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Thank you. What is the bi terminology for d*ke though?

Sooo can bi girls say the d slur? And the f slur? I've been called both a lot and I just wanna know

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Sooo can bi girls say the d slur? And the f slur? I've been called both a lot and I just wanna know

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seems to me like we shouldn't be labelling teenagers based on how frequently they want to have sex or whether or not they've fallen in love during a 4 year period rife with stress, insecurity, abuse, and social ineptitude but maybe that's just me being acearophobic

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You have been booped by this empty wrapping paper tube.

Reblog to boop all of your followers with it.

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in case i havent made myself explicitly clear before:

this blog is 100% supportive of trans women and trans lesbians

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what the fuck is going on here

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ALL 👏🏾 OF 👏🏾 THEM 👏🏾

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inclusionists find a better argument than ‘they just are’ when asked why aro/ace ppl are lgbt challenge

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Things they don’t tell you about top surgery

- Talk to the surgeon about the size you want your new areolas/nipples (don’t be afraid to ask)

- Numbness. No one talks about this for guys who are about to have surgery. You’re going to be numb all in your chest area, especially where the incisions were. They cut nerves as they pass along your chest, and it can take up to a year to regenerate those nerves. Still, feels super foreign for the first two weeks

- Make your bed into a pillow chair, body pillow, two on each side, and two for your head. 

- Sleep alone. I tried to sleep with my girlfriend and it was miserable. You really do need the entire bed for yourself

- Go on Groupon, & get yourself a 10 foot lightning cable iPhone charger, BEST THING EVER, can reach from wherever you are

- Don’t take a week off from work, take two. You will regret the one week, and love the extra time

- When they say “don’t move too much, even after the first week”. LISTEN. I moved way too much and got so sore super quickly. 

- Drink lots of water & eat if your taking the pain medication, otherwise your stomach feels super funky.

- Get stool softeners, & don’t be afraid to take those babies. Don’t wait a week to poop. you’ll surely regret it. 

- The drains are scary & they may hurt while draining or rewrapping your dressings, but once they come out, the second they do, its no more pain, its crazy. 

i hope this helps someone, because i wish i knew all of this when i was having mine a month ago. Looking back its like everyone forgets all the real negatives, its a great experience, & i healed very well & quick compared to most, but the first few days are crazy. They hurt, suck but it gets better. 

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Find your name with the gif button and add the one that is the most relatable

Originally posted by hechosastrologicos

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🌊⚧💖passing tips for trans women💖⚧🌊

some trans guy got mad at me for my last post so im gonna do some passing tips 💖

hair and face

the first passing tip i have is for hair is please please dont dye your hair. if you dont do it properly it will die and youll have to cut it back which wont be good. instead use biotin (i think its called?) to grow your hair out quicker and healtier. For face ill link some makeup tutorials on how to femminize your face. if you dont have makeup then try to wear jewlery ie:chokers, earings, necklaces, or other face items like round glasses or eyelashs (they can be bought for like 4 dollars at claires or a dollar store).

2. chest and upper body

one of the best things you can get for chest dysphoria is pushup bras, padding, or a sports bra. somethings thats worked for me that could work for some of you is use socks as padding if you cant afford padding or gels. the way to do it is fold them from tip to back and put it in your bra. it works well for hiding a flat chest or a lack of curves. another thing for curves is to wear waist liners, but dont make them to tight itll fuck up your ribs major.

3. tucking and legs

as a trans women whos goal is to pass tucking is a necisary evil. the way to tuck is to push your balls into theyre sockets and pull back the p*nis between your butt. to keep a tuck in place theres 4 methods ranked from safest to dangerous.

gaffs are special panties made for trans women to tuck tightly and comftarbly. they can cost anywhere from 15 to 250 dollars US. homemade ones can also be made (linked below)

multiple pairs of panties (usually 2 or 3) can be put over the tuck to make it stay (this is the method i use)

duct tape is very dangerous but works so well for things like bathing suits or lingerie. it can however rip skin and cause epidermal damage from the adhesives

and finally is hair ties. yes, some people do this. wrapping hair ties around the scroatal skin can cause blood lose and need for surgery to removed the killed skin.

for legs wear tights and mom jeans to hide a lack of curves (unless you have them).

and for the crescendo

voice:

i will link tutorials below but the best way is to push back your adams apple and speak from the top of your throat and not your chest. practice this on an app like voice pitch anyliser made for trans voice training

please reblog this so all our trans sisters can see💖

-love, alexis texas⛦

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Roger with Mini Freddie

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smash that mf reblog if u hate pedophiles

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Hello I'm Xczl. I am a demi-yrreb-flux girl who feels strong connection to glasses. My pronouns are 😞/😞s/😞self but you can always use jellyfish-self pronouns.

I am a simple ace-man, dni if you're a terf.

Thank you <3

Don’t know the source as I just found it in my camera roll but I’m bored. Just for fun lol.

Transmeds make yours

Hello, I’m Wxhttzm. I am a Demi-tuggen-flux Male who feels strong connection to hoodies. My pronouns are 🥴/🥴s/🥴self. But you can always use catself pronouns!

I am a simple ace-mattnone please dni if you are terf! Thank you <3

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if this post gets 100,000 notes by August 21, 2020 (my 18th birthday), i swear on my own mortal soul that i’ll get a tattoo that says “sometimes it be like that”

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Heterosexuality

I'm bi, I just constantly write so I don't need my eyes to type lmao

Me: