#Why cant ppl see that he’s so WIFEY

[uzurakis]

Read please 😭

That’s what i’ve been saying . . Suguru Malewife.

[palkea]

quick tfp optimus

[smol-tired-binch-blog]

hate how im now at a point where im legit like kicking my legs and grinning like an idiot over fictional characters SEND HELP

[cinnamons1999]

UPDATE TO THIS POST (TW FOR MENTIONS OF HARD DRUGS, SELF HARM AND SUICIDAL THEMES ON THAT POST)

also this post is QUITE LONG so if youre an "i aint readin all that" person (tbh me fr im just a yapper i cant listen for nothin) then maybe its best not to int w this post, cuz discussion will require you to read the entire thing for you to know what im on about.

TW FOR ( DRAWN AND MENTIONED) SH AND SADLY, MENTIONS OF ROMANTICIZATION OF SH, SUICIDE, DRUGS ETC.

ok so the prev post was about how much i realized menhera-chan was kinda like an inspiration to me, both in my art style and in the way i saw my own mental health. but honestly im way more detached from her now.

i've been clean for a good while since yk, its easier for me to distract myself from punching my own face now that i have wifey around. i honestly just dont think menhera-chan seems to encapsulate what menhera can be for me anymore, and knowing what type of person bisuko ezaki is i just don't feel comfortable knowing i used to look up to that work.

even with my recovery i still am going through therapy and potentially finding a diagnosis at the hospital, meaning i probably still have shit to work thru tho i cant predict the future

and with this i just dont relate to menhera-chan anymore, not just bcuz bisuko is a shit person but bcuz im more stereotypically masculine (obv, shes a girl in a sailor uniform what am i thinking), but bcuz even when some of the menhera-chan comic shorts seem genuine in the way they tackle self harm and mental health, but then i remember he made THIS ONE DRAWING (THIS IS NOT A CALLOUT POST. I HONESTLY JUST FEEL LIKE BRINGING THIS UP)

and apparently?? yamiko no seigi fetishizes girls who do SH, and even when im not a girl it all just feels less genuine bcuz of this. how u sexualizing SH yet still have comic shorts abt how you shouldnt upload your self harm scars bcuz ppl who romanticize SH could get to it.

(this comic short is the one im talking about btw)

it just feels less genuine to me bcuz of this, cuz if you really want to care abt mental health, spread awareness and share your struggle, then why make that shirt? thats just me tbh.

i've started liking the idea of making my own menhera mascot thing (menhera angel, who's kinda like menhera X by diy-menhera-blog in the way that they are completely genderless, also menhera angel is an angel ragdoll creature thing?? meaning they are completely raceless too.)

this image is also in a diff art post of mine.

my mental health has just gotten a bit better but cuz of therapy and school, and the stress of going to a gymnasium soon (yeah, SV system) i honestly just don't think im experiencing mental health struggles in a different way than menhera-chan is shown to be, and in a different way than most people who relate to menhera-chan/momoka sakurai do.

i respect those who are attached to her and can point out that ezaki bisuko is still a shit person but idk,, maybe when i can find community in the menhera space i can find others who are also not as attached to wrist-cut warrior manga like me.

just,, man. im really trying to find community w menhera people and in the menhera sphere so i hope i get welcomed with open arms but idk,,, (cuz a lot of menhera stuff crosses over w/ jirai and landmine and i feel like theyll see me as "too stable." n shit or just wont welcome me at all and will chase me out but thats just my anxiety talking.)

TL;DR: im more detached from menhera-chan's character cuz of bisuko himself and changes in my mental health, and i might find comfort in the menhera sphere if i get welcomed.

[joculatrixster]

same anon. my guess is that it has something to do with ships and the treatment of male/masc-presenting cookies and female/fem-presenting cookies. i have more but i couldn't think of anything else atm lol

DING DING DING we have a winner :D

ppl in this fandom hate lesbains so much its not even funny! why is espressoline obvs canon to everyone but seamoon(which is so heavy-handed that at this point if devs made a seamoon sex tape I doubt ppl would admit after watching they r lesbians) has such a vocal antifanbase?? the idea that u cant ship that ONE fem w/ men is apparently against their constitutional rights or something idek yall just need all women to love a man and hate wlw lesbian representation ig. ofc ships like espressolien have anti-fans but its not as near controversial and its the most POPULAR CR SHIP???

actually, name a fandom that ain't mostly fem characters that the most popular ship is wlw or nblw cause that's fucking rare everyone loves their gay men but hate the gay women. god forbid a woman is bi/pan because ppl will either declare shes a lesbian(ignoring her attraction to men which is fucked) or hate her to high heavens and cr is NOT exempt from this but I'm glad its not as common to just straight hate women openly here so good job fandom u did SOMETHING right

ALSO barely anyone talks about characters like rye/rose/skating queen outside of shipping. the most popular characters and the ones devsisters seem to like the best r masc! thousands of espresso, almond, rougefort(ik they r nonbinary but they r MASC nb most ppl in this fandom treat them like a gay man dont @ me) fan pages yet the fems r left dry. Actually, the most popular fems r cutesy children or characters like Latte who ppl only treat as A SEX OBJECT and barely explore her past shipping or uwu creampuff mommy or espressos sister!!!! if the character is fem and popular u best believe ppl find their schtick hot or they just got an update like cocoa dw cocoa once ur 10 minutes of fam is up ppl will forget about u like they did before this. it happened w/ moon rabbit it'll happen with her too actually I kinda hope it does cause yall only like cocoa when shes mint's little wifey otherwise she has nothing in yalls eyes. ofc that's a sweeping statement but the wider fandom treats her like this because DEVS treat her like this. shes nothing w/out mint and THAT'S FUCKED UP. why is this woman defined by her heavily implied partner. why cant she have a story outside of mint loves her. good for her now give me something more than that, give her friends and adventures that has nothing to do w/ him. he has it why not her?? tbh I haven't watched the update vids so hey maybe I'm wrong and he's barely in this story but I have no hope in devsisters

don't get me started on the butch/stud to nb, trans women or trans MAN(wtf?!?!!?!?) pipeline this fandom has!!! god forbid a she/her wear a suit must not be a cis woman cause why would a cis woman ever want to explore their gender. yall rlly showing how u think trans men r just women in suits with that one. the trans women one is actually better but not all trans women will be masculine and if u only hc the masculine/gnc cookies like aloe or sour belt r trans women ur fucked up. trans women can be feminine cookies like cheesecake or rose too but why r those hcs never as popular??? rhetorical question its because the wider fandom has got issues seeing trans women as regular women well sucks to suck because trans woemn r just women they come in all shapes and sizes like all women do and they r not all just masculine gnc ppl like yall seem to want them to be