#He fluctuates between golden retriever energy and black cat
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My boyfriend has anxiety and I have adhd which makes for some pretty strange things we talk about/do
Had a whole conversation about eating habits
I tend to be spontaneous while he takes his time to decide on things and often asks for my help/advice
He sees me as funny and cute because I’m forgetful
he actually loves how I ramble and stim and keysmash
We don’t have to explain ourselves a whole lot because we have similar mental illnesses (both have anxiety/depression)
when one of us needs a break/is overstimulated we listen to the same type of music to distract ourselves
I can respect his boundaries and usually let him touch me instead of me touching him because he doesn’t much like physical touch/physical affection
both like receiving/giving gifts as a neurodivergent love language
I get confused/lost easily and he explains it so I can process
In short my boyfriend is the best and I love him
#Mentally ill relationships#Neurodivergents do it better man#I love my anxiety boyfriend#He fluctuates between golden retriever energy and black cat#He might have white cat energy to be honest#Or Saint Bernard energy#Either way I love him#So much#how we became friends is cute too#We met at the mental hospital💕#We became good friends and I snuck a note with my number into his book#He says that’s when he started to fall for me#I’m his first love which is funny tbh#I get to teach him what a relationship should be like#And I’m gonna treat him right so he knows how it should be#If I fail my mission I’ll cry#Either way I’m gonna cry when I see him because yeah#I’m sensitive#Also kinda hoping he’s ace#I’m a sex positive ace#So I mean I’m not fully againsg it but like hopefully we don’t get to that point for a long time#I do wanna kiss him tho#He has such kissable lips#My boyfriend
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