#non-binary love

[perfectlyripeclementine]

if u can resist me when i’m all soft and cozy in the morning and i try to pull you back to bed and i’ve ~accidentally~ let the sheets fall so my hard nipple is lewdly poking out and i’m looking at you like you’re the sunrise and i’ve never before seen the color of dawn do u even love me??

[agendercryptidlev]

Update: The claim that Hergie Bacyadan spoke out against Imane Khelif seems to be misinformation. I apologize for spreading it, no one is immune to propaganda etc. This does not change the fact that the trans community has an intersexism/interphobia problem that is being made incredibly obvious by this olympics discourse.

Seeing the recent bigoted comments by transgender Olympian Hergie Bacyadan, it's past time for the perisex trans community to address the normalized intersexism/interphobia that so many of us spread.

The intersex community is constantly used as a prop by the trans community. The most frequent way you see trans people speak about intersex issues is just to remind transphobes that sex isn't binary, which is meaningless when the trans community still strictly enforces intersexist binaries like AMAB vs AFAB and TME vs TMA and Transfemme vs Transmasc, all categories that many if not most intersex people, trans or cis, cannot fit neatly into. The trans community uses the intersex community to win arguments and than makes next to no effort to make our intersex siblings feel welcome.

When talking about HRT and gender affirming care for minors, the trans community almost never uplifts the voices of the intersex community who are often forced to undergo HRT as children and surgery on their genitalia as actual babies against their will. It is important for HRT and gender affirming care to be available to transgender children, it is just as important to keep these same things that can be life saving for trans children from being forced onto intersex children who do not consent.

I implore all perisex trans people to do some reading into the history of intersex activism, and the sad reality of life for intersex people today when so many governments and health systems are still bigoted against intersex people. Uplift intersex voices, always.

[aubryjoi]

✊🩷🩵

[hgedits]

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

Happy Thistle Debut Day!

[halcyon-autumn]

Huge L for Helio this episode I gotta say. Something about meeting that guy makes people want to go worship a dead lesbian

[im-secretly-a-frog]

Y'know what? Fuck it. I am a dude. I am sapphic. I love girls in a very gay way. I love boys in a very gay way. I am a guy, but not a man. A use he/him but I am not a man. I don't use she/her but I am sapphic. I have a complicated relationship with a lot of parts of my identity, and that will not change overnight, but right now what is important is that I am amazing.

I am queer and beautiful and in love. I use labels I want and reject ones I don't.

[colombian-necktie]

[saccharind]

from Prokaryote Season by Leo Fox

[perfectlyripeclementine]

i saw this tiktok where this girl was so excited for her gf to come back from a trip that she got up early and cooked her a full breakfast and bed. and then when the gf woke up she was THRILLED. they were so cute and giggly together, so clearly in love.

that’s what i want. i love crafting elaborate gifts for people. i want my lover to wake up to fresh coffee and orange juice and shakshuka and a whole day for us to share on the first sunday of spring. i want to make bread from scratch for them the day before. for us to marvel together at how simple pleasure can be.

but i find these gifts get so easily clouded by habit or routine. i love to cook and have noticed a recurring pattern that partners will be grateful and impressed at first and grow more critical over time, or not thank me, or not offer to get the dishes or buy the wine.

i think and hope that polyamory will help me stop pushing the boundaries of relationships to where we both feel taken for granted. i hope this work i’m doing on what love is made of and how to feed and grow it helps me build relationships like the one those two girls in the tiktok were in. i want my partner to be excited for the home-cooked meal i made them even if they’ve had it many times before. i want the multiplicity of love to highlight the things that are precious in each connection rather than fuel competition.

[raqualswonderfunblog]

[spritespirits]

Was no one gonna tell me the alternate of boyfriend or girlfriend for nonbinaries is JOYFRIEND!?!?

[aroacesafeplaceforall]

Spotted at my local market

[jazzberiperks]

hi tumblr osc my childhood show came back to me..

[vrgirl141]

I would gladly go out on a date, with anyone who would grant me this request..😩😋