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Real Talk

About why cis/straight people think it's ok to take control of LGBT culture in the name of "social justice"? Please let minorities take control of their own culture. It is ok to be an ally but it is not ok to tell people in the LGBT community what they should be fighting for/shouldn't do.

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Is it offensive to tell a trans person they pass well?

Ryn says:

So this really depends on the person. The concept of passing is an odd one, but for some people it’s a goal and should be celebrated. But like the thing to remember is that they are no less trans if they don’t pass. Their identity is still valid regardless. If you know your trans friend is putting a lot of effort into passing, and that is something important to them, then by all means tell them they’re passing well. If not, it could be considered rude. 

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the 2020s are also going to be called the “roaring 20s” but this time its because everyone will always be in a fursuit the whole time

the rawring twenties ^w^

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hillary clinton told a joke at the al smith dinner tonight. it’s a very simple joke. and these two CNN panelists have completely misunderstood it at every turn. it is making me so god damn angry.

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When will the straights stop

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i am gay and tired, reblog this if you are also gay and tired

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I knew she had a degree but didn’t know she was the most educated First Lady.

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i just want to confirm that donald trump has not answered one question 

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hillary clinton, senator, the only member of congress in the entire united states, should have changed all the laws

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Tips That Can Save Your Kid’s Life.

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i mean. it’s not hard to see. why do you think trump has been practically begging millennials to vote for bernie sanders? he’s tweeted it about fifty times. he brings it up at the debate. you think that’s cause he’s looking out for you?

even bernie sanders is saying please, no, don’t write me in, this is not the time for a protest vote. you gonna listen to trump instead of bernie? you gonna support bernie by ignoring everything he says?

nah, it’s because trump knows it’s his path to victory. don’t fall for it. don’t write-in. don’t vote third-party. vote for hillary clinton

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@ young gay girls one of the biggest lies about being gay the media / your surroundings will tell you is that people who are gay are always 100% sure about their identity. In today’s society, being out is still highly dangerous for many people, and so you’ll find that people rarely come out until they are VERY SURE that they are not straight. Gay figures in the media must think intensely for years about what they are willing to sacrifice to be out, and are thus either very sure before they do so, or at least are committed to stand by their label for life because of how hostile society is. 

The truth is: the struggle you feel is natural. It is something many, if not most gay people go through. The fact that you are not sure does not mean you are wrong or you are coming into your identity in a wrong way. The fact that you are not always confident in your chosen label while you find yourself is not wrong or uncommon. The fact that you’re ‘afraid you’re just straight’ at times is not bad or invalidating. Forging an identity for yourself as non-straight is a difficult process and to have all your hard work threatened by feelings of invalidity is scary. 

You probably think that all or at least “the good” gay people are always completely sure of themselves, and always were sure of themselves. This is simply not true. Your experience is not just valid, but something that many gay people go through. You do not feel this way because you are “forcing” or “faking” your identity. Growing up gay is difficult, and you are going through it in the way most of us do and you are in great company.  

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can we talk about how amazing cartoon network is and how amazing they feature diversity (race, lgbtq+, and body positivity) in their new shows

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Someone: why do u always say u feel sick

Me: because, my sweet dude, I literally cannot determine the line between my mental illness and physical unwellness anymore. I am Literally Always Ready To Die I am in a constant state of uncomfort my guy it always makes me feel like I'm gonna be ridin the queasy train to regretville

Me: haha