#your inner world doesn't outweigh your relationships and interactions with other ppl. they all make up who you are for better or for worse.
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nobody who describes themselves as "too self aware" has ever seemed very aware to me.
#i have a lot of thoughts on it that i need to find the time to articulate better#but it's the same level as calling yourself a people pleaser when nobody around you seems pleased#like yea you def got some shit going on but it's not that. not the way you're thinking of it.#also it's just like... annoying. and i say this with all the love in my heart bc i used to be one of those ppl too.#we think we know ourselves best and that outside interpretations are just wrong#but we forget that effect is just as and oftentimes more important than intent#your inner world doesn't outweigh your relationships and interactions with other ppl. they all make up who you are for better or for worse.#and most people are incredibly dishonest with themselves. it's not deliberate! there are just things ppl seem to DECIDE about themselves#and they never question it again. but nothing is immutable.#whatever#all im saying is it's worth abandoning the idea that you already know everything about yourself and instead opening urself up to discovery#there are so many buried truths left to uncover#also that quote about the trap of introspection... where's it at
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