#you should be fucking ashamed to call yourselves feminists because WHO THE SHIT ARE YOU EVEN STRUGGLING FOR?

[musicrunsthroughmysoul]

Apparently I have to say this again: IF YOU'RE A TERF, FUCK OFF.

[rjalker]

It's a very specific form of bigotry when binary trans women declare that they are the ultimate experts on all things regarding being trans and bigotry against trans people and as these self-proclaimed experts declare that nonbinary people either straight up don't exist

(which is not only exorsexist but in many cases blatantly and explicitly racist when they're erasing the non-white-western-binary genders of oppressed cultures who have suffered genocides)

or claim that if we do exist, well we are not oppressed in any specific or exclusive ways, and if you even use the word exorsexism or talk about exorsexism or even hint that binary trans people have any privilege over nonbinary people in any way you are a transmisogynist because apparently nonbinary people talking about how we're oppressed....means we're silencing trans women somehow. Anikd makes us misogynists.

And a lot of (but not all of) the ones who do this are white. Middle class, went to collage and haven't spent the rest of their life in debt for it.

Like, blogs like "transmisogynyexplained" explicitly fucking declare that trans women are the ultimate experts on all forms of transmisia and gender-based oppression and therefore exorsexism isn't real and nonbinary people have no specific oppression.

Julia Serano's whole entire fucking theory of trans women being The Most Oppressed™ literally required that she straight up fucking lie about what trans men experience, and declaire that nonbinary people aren't real and the ONLY reason the white western gender binary is so prevalent these days is because it's the only REAL system of gender that's natural.

Because apparently white people comitting multiple ongoing genocides against indiginous peoples and their cultures including violently suppressing their cultural non-white-western-binary genders, never happened. It's just simply that everyone's brain is either hardwired male or female from birth, and anyone who claims otherwise is a transmisogynist who wants to feel superior to trans women in particular.

But no one ever fucking talks about this shit because if you do you are immediately labeled a transmisogynist because criticizing any trans women, no matter how blatantly transmisic, exorsexist, or white supremacist she's being, means you're a transmisogynist now and criticizing her is the exact same thing as committing a hate crime -.-

Just because you're a woman doesn't make you the ultimate expert on oppression. You do not get to speak over or erase other people and pretend you are the expert on oppression you literally do not experience.

No, trans women, especially binary trans women, are not the ultimate experts on all forms of transmisia. They are not the fucking authority on whether or not trans men are oppressed or if nonbinary people even fucking exist.

If you think being trans or being a woman means you're the ultimate authority on who is and is not oppressed in what ways, you're just a fucking bigot who's just as bad as all the other so-called "feminists" who throw everyone else under the bus to get what they want.

No one is immune to being a bigot, no, not even trans women. Being oppressed in one way does not mean you can never be a bigot. And if you're gonna pretend I'm "making up trans women to be mad about" you can personally pay me the fucking $40 I spent on Julia Serano's books because no one bothered to warn me how unapologetically and explicitly racist, exorsexist, and transandromisic they are.

If you aren't willing to call out bigoted trans women when they're being blatantly racist, exorsexist, and transandromisic, you're not a fucking ally to any trans people. No one is above fucking reproach, and don't you motherfuckers dare act like criticizing a trans woman for any reason is a fucking hatecrime. You are fucking pathetic and bigoted and you should be ashamed of yourselves.

[thestrippershateyou]

I see A LOT of radfems crying wolf about non radfems. I've personally been accused of being a pedophile many times. I've seen people who are my allies be accused of posting pedophila and yet never seen are nothing like that on their blogs. I've seen non radicals accused of being racist when they've shown no racism. There's one trying to claim that I have a "homophobic side blog" (this is my side blog) where I tell Arab lesbians to- what was it - go kill themselves? I saw another get accused of wanting to beat women because a radfem baited and baited and baited her to punish her for spesking out against biphobia until the person understandably finally snapped and told then to fuck off and die (didn't threaten to kill them. Just told them to die). Because feminists who aren't radical aren't allowed to have emotions or breaking points apparently. Shit I had another try to claim I called her a nazi because she's half black. I (1.) didn't even know her race and (2.) was trying to convey that her telling me a dozen times that I was sub human because I'm a sex worker even after I told her I'd lost count of how many times I'd been raped and telling me that I was responsible personally for every man who mistreat the woman was basically Hitler's justification for locking sex workers in concentration camps and branding us with a black triangle.

You guys DO know what happened in The Boy Who Cried Wolf, right? You know the story don't you? The boy kept crying about the big bad wolf and all the villagers came out with the pitch forks to find....no wolf. When the wolf finally came, no one noticed or cared.

There was a time I believed pedophilia accusations and instantly cut those people out of my life. But now that you've decided being a sex worker makes someone a pedophile and that I am one because I'm a consenting adult who only works with consenting adults... I can't trust your accusations anymore. It makes me wonder how many pedophiles I have talked to because you can't be sure who is actually one when radfems are calling EVERYONE one. There was a time I cut anyone with even the slightest accusation of assaulting women out of my life no questions asked. But because I have consensual sex with women who share my sexual interests, you've all decided that makes me a rapist! I've been accused of raping, assaulting, and beating women because you think two consenting adults so much as having a pair of fuzzy hand cuffs and a blindfold is abuse. So now when I see radfems naming other people as rapists and abusers I can't believe it anymore.

And let's not even get started on homophobia. I get called a straight homophobe all the time....because I'm queer. I'm absolutely not straight in the fucking least and am extremely protective of the lgbt community. Y'all think anyone not screaming "I AM A LESBIAN WHO HAS NEVER LAID A FINGER ON A PENIS" is a homophobe. You tall about these people the same way people talk about Westboro Baptist and you want non gay queer people viewed as being the same as Westboro Baptist. All that does is cause your accusations to be distrusted.

There's a reason why false accusations are so abhorrent. One day you're going to try outting an actual rapist and no one will believe you. Someone may well even get raped by that person because they heard your warning but they had also heard your warning about sex workers all being pedophiles and bisexuals all hating lesbians and women into bdsm all just wanting to beat and rape other women to death. Someone may well get killed over a warning that there was no way anyone in their right mind would believe after so much crying wolf.

You should be ashamed of yourselves. Youre not because you're still putting the blame for your disgusting actions on sex workers, trans people, women into bdsm, and just any women who disagree with you. But you should be.

[lunarssong]

quick little summary/title: this started out as a rant but if you scroll down to the large bold, there’s a metaphor that should hopefully help explain why terfs are so god damn awful and dangerous

me? sending an ask off-anon to a terf because im both pissed and a fucking dumbass? its more likely than youd think

in fact! im not even gonna censor the word terf! if i dont feel like dealing with their bullshit replies and rbs then i literally just fucking wont!! yeah they might send in death threats but guess the fuck what?? im leaving my anon on fuckers, because honestly that shits gonna be funny to me! and if they try to doxx me (very unlikely, but i am trans and its not riskier to mention that because its already obvious, and ive never directly made a post about terfs before, so i really dont know whats gonna happen) or something then like! im a minor! we can sue those shitheads and hopefully bring more media awareness to how god damn shitty terfs are! literally dont even start, lmao.

have the damn ask because i wanna elaborate on it

“hi there! i wish you’d delete your tumblr, because you are dangerous. you are a violent misogynist, and make me ashamed to be a feminist.

you’re gonna attack me because i’m off anon, but you’d probably call me a coward if i was on it, lmao.

anyway! stop disguising your misogyny and transphobia with shitty ass ‘feminism’. i was raised by a feminist with a feminist mom who literally can’t believe y’all exist because your ideas are SO far from actual feminism.

just say you hate trans people and go.”

tbh? its so fucking wild to me how they literally spit out misogyny, transphobia, and lesbophobia but then get all pissy when someone calls them out on it,, but then have the nerve to accuse that person of being misogynistic and lesbophobic? like,, honey. honey, what? the fuck? how much of a dumbass are you?

because like. im a pretty big dumbass! like ive walked into a mirror before because i thought it was a door! im a dumbass!

but even i know that trans women literally cannot discriminate against cis women by saying that theyre (plural, but trans women can 100% use they and thats totally valid) women! because guess the FUCK what?? theyre fucking women! if yall shitheads (terfs) wanna call that misogyny then yall cant call yourselves women either!

if yall assholes wanna call a specific group of lesbians/wlw pointing out, “hey! we experience discrimination because of an entirely irrelevant physical feature we all happen to share that has literally no actual affect on whether or not we are women/wlw” lesbophobia or speaking over minorities then wow.

wow.

wow, are yall gonna be shocked when (if) you realize what the hell yall doing that qualifies as.

oppressors literally depicting and/or committing fucking hate crimes, sometimes even as serious as murder, rape, etc. (this is referring to terfs, i should never have to point that out) is NOT comparable to an oppressed as hell minority saying that people who literally want them dead should not be in safe spaces intended for people of a community they both happen to belong to.

to put this into perspective for yall out there literally worse than garbage (terfs)! imagine this scenario.

youre in a community of women. trans women may or may not be a part of this particular community, shut the fuck up, thats irrelevant. a group of straight women pop up, and start saying that being wlw is misogynistic and harmful to women. this is bullshit. you know that immediately. why wouldn’t it be? you explain to them the obvious reasons why it is not. they ignore you.

they begin to spew utter bullshit, claiming things like “women should never marry other women. you’re ignoring the fact that a man’s place is as a woman’s wife, and basically trying to be men, which is like admitting that men are superior.” or, “as straight women, you flaunting your homosexuality,” the woman gestures to a lesbian couple who aren’t even holding hands and haven’t been touching the whole time theyve been there. one has a small rainbow heart sticker on her purse. “makes me feel threatened in my femininity. (insert plural of 4 letter slur against lesbians that i dont feel comfortable typing a single letter of) arent really women, their existence is heterophobia and misogyny. they shouldn’t be allowed in female-only spaces because they normalize masculinity.”

over time, this group of straight women grows. they call themselves feminists, claim theyre fighting for the rights of all women! unless those women happen to love other women and dont perfectly fit their (cisnormative too but terfs are awful so they like that) heteronormative idea of a woman. they protest at the very idea of saying “significant others”, “partners”, or even “wives and/or husbands” because it doesnt fit their idea of being a woman. because they think having a wife and loving women is only for men.

eventually, they start getting braver and braver. they start going to feminist rallies, and if they spot gay women, or even women they think look gay, theyll get up in their faces, threaten them, call them slurs. theyll try to record them, try to get them fired from their jobs or outed to unsupportive families. or even just expose them to the potential of assault in their day-to-day life. because theyre gay. and that doesnt affect the straight women at all, but they hate diversity and are homophobes. so they need an excuse.

sometimes theyll get their other gay-exclusive feminist friends to record them committing violent acts against wlw feminists, just to take stills from those videos out of context when the gay women defend themselves, and then go crying to the media, twisting the roles of victim and aggressor to paint a violent picture of wlw. they say that feminist rallies should be an event only for real women or allies to their cause—meaning, to them, no wlw, and certainly no mlm. they probably even try to turn all homophobia towards gay men into a sexism issue (they are sometimes tied, but not mostly). but they lose their shit when anyone tries to tell them to get out of these safe spaces for women, because by attacking wlw for literally nothing beyond existing, they are ruining the safe part.

people start to become ashamed to call themselves feminists, and are often lumped in with these homophobes. even if they themselves are gay. straight feminists who love, support, and fight for wlw begin to feel guilty for being straight. new labels for feminist ideology begin popping up, the gay-exclusive feminists strike them down and turn them into jokes.

their end goal is to reverse victories like gay marriage, remove gay representation both in the media and in history books (sometimes even arguing that famous wlw were ‘just close friends’ with their wives or girlfriends), and to send wlw right back to hiding and marrying men for fear of their lives.

all in the name of thinly veiled homophobia feminism!

but wait, you cry, that sounds nothing like feminism! it actually sounds like misogyny and homophobia!

exactly!

think about who yall are the real-life equivalent of in that scenario.

need a hint because youre so brainwashed? try changing ‘gay/wlw’ to ‘trans’, ‘straight’ to ‘cis’, and ‘gay-exclusive’ to ‘terf’.

i doubt any of them will actually read through this, let alone realize their flawed perspective due to it, but hey. maybe ill sway some people who’re on the fence about how horrible terfs are.

[xxamythegreatxx]

The hate on this website is getting out of hand now.

Alright, there are things I need to get off my chest because its driving me up the fucking wall now. 

I’ve been on Tumblr for a good few years now, and for the most part its been a great experience. The amount of genuine, lovely and funny people on here is what I came and have remained here for. But there’s another, quite large side of this site that I can’t stand to look at anymore.

Listen to me now, there is a line. There is a line between voicing your opinion for topics like sexuality and race and all sorts and that’s amazing. In our current generation, we shouldn’t have to put up with racism or homophobia, its fucking 2017, views like that aren’t even taken seriously at this point because no one cares about what they have to say.

But there is a line between supporting these things, and just downright belittling, bulling or harassing other people who you consider to be... ‘unworthy’. 

Honestly, the way some people talk on here is exhausting.

“Everything is racist!”

“Everything is sexist!”

“Everything is homophobic/ transphobic!”

... no it fucking isn’t.

The amount of man hating, white hating, cis hating bullshit on this website is terrible, some of you should be fucking ashamed of yourselves. 

You love to talk about ‘male privilege’ or ‘white privilege’, when at times I don’t think you lot even understand what these words mean anymore. 

I’ve seen things about how all men are scumbags or try to belittle females and that’s just not true. 

Are there sexist pigs that aren’t worth your time out there? Hell yes there is.

Are there racist fucks who have their heads so far up their own arseholes that they can’t even see the real world anymore? Sadly, yes there is. 

And bitch, is there people out there who call (racist! homophobic! sexist!) at fucking anything and everything. 

Yeah

Yeah there are. 

I can’t believe people will fight me on this but fuck it.

Not all white people are the scum of the earth because of the colour of their skin.

Not all black people are good people. Not all black people want equal rights more than they want to shout “FUCK WHITES!” and spread even more hate.

Not all gay/trans/nonbinary etc are good, loving people. Not everyone supporting feminism/BLM/equality for all, actually want equality for all.

I’ve always been a believer of racism in all aspects. As in all races can be racist towards other races because no matter how much you say otherwise, for the most part, that is what racism is now. It judging people by the colour of their skin, or religion. 

You can’t attack someone and justify it by saying that ‘no one other than white people can be racist’, because that’s bullshit. The fact that people glossed over that lad who was kidnapped and tortured by those black teens because he was white and autistic is fucking sickening. 

A black man shot by police for pulling out his wallet, was the same as that white man who got shot for pulling out a fucking walking stick. Its not a race problem, its a police problem. Trigger happy, under-trained cops with power is the problem. 

Like I said, I truly believe racism and prejudice still exist, of course it does, but the way some of you try to deal with it man... its no fucking wonder others don’t take SJW/BLM/feminism seriously anymore. 

Acting as if all people of colour, female or different sex or religion is a sensitive wee sausage who has to be protected, their culture has to be protected.

We share culture to learn about others culture, its why we go to different countries. Someone selling burritos or having dreadlocks is very fucking different from someone wearing blackface and outright mocking someone for their culture. 

We don’t focus on the real acts of racism, or the real acts of sexism and so on, because we’re too busy making up new problems. Nonsense problems that never fucking existed until you lot made it an issue. 

Terrorism is a very real issue all over the world. Right now.

Shootings and suicide bombers are killing innocent people all over the world. People are losing their loved ones.

If there was a time where we all need to stand together and unite with one another, bitch its now. Now is not the time for your fabricated privilege shit.

Let me sum it up,

You don’t live in North Korea. You’re privileged.

You aren’t living on the streets. You’re privileged.

You don’t live in a place where bombs are being dropped daily, starving to death, being raped and pregnant at the age of fucking 13 you are fucking privileged. 

You live in the US? The UK? You aren’t doing too fucking bad then are you. 

At least you don’t live somewhere where you could potentially get thrown in prison or be killed cold blooded for being gay, or in a country where internet access and free speech is forbidden. Yeah, trying telling the white man who was thrown in prison for no just cause other than he disagreed with someone of higher power that he’s fucking privileged. 

Tell any white male that hes a privileged piece of shit even though he is literally going through the trash looking for scraps to eat and things to sell. 

If you’re gonna tell me that none of what I said is true, then look no further than a feminist compilation on Youtube. Women screaming at the tops of their lungs because a man said hi to them on the street? Are you kidding me?

Just... I didn’t mean for this to be this long, I got into a bit of a tizzy. 

All I want as a human being in my life is to be happy, and for other to be happy, believe it or not.

I want racism and sexism and homophobia to end too, of course I do. 

I want to live in peace with everyone else on the planet we all share, but apparently that’s never gonna fucking happen. But love outweighs hate. 

Always. 

Treat people the way you want to be treated, show people acts of kindness.

That’s all I want.

I’m just mad that I’ve lost any faith that these movements are going to do anyone any good. Extremists ruin everything and at this point that’s a fact.

I’m gonna ask that you don’t attack me for this, but I doubt asking is gonna do much good for some. 

And while I support the foundations of these things, I don’t support what they’ve become. Thats it.