#you're still bisexual babes pls do not torment the lesbians

[fillejondrette]

it seems like a gay man can talk about how he was married to a woman for 15 years and had children with her and people don't question that he's gay. but a lesbian mentions that she had a boyfriend in high school and her sexual orientation is in question. and maybe this in part is due to many bi women describing themselves as lesbians when you don't really have that issue with men (that i'm aware of). but it feels more like a failure to accept women's own perceptions of themselves and reality. and it's extra strange bc in the typical dynamics of hetero relationships and sex, men are more aggressive and women are more passive. i literally dated my ex despite not having romantic feelings for him bc he was so persistent and i was like ok we're friends and we're having sex so we might as well be in a relationship. lmao.