality and your brain treats imagined scenarios as real, neurologically speaking.

•Repetition and belief rewire neural pathways, making this process easier over time.

Now go shift

[abbisfazbear]

I get to be with my celebrity crush and you don’t 🥰🥰🥰

"shifting isnt real"

ok i get to be a mermaid and you dont

[abbisfazbear]

" ITS BRUTAL OUT HERE " - pick a pile

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hey loves, so because i 1, got new tarot decks, and 2 want to call you guys out, im doing this. also - heads up before i even start - spirit said there's gonna be a pile where there are little/no callouts bc they're actually doing great. just some advice/motivation to keep them going

Hello! Welcome to a pick a pile. This is a general reading, everything should be taken with a grain of salt. Hundreds of people may read this, everything I say in your pile(s) may NOT resonate. Today we don't have questions. we're just going callouts. so prepare yourself, i know some of yall are soft.

along with these questions i will give things that may draw you to your pile. the alice in wonderland tarot has different cards but pretty much the same meaning. dont be shocked if instead of the hanged man i say suspention or something like that. i will be using tarot and oracle cards.

now please take everything with a grain of salt!

breathe in, now out, now pick a pile or two.

pile 1 ; pile 2 ; pile 3

hi pile 1!

confirmation for your pile: lowkey funny, life 'falling apart', consequences for your actions, business man/woman, equality, cycles, bakugou, passion, 'im always right, i know what im saying'

oracle: you are good enough - full moon in virgo

tarot: the hierophant, temptation, 7 of flowers, 5 of spears reversed, 9 of flowers

alright bros, the first thing i have to say is 1, you're not always the cause. bad things happen to good people and i know it sucks but it helps you grow. if only good things happened then you'd probably be boring as hell. i hear some of you guys can be because you cant keep a conversation going. the thing is, you may be a victim MOST OF THE TIME but that doesnt mean ALL THE TIME!! you can be wrong in an argument, you can be right in an argument. but it changes. you're a very driven, smart, confident person in most areas but that doesnt mean because you're the right person to be a firefighter but not a baker. 7 of flowers is saying dont back down from the things you KNOW you are right in, but when someone makes a valid point. take it, it can help you. being passionate is a good thing, but dont be ignorant.

temptation is something thats drawing you in, that one day will be negative. maybe its joining the football team but you'll get a serious injury. do not let anyone or anything tempt you that has high risks for pain in the long run. im not saying dont join that football team, but dont put yourself into situations that wont benifit you in the long run. there's a good and bad to everything. do not fall into or back into negative energies/things that didnt help you before. they sure as hell wont help you now

ngl i have no idea what this pile means during the second part

pile 2

alright so confirmation: tired, faking happiness, evolution, "PUT THOSE GRIPPERS AWAY", hawks, manifestation, abuse, Christmas, MHA, movies, memories, nsfw content, love desire, caring heart, makeup, procrastination, seven deadly sins

oracle: a time for healing - balsamic moon, expect powerful chance - new moon eclipse

tarot: 10 of spears, 7 of flowers, 3 of hedgehogs

so this is the pile whos done mostly nothing wrong. when i say mostly, i mean bc everyones made at least one mistake in their life. ofc theres still a callout. STOP BEATING YOURSELF UP! STOP BELITTLING YOUR PAIN, YOUR TRAUMA, THE THINGS THAT HURT YOU MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY EVERY SINGLE DAY!! let go of the past, its gone. its ending. get over it. that friend isnt coming back, they weren't right for you. let go of the past, accept it, and move forward. thats just some advice.

pile 3

hey pile 3

confirmation: false/negative manifestations, intrusive thoughts, self destructive behavior, gay, peaches (that one song omg), yung gravy, emotions, love, communication or lack of communication, birthdays, parties, celebrations

oracle: believe in the impossible - blue moon

tarot: 2 of cups, 4 of flowers, knight of teacups reversed

okay i got flowers in every pile, anyways this piles energy is of a pair.. two people or two piles? maybe you picked another pile. but its a harmonious pair. you guys may be for a long time, maybe shifting together, maybe you work on a lot of projects together? i heard you guys dont talk much but when you do its fun. you guys are a great pair. hold on to each other. i feel like once this pile overcomes toxic/negative behaviors they will shift. it depends on how fast you get rid of them/start manifesting positively.

change the way you see things, the emotions and reactions you have to things that happen. if you wake up in your cr and not your dr say something like "bro what?? why am i in my cr? thats odd, hasnt been like this before." see everything that happens in a different light. if you think that you saw something that was a sign btw, it was. take it and use it how you think its fit. use your talents, you know you can! practice the fun things you want to do one day. practive makes perfect!! get off your ass and do something. vent through an art form. you dont have to use words. you're doing nothing right now. you NEED to do something, but take a break from stressing yourself. its not helping anything

[abbisfazbear]

Pick a Pile No.1

Welcome to my first Pick a Pile :)

This is a collective reading so it may resonate more for some than others. Take what helps you and leave what doesn’t. 💗

If you’d like a personal reading, I currently have a deal in my shop for a free five song channeled playlist with any purchase of an s/o reading. Check my pinned post for more details.😊

What Advice Will Aid Your Shifting Journey

Choose pile 1, 2, or 3

Take a breath and simply pick the one you feel most drawn to.

(Top left pile 1, top right pile 2, bottom pile 3)

Pile 1

Lyrics standing out:

“You b**** ain’t like me

Dance in the breeze

A man with the sleaze

Stop it, get another topic

I got the nerve

And I block it

You’re a brat

Cause I never repeat

Do what I say like Simon

I’m a VIP

Sorry I’m pretty and easy to hate”

Okay pile 1, I SEE YOU GUYS!!! 💅🏼 This pile is short and sweet because you all know what you need, self aware queens. You all know your power, and as you should. For those of you in this pile who really know your power, own it more, step into it, actually practice it.

It feels like you all know what you need to do and you know you can shift, you’re just being lazy. PUT THE WORK IN. But frl, it seems like you guys really just need to set some time aside to focus on shifting and your DR because you know what to do, you just feel too busy. It’s okay to take a breath. Some of you all in this pile may also be rushing yourself. Allow yourself to accept what your experiencing and just let it flow. It’s already yours, you already have all of your desires.

Overall, pile 1, you guys are baddies whether you know it or not. Step into that power, own it, and use it. Make time for yourself and slow down a little. You don’t have to experience everything at the same time, that’s why you have a life, spend it.

Confirmation: 222, 444, Aquarius, ford mustang, hot pink, purple number 4, Elmo?, Sesame Street, Disney, neon green nails

Pile 2

Lyrics standing out:

“Trying to cover up my face

Try and stay calm

Something missing

I think looks wrong

When pretty isn’t pretty enough

What do you do?

I could change up my body and change up my face

You can win the battle

Insecure

Try to ignore it

I don’t know why I even try (I see the starfish position)

Just feel like sh*** over and over again”

Hi pile 2! You guys are giving me 2020 shiftok vibes. A lot of you probably started to practice shifting around 2019/2020 and were fed a lot of misinformation and now you feel like that is stopping you, but it doesn’t have to, let that go. You are in charge of your own reality so take that misinformation and use it as a learning experience. Don’t be discouraged because it was false or didn’t work for you, that’s good because now you’re one step closer to knowing yourself and what does work for you!

You may be a person that is on social media a lot in general or just hyperaware of others lives and you’re comparing yourself to them. STOP IT. Everyone’s experience is their own. When you see someone else’s success or experience, you don’t know what went down before that. Focus on yourself and what is meant for you, will happen. Accept it and take charge of it. You may be one who relies on others success for your own motivation as well, this is your sign to rely on yourself. Connect with your higher self and trust your intuition.

Keep going pile 2! You guys have put in time and energy this far, what’s a little longer? Your efforts are not in vain. You’ve got this. Trust yourself!

Confirmation: tiktok, iPhone, 13, dodge, dodgers, football, Dallas cowboy cheerleaders, red white & blue, Olympics, gymnastics, toe nails, 12

Pile 3

Lyrics standing out:

“Light headed

For some reason I find myself lost in what you think of me

And too confused who I should be

In a big old world

We’re so alike

When I cross that line

It’s been a point of contention between myself and this body they stuck me in

Am I pretty enough to lie to you

Let me be the void you fill

I am quantum physics

My witness brings me to existence

So I can be your girlfriend boyfriend”

Hello my lovely pile 3! You all feel trapped either in your bodies or just to this reality in general. You have put shifting to your DR on a pedestal or even a part of you doesn’t want to accept that it’s real because you may not feel worthy. Remind yourself that you are constant, flowing energy.

Some of you have been so focused on “finding yourself”, that instead you have used the 3D to define who you are in the 4D. Make the two align.

Try to focus more on the “what” of shifting, instead of the “how”. Feel those connections and emotions you have in your DR. Maybe focus on one in particular that is important to you. Focus on one DR at a time. You have overwhelmed yourself with the thoughts of wanting to shift and being everywhere at once. Take your time and enjoy your CR as well. Shifting is an act and a journey, it’s real life, so make sure you’re still taking care of yourself.

In summary, you are more than your body. You are your thoughts and emotions and your actions, your love and energy you spread. Own that energy and use it for your benefit. Focus on who you are and what it is you want. Try to have a clear idea of that, then connect to it. Once you feel that connection, that’s it. Congratulations it’s now yours. Forget the 3D and just know it’s already yours.

Confirmation: red, Taylor Swift, (Taylor’s version), reputation, Niall Horan, train, Liam Payn, 2222, lock and key, hearts, stars, moon, “go piss girl”, dress to impress

[abbisfazbear]

LITTLE THINGS THAT HELPED ME SHIFT REALITIES

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-> no methods, all about mindset (for shifters who haven’t shifted yet)

Note; I haven’t shifted to my DR, but I have shifted before. It was smooth, it wasn’t desired, but it happened. I do not claim to be an expert, I share my own experiences and what helped me.

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Being scared to shift

Obviously, shifting involves stepping into a place that is unknown, no matter how much you script it, your subconsciousness right now has not experienced it.

Facts to help;

There’s no “OMG I shifted” moment, it’s natural. You have existed in your DR since you were born in that reality. It is just like here, you don’t freak out when you wake up, it’s a smooth and natural process. This is the same for your DR.

Life. Sure, for some perfectionists and paranoid people you might want to think of every single thing that could go wrong and script to avoid it. How have you survived in this reality like this? Exactly. Life will throw all sorts of stuff at you, you’re at an advantage in your DR because of your script, doesn’t mean bad stuff won’t happen, because it will. Life being unpredictable is a constant, take it as such.

Your script isn’t a cage. “What if I fall out of love with him”, break up. Everything is constantly changing, feelings especially. It doesn’t matter, it just happens. It’s not the end of the world if after a couple years in your DR your life is completely different to how you imagine it. It’s like your CR. TAKE THIS AS A CONSTANT

You will always have constants, similarities and the option TO SHIFT BACK. Remember: you are in control

Methods to overcome;

Journaling about why you’re scared is a massive help. This doesn’t have to be physical! There apps such as “Dayol” which are beautiful for journaling. Addressing your fear directly as it is can help overcome it, or learn to live with it.

Work on letting go. Meditation/subliminals to work on mentally preparing and letting go of this reality, being ready to face whatever happens in your DR and remembering that you are always in control.

Create a comfort of day to day routine in your DR. Do not just think about big moments, like you and your S/O’s first kiss, first day of Hogwarts etc. Think about your warm cozy evenings in bed, your school timetable. This is what relates and links this to your CR, those small moments that you cherish wherever you are, can help let go.

Speaking of letting go, let go of the pressure. Be excited, but view it as a small (if any) change in your life. Its natural, it’s fluid and it’s barely a transition

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Get out of the “failing” mindset

“I had a dream about my DR but didn’t shift” “I tried to shift but I just woke up in this reality” When you use asleep methods (or even awake methods and end up falling asleep) if you end up dreaming about your DR (or even if you don’t), it’s a sign that your subconscious is engaged in working towards the goal of being in your desired reality. Do not be demotivated by this, if you can move your mindset to being more positive, you can recognise that dreams can offer a sign of hope, insights and clarity about our DR while within your CR

Your CR is still one of the many realities in the multiverse for you to explore. Treat it as such, yes your DR may be more desired, but there is still so much to do here, to learn, to discover. You’re never stuck in your DR, why would you be stuck here?

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You deserve it, and you can have it

You deserve those drastic changes, being able to do magic, be with those you love and love your dream life.

I feel a lot of shifters have very low self esteem, not knowing if they deserve it but knowing they can have it -> therefore in turn putting their DR on a pedestal.

You deserve it, you can have it there, you can have it here. Stop being so defeatist, confidence.

Confidence;

- KNOWING you will shift, not an “attempt”

- KNOWING you deserve everything

- KNOWING it’s just your life

Look in the mirror, repeat them every day, every time you remember.

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You got this, happy shifting. You will shift.

[abbisfazbear]