#like not all of us are sex repulsed

[killerchickadee]

What I HAVE seen re: interpreting Crowley kissing Aziraphale is people claiming it means they're not ace or it's bad ace representation and I'm like. Y'all, some ace people kiss. Some ace people even have sex! And I'm not saying that's something I want for them (I really really don't) but just because someone smooched someone else that doesn't mean they can't still be 100% asexual.

[toytulini]

listen im ace and im pro kink at pride and whatever, but the way some of yall are wording your posts in response to the backlash against it is uh. really taking me back to the ace shitcourse era.

yall know theres nothing wrong with being a "virgin", right? that its not inherently shameful to have not had sex, to never have sex, even if youre not ace, even if you do want to have sex someday, like, its fine that you haven't had sex?

maybe if your problem is that theyre trying to police your behavior and shame you for expressing your sexuality, you can say that? instead of resorting to "haha stupid virgin gets no bitches" like my god. do you not hear how fucking regressive that attitude is? i know, i know, youre "joking".

get a better joke

[redysetdare]

If you're first response to a repulsed person's identity is "As long as you're not sex/romance negative" then you don't ACTUALLY support repulsed people. if you're first response is basically "this is the qualification you have to meet for me to view your identity as valid and it's up to my interpretation on if you reach this unknown criteria" then you don't actually support repulsed people.

you can't go around saying how repulsed people are valid ONLY IF they're the "good ones" that's not how that works buddy.

[contagious-watermelon]

there's just something about being called (just) ace by your aroace friend even after only ever referring to yourself as aromantic

[eclaire-went-bam]

although i think it's important to acknowledge the complexities of aro & ace identities, & to be welcoming of aroace identities that may be sex/romance favourable/hypersexual & seek those relationships, i think it's still important to acknowledge that completely romance/sex repulsed aroaces are still a minority in the ace community despite being the stereotype. & we should still listen to those voices,

[spaciebabie]

you know what that reminds me of ? people in the comment of a slightly suggestive animation meme being like "what have I just seen??" "this is horrible" "why would you draw this"

like

overreacting much??.

LITERALLY THIS??????? I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY PEOPLE WILL GO OUT OF THEIR WAY TA VIEW NSFT OR SUGGESTIVE CONTENT AND THEN MAKE APPALLED STATEMENTS??? BUDDY. YOU PULLED UPTA THE FUNCTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU PULLED UP WITH GUMPTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[redysetdare]

I kinda wish people would stop saying "we all need more rep" when someone mentions how they want to see rep of their identity in media.

Many of my own posts expressing the want for non-partnering or repulsed rep usually get met with "we need more kinds of aspec rep in general" and it just feels so backhanded? If that makes sense?

Like "oh YOU want rep? Okay but EVERYONE ELSE should get rep too! We ALL need rep." It just feels that it is being purposefully ignorant to the point of the posts and brushing off the issue because they personally can't relate to the rep being asked for.

No one is saying that we should ONLY have x kind of rep. No one is saying the other identities get more. So why put such an addition onto a post asking for rep? Not every post has to include every identity ever in it. Posts don't only have to be advocating for everyone or no one.

[murky-tannin]

People learn the difference between canon and headcanon challenge

[punkranger]

You know one of the reasons I don't really id as ace any more is that every single post, even the supposedly positive ones, talk about aces being "broken" and I've never in my life felt that but all this talk about it sure is making me question it too

[foxboyclit]

pride tag game

tagged by @space-writes, thank you! finally, the real reason i make queer characters-to bully them

rules: tell me your oc's sexuality without telling me

Howl: who needs sex when life fucks you constantly

Minisstra: men are for stress relief, spiders are for loving

Iphis: just hold a knife to his throat and he's yours

Chena'stra: sex as collateral damage

Faeryl: if a muscular woman within ten feet of them flex they're going to pass out

no-pressure tagging @winterskulleton @selkieflesh and @goldentlme

[phagodyke]

everyone say thank u to my roommate for going to visit her parents this weekend so I can jack it loud and nasty 🙏

[thefortysecondolive]

hit a rough patch processing my gender in the past few days & have been feeling down about not being able to talk about pretty much any aspect of my identity without tacking on seven disclaimers and a vocab quiz 😮‍💨 wish I could just put the identity crisis on hold until I finish my finals

[dyingnights]

can we talk about how more and more fandoms literally get consumed by horny people and i dont mean this in a good way

[redysetdare]

Idk i just find it interesting that the conversation of "romance negativity" only ever comes up in regards to romance repulsed people and as a way to try to shut us up and the only evidence that gets brought up for "romance negativity" is actually evidence of misogyny and oppression of women specifically and not really Romance negativity.

[lovebloods]

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