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you: wait, babe… we can’t fuck yet… you aren’t wearing protection…

your vampire lover: protection? what do you mean prote- oh ok so fuck you first of all

you, holding these:

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i spot a plus size honey across the bar and start to chat her up until her bisexual boyfriend with a magic the gathering tattoo comes over and starts yelling at me so i turn him sideways so he can't make another action until his next turn

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went to the nurse and i was like i need a period product. and they go. we are in the male ward. and I'm like i have a uterus. and they process it so slowly and they're like. do. do. you want a yorkie bar. will this help with the gender dysphoria. and i'm like ...you know what. sure.

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I hope every health insurance exec dies from painful and preventable disease

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How it feels getting obsessed with something new and then realizing you're going to spend anywhere from a week to the rest of your life thinking about it

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settings > my shower > manage my shower

water 🟩

soap 🟩

corner spider ⬜️

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my bf isn't cishet but he is cis bisexual and had never dated a man before me and I'm so happy to have him. he's loving and gentle and compassionate and such a wonderful ally, and it breaks my heart when he implies he feels like he's not "queer enough" to have worthwhile contributions since he's cis and gender-conforming and likes women. He's always scared to go into queer spaces like support groups because he's been treated like an outsider in the past because he's a large and very masculine-looking guy, he says he doesn't want to "intimidate people," but I just want him to feel like he belongs 😢

i just wanted to say that i feel for him, and he's the person i make posts about when i talk about how we need to stop chasing men & mascs away from queer spaces, because men and mascs can be and are queer! there's nothing to be scared of

genuinely from one bisexual to another, i completely get it. i've mostly dated men, but whenever i date women people treat me like i'm 100% straight. even if i'm dating a man at the same time. no one should ever give someone "in a straight passing relationship" a hard time, they deserve to be there. even if he was straight, he'd still belong, because he's your partner

people don't treat bisexuals the greatest, but i want him to know he's not alone & of course he belongs. i try to point people back to the 1950's - 1980's in United States queer history, because during that time, we actually saw a lot of masculine gays, bisexuals, butches & other queers in various communities. it was very common to see butched out bears, hunks, fags, bi people, and dykes in every community. macho people were very sought after, seen as very desirable partners. like, if you haven't seen tom of finland's art:

... you're in for a real treat!

after political lesbianism gained traction during and after the AIDS crisis (masculine men & people were being seen as the ones who were responsible for the crisis due to being "too sexual"), we've been slowly chipping away any and all masculinity and manhood from various queer communities. and it's not okay. this is a very recent phenomenon. it's not what the queer community is all about

butched up guys belong. masc fags, hairy bears, macho bi guys... masc and male queerness is here to stay. your bf belongs. yes even if he's gender conforming. yes even if he's a guy. yes even if he's bi. he's queer enough. his attraction to you is queer- bisexual people experience queer attraction no matter what. he belongs in the queer community.

anyway, i hope he finds some peace with himself soon. he belongs. he deserves to be proud of being a bi guy. he doesn't have to be anyone but himself. tell him to take care of himself. and take care of yourself, too

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“Women and non-binary people” stop. Do you mean people with marginalized genders? Do you mean gender-oppressed people? Then say that. Stop refusing to recognize the very much gendered oppression of other trans people. There’s not some chasm of difference between how our oppressors treat a very masc non-binary person and a more binary trans man. I’m also non-binary and very much oppressed for my gender but because I’m transmasculine I could never feel comfortable in a space that marketed itself like that. Tell me what the real harm is of letting gender-oppressed mascs into spaces discussing gender oppression is. Because the consequence of not doing so is denying them space for their experiences just because of their gender identity. Do better.

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She giving me pyramid head so good i go silent.

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hey um i’ve got some bad news. we mulled your boyfriend. he fell in the wine and we mulled him. yeah with the cinnamon sticks.

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queer people on this site really make me feel like a confused straight guy at pride. the discourse here could kill a man

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banger post ngl

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Oh man living in a beautiful house with a beautiful wife and owning a large automobile fucking slaps

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Tarantula pet play. I build you a beautiful enclosure and you hide from me in it for several weeks before emerging briefly to eat a single Snickers.

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kind of embarrassing to play a game that your friend recommended it’s like. ohh i’m pregnant with your game. i’m playing and it’s yours

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being a cat is like hellooooooo is anyone here going to be small and loud????? and then you dont wait for an answer